Attracting Money using Appreciation: A Real-Life Example

 

Attracting Money using Appreciation: A Real-Life Example

 

Want to hear an example of how someone used appreciation and gratitude in attracting money to the sum of $350 within a few days?

I was approached by someone wanting to be a new client a week ago, whom I have been working with since then.  She doesn’t speak English very well, and so she preferred our interactions to be via email and audio replies which I sometimes send out to clients.  She is also on Manifesting Excellence and has been listening to the audios there.

She is in a job where she is not happy, in a relationship and living at a place where she would like to be able to have some contemplation away from.

The financial means to do so would be very helpful to her.  Hence, when she got in touch she wanted to get into her flow and attract work opportunities, financial resources, and more.

 

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Getting a Sense of What’s Valuable to Work on Now

When I start working with someone I get a sense right away on where they are energetically and the steps for them to take at that moment.  In her case, I got her to start making lists of what she appreciated in her life.  I felt at the time that this would be the most useful thing for her.

I get a sense of what is most valuable for the client at the time, and also what they would enjoy the most as I want people to enjoy themselves, have fun, and be in their flow.

She was feeling the benefits of my suggestions in how she felt about herself right away and would tell me so.

I amped it up further and suggested she did the appreciation more frequently in the day, such as every few hours when she could, or even more frequently than that.  I also shared this approach in more detail on the Manifesting Excellence private group.

 

Shift the Energy, and Things Around You Shift Too

Things started happening in her life.  She felt more energy, she felt more of a purpose in her life.  And no longer did she allow the work that she hadn’t been enjoying to get her down, because she had something much bigger and better to focus on.

Within days, at the start of this week, she attracted a situation where she won $350 as well as various other happenings.

I wanted to share this example in how making subtle shifts in your energy can change things around you, including in attracting money.

Noticing the things that you DO have in your life is a great place to start in focusing on what is PRESENT in your life.

One, it magnifies your attention to what you DO have, and secondly, if you are focusing on what is present, that is time and attention that you WON’T be spending on lack – a two-fold effect on the energy that you are putting out.

 

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“Attracting Money, Jobs, and Material ‘Possessions'” On This Week’s Live Call

Just to let you know that the live call this coming Saturday on the Manifesting Excellence program is about "Attracting Money, Jobs, and Material 'Possessions'" or any questions related to it.

This has come about from various member questions about these subjects, so we thought we'd have a live call where you can submit questions for it.  It can be about a situation that you're in, a challenge, other aspects of 'attracting', or anything else related to this.

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Upon joining, you can interact with others on a private group on Facebook as well as submit any questions you have if you'd like to.

Having Your Dreams Happen by Remembering Your Divinity

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When you think of your dreams or goals, how do they feel? Is there a heaviness about them? An element of ‘need’? What if they didn’t happen? How would you feel?

If there is any element of ‘heaviness’ or tightness about them, in likelihood there is an element of attachment on some level. That does not necessarily mean there is anything wrong with the goal, but your perspective about it.

 

What happens in your life is down to your perspective and vibration about something than what the situation is. Your perspective and vibration ARE what make it what it is to you.

 

 

RELATIONSHIP EXAMPLE

If two people have been beautiful lovers, are perhaps married now, and after time they are feeling a bit of heaviness in the relationship, does that mean that there is something ‘wrong’ in the relationship? Not necessarily. But it does suggest that what they are focusing on within the relationship has changed.

So, what if these two people decided that they would now remind themselves what made them fall in love with the other in the first place? And perhaps make a list of 10 things that they adore about the other and what is so special and priceless and unique about them. Would that change how they feel about the other? Would that allow the relationship to be in that light, fluffy place full of possibilities? Absolutely! It would raise their vibration and more and more possibilities, love, inspiration, and ‘MAGIC’ would enter their experience.

 

When you raise your vibration, you reach that tingly place of possibilities where it’s all possible.


At higher vibrations, the energy is more fluid and lighter and possibilities are free-flowing and you are more connected to your Infinite Intelligence. With attachment, negative emotions etc, it is not as fluid, it is heavier, and is more static.

 

 

YOUR DREAMS, AND YOUR DIVINITY

When you think of your goals or dreams, how can you think of them that feels the best? What aspects about them can you think about them that feels the best?

 

If it emotionally feels better, that is your indication of you getting further into alignment with your goal and the indication of it being in your reality sooner.


Also, consider what aspects should you take your attention off? Sometimes we have a goal, say wanting money, but we are fearful of us not having it at the moment. If you take your attention off that and onto what feels good about having money and what you will do with it, does that feel better?

