“7 Questions (& Answers) about Self Belief”

About a week ago I was asked if I would answer some questions about self belief. I’m asked these sorts of questions often so I thought the answers might be useful to put in a post.  More information below…

Hi Hemal,
I hope you are doing great. I am reading a book on how to improve my grades in school, and I am on a part which talks about self-belief. I have an exercise to complete which is to ask a few questions to those that I admire the most. I thought that you would be the perfect person to ask. I know that you are a busy man and I won’t mind if you can’t take time to answer these, but I would really appreciate your response.  :)

1. What compels you to take action and begin any type of work or project?

To follow my inspiration and what feels good (or ‘best’ in that moment).

2. What makes you keep on taking action when you feel overwhelmed? What makes you think you can finish it and do a great job of it?

Staying in the moment as best as possible.  Having faith and ‘knowing’ you will, but staying in the moment and enjoying it regardless of the outcome.

3. Others have not accomplished what you have. What do you think makes you different than them?

It’s not about what others do or not do.  It’s about whether I want to do it and if I do then staying in the moment and doing it.

4. When you have a challenge in front of you, how do you deal with it and how do you get past it?

Don’t see it as a challenge unless it inspires you positively, but focus on the outcome and how you’d like it to be and build that up.

5. What goes in your head when someone tells you that you can’t achieve your goal?

It’s not about what others think, it’s about oneself and their flow and their feelings/beliefs

6. What if you are wrong or if you make a mistake? How do you deal with this?

There are no mistakes.  If something doesn’t quite happen how you’d expect, see it as still fine as you got many other things out of it and what you needed from it you ‘perfectly’ got.

7. Can you provide me with any suggestions to help me develop a successful mindset?

Start with the intention and the application and continue building it.

And check out my free audios and blog!

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Oh my God!!  These are the best answers I could get!!! You are awesome!! :D Thank you so much!  I really really really appreciate you taking time to answer them. Have a wonderful week! :D

Anything YOU’d like to share?  Feel free to share in the comments below.

FREE “BEAUTY in LIVING” Wallpaper for May 2010

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Many of you will remember the downloadable wallpapers from this blog last year with the inspiring quotes and pictures.  We have one for May that you can download right away!

The quote says:

“See the BEAUTY in places you never looked before for beauty.
Remember that the gift of life isn’t just in the having of it, but in the LIVING of each moment of it…”
~ Hemal Radia.

To download it, right click on the appropriate link below and “Save Target/Link As” and save it to your computer.

You can download this image in various sizes depending on the resolution of your computer:


Enjoy the wallpaper!  And feel free to leave a comment below and let me know what you think ;)


LOA in Vegas

“Law of Attraction in Las Vegas with Hemal Radia” Event

LOA in Vegas

For quite some time, quite a few of you have been asking to see me live.  You will now be able to do so!

Later this year I will be doing a live event in Las Vegas billed as “Law Of Attraction in Las Vegas with Hemal Radia“. 

I will be covering a lot of Law of Attraction material and you will not only be getting information and insights, but transformation also.  Anytime you cover something that expands your perspective and awareness, it cannot not create transformations within you, and of course raise vibration.

You hear the term “Law of Attraction”, but it’s really about finding ‘You’, and as you do that and offer a clearer signal to the Universe, you get more and more confirmation of it with manifestations and synchronicities.  As you find your flow, you have a smoother alignment with a larger flow and things flow more easily into your life.

It will be a weekend event at the Trump International hotel.  We also have a special arrangement with the hotel for attendees.  Based on a first come first served basis, room rates for “Studio suites” will be $99 (excl taxes), plus our attendees will get a view of the Las Vegas Strip from their rooms.

You can find out MUCH more about the event and what’s in it at the Law Of Attraction in Las Vegas with Hemal Radia page.

Below is a video for the event.  If you are accessing this post via the
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“When someone says something unkind to you…”

I thought I would share some quotes with you that were shared on my Facebook Groups & Pages earlier.  Since they went out, I have been swamped with mail (in the nicest of ways)!  (And thank you!)

I'll share the quotes and also where you can get more:

"When someone says something to you unkind, remember that what they are saying is a projection. It says more about them than it does about you. If your reaction is of sadness or fear, that's your stuff. Work on that. All the other stuff is their stuff. What they say is their stuff, how you respond (including within yourself) is your stuff. Keep yourself around people that appreciate you." ~ Hemal Radia

This was on the Manifesting & Law of Attraction page

"Someone who is fine being 'alone' in their own company need never be alone. Someone who is prosperous in any moment need never be poor. Someone who finds the joy in each moment need never be sad." ~ Hemal Radia

This was on the Hemal Radia page

Some of my quotes are sent out on the Hemal Radia Appreciation Group on Facebook three times a week.  There is also the Universal Law of Attraction group on Facebook too.

