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Are you living far less of a life than you are capable of because? Perhaps not even being aware that you are?

Saturdays Manifesting Excellence call was about “Authenticity, Self-Esteem & Self Value” as well as answering questions that had been submitted.

We often become conditioned to our mental patterns and how we see ourselves.

For example when we grow up in a family situation where we may consistently be served last or a school situation where we are treated as not intelligent or capable or if we have been in an unhealthy relationship, we can inadvertently take on notions that we are not deserving of being happy or having what we want.

This can become very ingrained within us and we have no awareness of it because we are too busy living from those paradigms to even realise them.

Self-esteem and self-value can impact:
    – Your income
    – Your relationships and friendships
    – Your health
    – Your manifesting abilities and what you allow in your life – ie your quality of living

We also talked about authenticity on the call.  It is about alignment in what you say and what you do, as well as in relation to the energetic aspect of who you are.

When this is NOT in alignment we experience emotional pain and lives where what we want doesn’t happen.

If you’d like to know more about this click here to register for Manifesting Excellence and access the above call.

 
Manifesting is an expression of your being rather than an activity of your rational mind.  When you are drawn to something it pulls you towards it, rather than you having to ‘think’ your way to it.

This coming Saturday on the Manifesting Excellence call/audio we will be covering “Authenticity, Self-esteem & Self-value“, next week I will be sharing a method I developed in getting your daily thoughts into alignment to what you want so that it happens quickly in line with what we are talking about here.

What happens for many is daily they find themselves in a whirlpool of thoughts and emotions and they can’t think of what they want, it is too much against the tide of fear and anxiety and other emotions they are feeling.

They can’t sleep, they feel tired, they feel other symptoms. I’ll share a way of changing this and moving towards what you want.

When you truly manifest you don’t need to ‘think’, the energy ‘pulls’ you (like a magnetic experience). The right thoughts, ideas, manifestations and happenings pave the way to what you want.

For most people this doesn’t happen because their thoughts are going in mixed directions so very little tends to happen or if there is inspiration it is crowded out by noise and not realised in physical manifestation.

When you have thoughts going in different directions it’s like trying to lift or pull something with your arms and legs pointing in different directions – that’s not ‘alignment’ because you are diffusing and your effort and energy.

It’s the same with manifesting, you want alignment with your thoughts.  The reason things feel hard when your thoughts are in different directions is you are ‘splitting’ your energy.  When you lift something with alignment it’s easy, it doesn’t feel like hard work.

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Relationship Expert Gladys Diaz has asked me to be amongst 20 speakers to speak in her upcoming “From Heartache to Your Heart’s Desires“relationships telesummit.

The telesummit is free to access and starts on May 6th. We recorded our call last week and it will be broadcast on May 17th at 7.30am Eastern Time/12.30pm UK time.

Some of the things we spoke about included:
– Dealing with Blocks and ‘Heartache’
– Manifesting a Relationship
– Creating Space for What You Want
– If you are in a Relationship then Honouring it and Treating it and your Partner as Sacred
– Not Confusing ‘Love’ and Finding Safety from an Unhealthy Relationship

It was a spontaneous and fun conversation in which we covered a lot in the time that we had.

Do check out the telesummit and let me know what you think of what we covered!

You can register for it for free at http://tinyurl.com/fromheartachetoheartsdesires

People talk so much about ‘creating’ and ‘manifesting’ that it is really about the ‘allowing’ of our spirit, our ‘magic’, which leads to our physical manifestations.

I find myself often mentioning this on the Manifesting Excellence calls (like yesterday) that it is very much the case that what we want already exists and it is about the allowing of it into physical manifestation.  One of the easiest ways to manifest is to ask yourself how are you preventing the natural manifestation of what you want?

DO YOU NOT REALISE YOU ARE NATURALLY MANIFESTING *ALL THE TIME*?