 

Focus on the aspects that feel the best about your goal, and take your attention off the aspects that don’t. The Universe will conspire to match you in the energetic relationship you are forming.


Be at peace with your goal happening or not happening, and focus on the aspects you love about it: “My goal, I love you not because of you happening or not happening, but I love you for the joy you give me when I think about you.” Isn’t that ‘unconditional love’? And one of the most attractive forces in the Universe?

Do you remember times when you ‘let go’ of something and stopped thinking about it, it happened? It’s not that you stopped thinking about it that made it happen, it was that you took your attention off the attachment and the lack of it.

When you are in a place of joy and knowingness that you are truly ‘safe’ in this Universe, and that no matter what happens or doesn’t happen, you as an eternal divine spirit – which is who you truly are – will be fine, you are most in synch with everything else.

Many people get caught up in the physical perspective of their lives, and do not always remember they are an eternal spirit having a physical experience. When you remember that, you remember who you truly are, and you shine a beacon in this Universe to draw all that you want to you.

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Law of Attraction Technique to Work with Money (or Anything else)


Here is a technique, using Law of Attraction and vibration, which I started writing about on the Manifesting & Law of Attraction page on Facebook a few days ago.  Quite a few people commented and found it valuable.

Sometimes when in a situation of the absence of money (or anything), it can be not so easy to envision it in your life. If that isn’t easy, allow yourself to make a list of what is good about money itself (or anything else) and how it adds to life in general (regardless of it being in your life or not).


What this does is it allows you to get in touch with the positive aspects of something without having to deal with the resistance of it being or not being in your life. You are not making a list of money in your life (unless it feels comfortable to do so) but on what ways money in general is good – you are focusing on, and practicing, positive associations to it and about it.

 
 

What you attract is not based on what you ‘think’ but on what you ‘feel’ (vibrate) and ‘are’.  It’s not about logic, but about who you are – your ‘beingness’ – and what you are projecting from your place of power.

  


Once you practice your positive associations about something, you will be shifting your focus and attention in that context to things that feel better.  In doing this, you can then be in a better vibrational place to write/think about it being in your life and visualise/imagine it etc. 
 
You are in essence building a vibrational bridge from where you were starting to where you can feel better and think, feel and envision about what you want and it feeling good. 
 
Sometimes when we start off thinking about something, it doesn’t feel good.  The above process allows you to bridge that and think/feel from a better and more fun place.

The above can be applied to your relationship with anything; money, a person – any context, any-thing.

It’s about shifting your perspective and momentum of thought about a subject to a better place, where you can use other techniques to further build (and attract) it into your life.

Do feel free to share your comments and experiences below (If you are not on the blog, click “Law of Attraction Technique to Work with Money (or Anything Else)” to go to this post on the blog)


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49 Thoughts on Law of Attraction and Money (and Anything else!)

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From the following, take what you enjoy and what resonates for you at this moment.  At another time, something else may resonate more with you or make more sense to you at that moment ; )

 

1 – You thought this would be about money, didn’t you?  Well, it is, and a whole lot more.  You attracting money, or anything else, isn’t just about what you are intending to attract, but about you and your flow, which is much more than just that ‘thing’.  When you are in that place, you attract money, and all sorts of other things.

We are talking about money, but abundance and your flow are really what it is about.  Money is a part of that.

2 – Money is a by-product of your energy about the subject.  We can very easily focus on the financial condition and not realise the cause – that it is an energetic cause.

3 – There is no limit to what can flow into your life, other than your beliefs.

4 – You can focus on abundance or lack, the Universe will magnify either.

5 – Money (or anything else) is a manifestation of your consciousness.  It is a non-physical Universe, and it is also a physical world that you live in.  What is around you is an energetic match to your thoughts and emotions.

6 – One of the key reasons people do not attract the wealth they would like is their attention to lack or on what they do not have or on what will happen because they do not have enough.  Or they have associations to money which are negative and repell it.

7 - Take your attention away from the lack of it.  Make a list of the thoughts you have on a daily basis which focus on the lack of money and work on letting them go. (More tips on this below)

8 – You may say “Well, the reality is I DON’T have enough, what am I supposed to do?”

Focus on aspects of money that feel good (or better, or less worse – something which is an improvement). Turn your attention away from ‘reality’.  Deal with what you need to in the real and action world, but don’t dwell on the lack of it.  Turn your attention towards what feels good about it. Whether something in the present moment, something you can fantasise in the future, or even a past memory.  They key is the emotion you create in your now about it.  You are attracting more that is a match to it.

9 – It’s not just the thoughts about something, but the emotion/vibration behind it.  That’s KEY.