If you would like to send a friend request on Facebook, you can do so at Hemal Radia profile on Facebook.

I also send out quotes occasionally on Twitter and you can 'follow' me on there at Hemal Radia on Twitter.

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Honoured to be Amongst “The Masters”

Recently I was honoured to be asked by Quantum Attraction website if they could include me on their page of “The Masters”.  Also on the page are Esther Hicks/Abraham, Deepak Chopra, Wayne Dyer amongst various others.

 

(You can access the page by clicking the pic below, or by clicking here)

 

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“How to Make Affirmations, Goals, Mantras, and much more, work for you”

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I received a question about how to make affirmations, goals and mantras work “better”, which stimulated me to write a bit on this subject.  The answer goes beyond the scope of what was asked in the question.

From my other articles or teleseminars, you’ll know my emphasis of focusing on the feeling of what you are doing (and wanting); that is the indicator of your vibration about it – and being a vibrational match to what you want is how you let it into your life.  If you are not connecting with your feelings, you’re not evoking your spirit, which is what we’re here to do after all, aren’t we? :)

What many people are not aware of when they use goals, affirmations, mantras, visualisation, or anything else, is that it is not about what you use, but it is ALWAYS about your vibration.  When you are looking to make Law of Attraction work for you, it is about you and your vibration.  What will work for you best will be that which raises your vibration the best, in that moment.  There are times you use a fork, there are times you use a spoon; similarly, you can use different techniques for different things.


“It is about the vibrational relationship between where you are and your desires.  Your emotions are the indicator of that relationship, and what you need to be doing to be closing the gap.”


This is something that I tell my clients and guide them with.  When you are looking to use a technique, it is just a tool for you to work with your vibration, as is everything else – actually, as is everything else in life.  In your experiences in life, you make choices and preferences and decisions – you are always moulding and adapting your vibration in all of these instances.  There is no moment in your existence when you are not influencing your vibration (for one reason, that is what you are: a physical extension of who you are on a deeper level).  Every thought that you are thinking, even the ones not in your conscious awareness, are shaping your vibration and what is coming into your life.

There is so much I can say about techniques, and oftentimes I do, especially in the teleseminars.  On the question of goals, affirmations and mantras, here are a few quick tips about them:

1 – Does it feel good when you think about the goal etc?  If not, why do you have it as a goal?  Because others want you to have it?  Ensure it is because you feel good about it.

2 - If it feels good, how can you tweak the goal (or affirmation or mantra or whatever you are using) so that it feels better?  Can you think of something more to this goal that you can add?  Something else?  More specificity?  A different colour?  More belief in what you can have?  What ways can it feel even better?

3 – If it’s an affirmation or mantra (i.e. “words”), there are certain words we have which are emotionally loaded.  How about “money”, or “soulmate” or “sex” for example.  Find the words that you have that feel the best for you, relative to what you are wanting, and put them in your affirmation or mantra.  Use modifiers to make it feel even better – words that make it feel even better, eg “my palatial mansion”, “my beautiful car”, “the woman/man of my dreams“, “deep peace” etc.

4 – Mantras can be different things to different people.  For some, they may be something they repeat to “get” something (such as a goal).  For others, they may use mantras to create a peaceful mind and be in the moment – it is more ‘state’ oriented than ‘goal’ oriented.  For example, they may repeat something whilst doing breathing exercises to orient themselves in their now.  If this is the case, then be aware of this and choose the words that best orient you in your now and your attention in the direction that you would like to be going.

5 – The goal which you visualise or affirm is relative to where you are at, vibrationally.  As you grow vibrationally and get closer to it, it can mean and feel differently.  Pay attention to your feelings.  You are an expanding being, and as you grow and expand, focus and include the things that feel best to you – similar to as mentioned above about making it feel better and better.

“It’s about raising your vibration, not about the ‘things’.  If you raise your vibration, the ‘things’ will come.

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Reconnecting on Facebook

In case you’re not aware, about a week ago, for some reason which I did not receive a clear answer on, my profile and the “Hemal Radia” page were deleted on Facebook.