You (I presume) don’t have to think twice about the manifestation of your next breath or your next meal or seeing the brilliance of daylight tomorrow. These are all very much embedded (in your beliefs and energy) as part of your world. These are very ‘normal’ to you.

That’s the thing. Many people see their manifestation as something which is ‘beyond’ normal. They almost have to skip their belief system (which believes it is beyond normal to have this thing that they want) than to actually make it feel very ‘normal’ and natural to have what they want.

They see what they want as outside of their beliefs and they go against the current and ‘hope‘ (despite their beliefs) that it will happen.  Do you hope that the sun comes out tomorrow or that you’ll be able to breathe in the next minute?  You don’t need to.  Because you expect it.

NATURAL LAWS ARE ON YOUR SIDE!

What are your beliefs about what you want? Is it meant to be difficult? Rare? Are you going against natural laws of abundance in thinking this? Why would you want to think of what you want as rare or difficult? Why not think of it as natural and something that will naturally come into your life one way or another (let go of the how).

MAKE IT FAMILIAR AND NATURAL

Over the years I have manifested many things and when I’ve gotten what I want the way I’ve done it (and there are many ways of doing it) is by working on my beliefs (frequent thoughts) and having what I want to be very familiar and natural – in fact so familiar and natural that I pretty much don’t even have to think about it (aha, that ‘letting go’ phenomenon!)

How are you thinking about YOUR goals?  How do they feel to you?
How have you manifested some of the things that you have manifested?
Share your thoughts below!

Hemal Radia is the author of “Find You & You Find Everything: The Secrets to the Law of Attraction” as well as a ‘super’ coach/mentor and speaker.

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It can be easy at times to forget how breathtakingly amazing you are…

There are times when you may have confusion and much and many pulling at you.  Remember to give yourself some space.  You are of little value to yourself or others if you are out of your groove.

It is about getting yourself away from the things that are taking you out of your flow so that you can stabilise yourself, and ground yourself, and build a platform to grow from.

If you have read my Find You & You Find Everything: The Secrets to the Law Attraction book you will know that your divine nature and your ‘godliness’ is a natural aspect of you, other than when you resist it and take yourself out of your flow.

Negative emotions, doubting yourself, perceiving yourself with low self-esteem, self-chatter about what is wrong and other behaviours like those are how you resist your divinity.  If you take all that ‘stuff’ out of it, magic happens.

Whether it be about doing something different, distracting yourself, making a list and working through it – whatever it is, step away from it.  Create the space so that you can get into your flow.

It is not that you have to ‘create’ your flow, it’s just that you have to ‘allow’ it.

It’s like when you go down a slide at the playground.  You don’t have to create a slide.  You just have to reduce the resistance so you can allow something that is natural to happen.

This is the same with your flow and the manifestations you are wanting.  When you think what you do you naturally ‘allow’ that which is already yours…

You have mind blowing capabilities beyond your wildest dreams.  Allow them…

Hemal Radia is the author of “Find You & You Find Everything: The Secrets to the Law of Attraction” as well as a ‘super’ coach/mentor and speaker.

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Too often people complain that Law of Attraction doesn’t work or that they are not able to manifest what they want.

When I ask them some questions it quickly becomes apparent that they are wanting something that they are not energetically lined up to.

When you think about what you are wanting, are you describing it as “over there” whilst wanting it and not thinking of it as “over here”?  There is an implication in your definition of it that it is not here and it is “over there”; this is reflected energetically which perpetuates the gap between you and what you want.

When you are in your flow, in your groove, in ‘alignment’, you don’t think of it as being “over there”.  There is no sense of gap and oftentimes you are so in your groove there is only a sense of here and now – you are the centre point of the Universe from your perspective.

Think about the time when you totally loved someone.  Whether they were in your life at that moment or not, think about that time when you had a whole-body experience in feeling the emotions and so much love and appreciation for this person.  Notice how you are so full of emotion that it was timeless and space less – there is only the here and the now.