10 – The feelings you have about something are from the combination of your beliefs about that subject.

Notice how all these thoughts FEEL. Do they uplift you and flow your natural spirit through you?  Or are there implications around fear and lack?

 

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11- All it takes is to find a pure thought - a thought that is of what you want, and build on it.  This is what Law of Attraction is, on a very simple level.

Find a thought that feels good.  Do not doubt it or contradict it.  Focus on the enjoyment of it, and allow it to build and build.  Most people do not get through a sentence without saying why they can’t have it or contradicting what they want.  Keep your focus on positive statements and build those statements.  Add more and more.  Build the vibration of what you want.  The excitement will build and you will see manifestations.

12 – There is no conflict between money, or whatever else, and anything else in this Universe, other than your beliefs about it.

Just like anything and everything else in this Universe, money and abundance is as beautiful as you want to see it.  It’s to do with the eyes you see it from, not what it is.  Allow yourself to be fine about it.  You don’t have to share it with others, especially if they have different views, but allow yourself to be fine about it.

Conflicts are “I can EITHER have this OR that”.  Make it about “As I have this, I have that TOO”, or “In me having this, I get to have so much more of everything else too”.  Money, like anything else, is a tool to your expansion.  You can choose whichever tools you’d like in your life.

13 – Money, like anything else, does not make someone good or bad. It magnifies who they are. It is an enabler, a magnifier.

14 – You may feel that money is not consistent with service or spiritual development.  Remember, despite it being intelligence, the Universe is energy and offers no judgement – you do through your beliefs.  Money, literally, is as ‘spiritual’ as anything else is.  It is all the same.  You carve the Universe into distinctions through your beliefs.

If you believe that service or spiritual development and money are incompatible, then they will be for you.  If you believe that you can thrive with them and money, you will thrive.

15 – There is nothing wrong with money or anything else.  Your associations – your thoughts, especially your instinctive thoughts about it, are what influences how it is for you.

16 – You may be visualising or affirming more money, but how do you FEEL?  It’s not about the thoughts, but more so about the EMOTIONS you experience.

Notice the frequency/vibration you have about money by your emotions about it.  You attract things within that vicinity.  Whether things of a financial nature, or other things.

17 – When many others teach Law of Attraction, they may often hype it with promises of monetary gain and other material delights.  That’s absolutely fine.  I just want you to know it’s about that, and anything else you want it to be.

Law of Attraction is a universal law, it applies to EVERYTHING, and everywhere.  You can attract whatever you want. 

18 – It is not necessarily about believing you can attract money, it is about not resisting your flow of money.  Energy, like a stream of water, flows, other than when it is blocked or misdirected.

If you can enjoy money (thus offering the vibration of it), and not doubt or fear it or anything else, you are on your way.  Allow yourself to attract more thoughts that match that.

It is actually easier to focus on abundance because the Universe is pure positive energy, that is your natural birthright, and that is where your natural flow is.  It’s just that along the way you learned habits, behaviours and attitudes that prevented you from knowing who you are (the infinite vibrational pure positive being that you are that knows no limits, is connected to everything, and is full of and knows their possibilities).

19 – You have a relationship with everything in this Universe, that includes money, and everything else.

What happens in your relationship with that ‘thing’ is down to how YOU relate to it.  It is a process you are doing in every moment.

When you are out of your flow in a relationship with a lover, they will sense it and it will feel uncomfortable for them.  When you are not feeling very good, it will be picked up by your presence, not necessarily on a seen level, but an unseen level more-so.  When you are joyous and feeling good, this will be attractive and will be felt on an unseen level.  People and situations will be drawn to you.

Now, notice the relationship you have with money and how it feels.  If you were money, would you want to deepen the relationship with you?  Everything in the Universe is vibrating and has an intelligence.  Would money want to seek you?

20 – Play games and imagine having more and more.  You are an expansive, vibrational being.  Allow yourself to daydream, imagine, visualise, and whatever other ways you have of seeing yourself with more.  Pretend that you have greater and greater means if that enables you to imagine more.

Expand the vibrational range you allow yourself to experience.  If you are used to focusing on ‘paying your bills’ and ‘getting by’, allow yourself, if it feels fun, to imagine what it would be like with immeasurable wealth.  How would it be?  What would you do?  Where would you go?  What would you do for the ones you love?

Expand your consciousness around money.  Imagine more flowing in.  Where your attention and energy goes, the Universe goes.  Open up your ‘pores’ and allow it.

 

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21-If time and money weren’t a factor, how would your life be?

Create the thought space for what is to come into your life.

22 – Consider the thoughts and emotions you have (such as about money, or anything else) in your day.