I have a new “Hemal Radia” profile and page and you are welcome to connect at both, although I will look to have more interactions on the page.  They are at:

Hemal Radia Profile

Hemal Radia Page

Hemal Radia Page on Facebook

Manifesting & Law of Attraction Page

Although this was unaffected, if you are not on it, then feel free to check out the Manifesting & Law of Attraction Page

I look forward to connecting with you! :)

Other useful links include:

Hemal Radia Appreciation Group on Facebook, where they send out my quotes three times a week

Universal Law of Attraction Group on Facebook

Hemal Radia Twitter profile, where I ‘tweet’ many quotes and content

“How can you be a Vibrational Match?”

Jay Lakhani:  There is an Abraham quote: If there is something that you desire and it is not coming to you, it always means the same thing. You are not a vibrational match to your own desire.”  So how can you easily achieve a vibrational match?

The easiest way is by thinking of it and from it. What happens for most people is they let other thoughts get in the way. It’s about thinking about something and by the attention to it (without resistance), letting it build; and it attracts more thoughts, and more thoughts, and then physical manifestation.

Playing with thoughts is one way, eg “Wouldn’t it be lovely for me to be with the love of my life?  How would it feel to drive the car I’d love to have?  How would it be to live in the house I want?  How will I decorate it?”  And so on.  It’s just many people get stuck on the “how to” and their beliefs about it being/not being possible, rather than being open to the possibilities and focusing on the envisioning and letting the Universe find the answers, commensurate with your vibration.

Every thought has a vibration. To be a vibrational match to something, have thoughts about it.


Hi Hemal > Many thanks for the kind contribution, really appreciate your effort! Very nicely explained. Thanks again.

Download the FREE “Making 2010 Great For YOU!” audio

You are very, very good at what you do. Great insight, great wisdom & delivery that creates ah-ha moments. I really appreciate the gift of it Hemal. So much appreciation coming to you right now from me.

– Lena Mitchell Jasiak

For those of you who haven’t downloaded the audio of the recent “Making 2010 Great For YOU!” teleseminar, you can do so here!  This event was very popular and HUGELY appreciated, as you will see.  There is content at the start about making this a great year for you, followed by insights to questions submitted.

It was scheduled for an hour and ended up being two hours because there were so many questions and interactions on it!  There is a lot of information here and great answers to some great questions.  And it’s a FREE audio to download. 

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I love the way you are so effortless when you talk about the Law of Attraction, unlike so many other speakers who almost make it sound like something incomprehensible … You are doing much good Hemal! … and I feel really blessed to have connected with you here.  The content, which I always find really valuable because even though it is stuff that I mostly know (on a deeper level) … again, you simplify it and make it so easy to apply.

– Georgina Laros, South Africa


This is fabulous… so much good
information and you’re hitting on so many areas that resonate here.
Your presentation was great last time and it’s even better this time.
Thank you!

– Krystal, Southern California

Thank you so much, Hemal! You answered all of my
questions, and in doing so gave me guidance to move ahead. As a side
benefit I found peace within myself for the ways you have offered
guidance to deal with my quandries! I look forward to your continuing
guidance!

– Judy Green, USA

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There were countless questions answered, some included:

- How do I manifest loads of money when I have never experienced it before?  How do I stop feeling discouraged when I compare myself to others successes in manifesting?

- What do I do when I feel my soulmate and twin flame is with another?

- I have used goal setting in the past and at times it has worked and at other times not.  Can you please guide me on this and on staying positive?

- I know it’s best to think only of the present moment -“the Now” – but how do I focus and be positive as I continue to endure several simultaneous and overwhelming life-changing situations this year?

- What if we attract something which is contrary to the lessons we may have chosen to learn. eg, what if our path is to learn to be poor to serve the poor, but we want to be comfortable financially?

- What do you do about negative people bombarding your life?  They seem to be all around and pulling you down.

- What if what you would like to manifest is possible but it seems “mountains will have to move out of the way” or a miracle occur for it to happen?  Still keep believing?

- I am looking to meet a partner that I can share my world with as well as start a family. I have been dating and continue to meet men that show interest and similar goals but when I express my interest in a relationship things take a different direction.  What can I do?

- As a result of some things that have happened, I doubt I will ever be as successful and get as much money now.  I fear I will become lonely, lose my friends, and that they are judging me. That they have views about me that I won’t like.  Is there something that can be done?

Thank you Hemal for valuable conversation!
You are extraordinary person! Please, keep walking your special way!
Have fantastic 2010 year! !

– Olga, Lugansk, Ukraine

It was very insightful and inspiring. Thank you for sharing your wisdom to the world :)

– Karla M. Nashar, Indonesia