The ‘gap’ of something being “over there” often appears when someone isn’t fully happy about what is “over here”.  They are not fully at peace with the way things are or how their present is.

Make peace with the present.  This is a way of closing the gap energetically.

When you are truly in your flow and BEING from where you want to be, energetically, paradoxically you actually aren’t thinking about your goal (not from a ‘lackful’ perspective anyway), you are too busy enjoying your present.

You will know this from your own experiences.  It almost like when you don’t ‘care’ about the outcome (it’s not that you don’t care, you do value it, it’s actually that you have less anxiety and negative emotions – ‘heaviness’ – connected to it, it feels lighter), you are too busy living your now, and ironically you are the most attractive to what you want at that point anyway.

What experiences do you have with this?
What examples do you have on when you have ‘let go’ and found yourself very attractive to the things that you have been wanting?

Share your thoughts and experiences in the comments below.

Hemal Radia is the author of “Find You & You Find Everything: The Secrets to the Law of Attraction” as well as a ‘super’ coach/mentor and speaker.

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Do you ever find yourself out of ‘synch’ with yourself? Do you find yourself sometimes pulled in different directions, perhaps having mixed emotions about the same thing, or not quite sure what is important to you?

On yesterday’s Manifesting Excellence call (the audio of which is accessible in the archives there) I talked about why this could be happening and what to do about it.  I will share some of the aspects of it here and if you’d like more of the context around it you can access the call.

THERE IS A REASON WHY WE HAVE THE THOUGHTS, BEHAVIOURS AND EMOTIONS THAT WE DO

You are a collection of thoughts, emotions, beliefs (collections of thoughts), identity (more collections of thoughts!) and so much more.

In our lives we ‘choose’ (even if it is unconsciously) all sorts of thoughts, emotions and behaviours to fulfil intentions (even if at the time the intention is unconscious and outside of our awareness).

For example someone growing up early in life in an uncomfortable situation with their parents or siblings, or someone later in life in an unhealthy relationship situation, may choose to have ‘anger’ as a protective mechanism.

However what happens later in time when they are out of the early family dynamic or the relationship situation and the anger is no longer needed?  What if they are then around friends or a new relationship and this anger manifests itself in an unhealthy way?

This is what I talked about yesterday – that behaviours, thoughts and emotions we have can become outdated and out of context and then become not only unhelpful but can potentially also be counter-productive.

ARE YOU AWARE OF YOUR THOUGHTS WHICH ARE OUTDATED AND COUNTER-PRODUCTIVE?

All behaviours, thoughts and emotions we choose are with an intention in mind, even an unconscious one (I shared on the call yesterday, and more next week, on how to access this).  Over time the context or situation may change and the thoughts, behaviours and emotions that we believed once served us may not be necessary any more – in fact they can be counter-productive.

This applies behaviourally and also when someone is looking to manifest what they want.  If you are having thoughts of your past or anxieties about losing your job or that your partner is not being loyal or money worries or concerns about your health condition, in likelihood it is counter-productive to positive outcomes you may be wanting.

Realise that everything has a behavioural (or thought or emotion etc) side to it and an intention.  A behavior taken on at one point for an intention may get separated from the original intention or the behaviour may not serve that intention any more, like the examples mentioned above.

Another example is someone who eats chocolate (behaviour) because it makes them value and feel good about themselves (intention).  But time goes by and as a result (in a simplistic model of this, putting aside any other contributing factors) they are now gaining weight and looking very different and the behaviour (eating chocolate) is now incongruent with the intention (feeling good about themselves/valuing themselves).

It is the same on a thought level.  The reason you have not (yet) manifested what you want is you have thoughts, consciously and unconsciously, which are incongruous with where you want to be.

What thoughts, behaviours and emotions do you currently have that do not support you?
What was the original intention when you took them on? 
And where are you now heading (intentions about your present or future)?

Share your thoughts and questions in the comments below.

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