Many people visualise or do other processes but their money situation doesn’t change.  Oftentimes, they are building a vibration when they do their processes, but they then contradict it with worries and fears during the day with their daily observations.  Hence, not a lot changes.  And in some cases they then doubt that Law of Attraction works.  It’s not the Universe that’s at fault, it’s the signal you’re giving it : )

23 – How do you feel when you feel you do not have enough money?

- Lower self-esteem?
– Feeling down
– Feeling restricted?
– Disappointment?

Notice the emotional habits you are having on a daily basis, whether about money or anything else.  Work on raising your ‘set-point’, so to speak.  As you raise your vibration, what you experience in your life also changes.

24 – When you think about money, how does it feel?  Is there a natural upliftment?  or does it feel like something which is hard work or not possible?  Allow yourself to feel good about the subject of money.  Allow yourself to feel good in general.

If you can’t at the moment feel good about money, feel good about something else and don’t think about money, whilst it doesn’t feel good. In feeling good about something else, you are allowing yourself to build that vibration.  Money and abundance can come to you via another avenue, another path of least resistance, if money directly is something you are not lined up with.

(Focus on what feels good and find your flow.  That is better than working on something that is very difficult.)

25 – Initially, because of what they are going through, people may not find it easy to feel good about themselves and money.  So, find pictures in brochures, online etc,and feel good about money as a subject, period.  Then, once that feels good, you can start to imagine it and feel good about it in your life.

Let go of the ‘how’ and other details.  Focus on the enjoymentThe Universe hears your vibration, it doesn’t need to know from your tiny finite conscious mind how you think it should do, it has unlimited, infinite resources that create worlds, and that synchronise nature and planets.  It doesn’t need to know the ‘how’ from you.

26 – When you value yourself enough to be in your flow, allow the Universe to value you and do the same…

27 – The Universe is totally abundant.  It is pure potential waiting for you to impress upon it with your intention and alignment.  It WANTS you to do that, for in the process, it, and you, both expand and grow…

If there ever was a case there wasn’t ‘enough’ (which would never be the case, there is always more than enough), the Universe would expand and create more.  You have no worry of any shortage.  The Universe is an infinite, abundant, unlimited intelligent being.

28 – Usually, people focus on money because they do not have enough of it – the lack of it, usually, but not always.  The ones who have it, will tend to focus on other things such as their joy, passion, love, and money comes as a natural consequence.  The ones who do not have it feel often feel they cannot afford to do that.

29 – How to identify the beliefs you have around money?  I will cover other techniques at the Law of Attraction in Las Vegas event, but one way is take a page and write “Money is…”  and write and write.  Don’t think, just write.

See what you have written on the page.  Notice how it feels.  Now, if you were money, would you be attracted to you?

30 – No matter how bad things are (if they are), they can turn around. All the possibilities available to you aren’t visible.  They become visible by your attention to them.  You have to see them as possible before they appear.

 

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31 – It’s actually not just about money, it’s about you being in your flow.  Money is just a consequence or symptom of you being in tune with your flowThe quickest, easiest way to your flow is finding things that you enjoy.  As you focus on those, and you feel better and better, you are more in harmony with the Universe and what you want.

32 - To be abundant, offer an abundant vibration.

There are various differences and consequences of you living from an abundant vibration versus a scarcity vibration.  This will be covered in detail at the Law of Attraction in Las Vegas event, but they affect the way you look at your world, the choices you make, how they affect you when they make decisions, and so on.

At the Vegas event I will cover these differences, how to be aware of them within yourself, and how to soften things so you live from a place of choice, than ‘need’ or ‘necessity’.  You will also be aware of the linguistic ‘markers’ – in the words or phrases – that you or others use to notice them.

33 – Abundance and scarcity are frequencies.  It is your choice which you want to tune into.  You can focus on shortage and on what there isn’t and on what is so terrible in the world, or you can focus on possibilities, use your imagination, and what is plentiful. Neither is right or wrong, they are both choices.  You have total freewill what you focus upon.  The Universe will deliver to you more of what you are vibrating.

34 – It doesn’t matter what background, education or qualifications or geographically where you are.  This whole Universe is a vibrational Universe.  You change your vibration and either your environment changes to reflect that, or you are naturally drawn to an environment that resonates with you, depending on your path of least resistance.

35 – You may feel that there are situations and conditions in your life that prevent you from having money.  Let go of your beliefs about how money can come to you.

The Universe can only bring you money based on how you believe it can come to you.  Put your vibration on you having the money and let the Universe figure out the ‘how’.  Let go of your beliefs about it.

Money can come to you in as many ways as you allow it to come to you.  If you believe it must be a certain way, it can then only come to you that certain way.

36 – Remember, the Universe is energy and everything is vibration.  The form is malleable based on your thoughts and beliefs.  You are moulding and shaping the Universe, and your experiences within it, by your thoughts, emotions and beliefs.

37 – If you believe you have a genetic disease called ‘poverty’, it is time to get that belief out of your system.  It is time to inject prosperity into your system by your attention to it.
It is not a genetic disease, it is an attention disease.

38 – You may be born in a certain place, amongst certain people, be living amongst certain people or have certain conditions that you believe are not conducive to you having abundance.  Realise your story has a happy ending, and that was all part of the journey. 

It’s not the conditions or the environment that will determine what happens, it’s what you focus upon.  Start to play the story in your mind of the happy ending, despite the conditions you came from. 

Withdraw your focus, internally, than to the conditions and environment on the external.  Soon enough, you will get confirmation from your environment and the manifestations will start.  First as a trickle, but as you allow, they will get quicker and bigger.  They will then tell the story about you and how you ‘made it’, DESPITE the conditions.

39 – It doesn’t matter what anyone says about you and money,  you have your own connection to everything in the Universe.  You can allow yourself to be influenced and affected by others, but no one controls your flow other than you.

40 – When you assume that something outside of you needs to change for you to attract what you want, you tend not to look within as much and to your own powers of divinity.

 

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41- When you feel scared and out of your flow, realise the signals are strongest and ‘loudest’ as to what to do. If everything is darkness, the light is even easier to see.

42 – When you have the abundance and money that you would like, what would it be like?  Are you practising this more than your fears and attention on what you do not have?

How do you see yourself in your mind’s eye?

43 – When you think of you and prosperity, what’s the first thought that comes to your mind?  That can be a clue as to how you see yourself (in relation to prosperity), too.

44 – You will attract whatever your dominant attention is on something. If it on the side of prosperity and abundance, that will build and grow.  If it’s on the side of lack, that’s what you will experience.  The way you know is how you feel.  Is it feeling worse?  Or better?

45 – What is the worst that can happen?  What are your greatest fears?  Make peace with this.

By pushing against it and fearing/not wanting it, it has a ‘charge’.  Make peace with it, whether in terms of things you can do, or how you feel about it, so you let go of the emotions and the ‘charge’ around it.

If you are bullet proof emotionally, if you do not fear (And that is down to your perspective.  We will be going into it in detail at the Law of Attraction in Las Vegas event) something, or have let go of the negative emotions around it, you are creating space around you, vibrationally and physically, for it to come into your life.  At the least you are not keeping your attention on what you don’t want.  That energy you release, creates space for new things.  It also feels better and is kinder on you and your body.

46 – Don’t worry about the past or look back with regret.  Remember you have a fresh platform in your now and the Universe is listening to your vibration right now.

47 – Did we say it’s not just about the money.  In fact, these thoughts apply anywhere and everywhere in your life : )

48 – Allow time and space for you and move towards enjoying your life.  As you raise your vibration, all areas of your life can prosper.

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Jealousy, Control & Fear are Denials of Who You TRULY Are

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“Hi Hemal, I was wondering what your thoughts were on jealousy?

I have been hurt so badly in the past by someone and struggle to move on from that.

I stayed alone for sometime and thought I had dealt with it – via reiki and positive thoughts and law of attraction etc – now I am with my new man I on occasion feel it in my stomach and find it hard to keep under control.Dont get me wrong its not a possessive thing, just the odd occasion where I feel sick to the stomach. I know deep down its my own mind and self esteem and I work with this daily but wondered what your view on it was or any advice from your way….thanks for your time to read ..have a great day

Em x”

 

When we are going into a relationship, we are feeling wonderful things and the beautiful emotions build and build – an example of Law of
Attraction!  And then what happens is we may experience fears and
insecurities and other things may come up.  It may be that we are fearful of losing what we have, or that we have a bit of moment to reflect and absorb what has been happening and start to ‘think’ (and the fears and ‘patterning’ come up) rather than continue ‘being‘ in that wonderful feel-good place.

 

“After people attract something (such as a relationship), they can
sometimes get busy trying not to lose it, which is a very different
vibration to what attracted it to them in the first place…”

 

Jealousy is a response to thinking that something is yours when in fact, like everything else in the Universe, it isn’t, and you are no ones either.  Other than the fact that you are two souls meeting along your journey.

 

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The discomfort that exists is because you are thinking thoughts that
are taking you out of your flow and from what you want.  And what you
want isn’t just this physical being in your life, but the essences of
what you are experiencing.  Whilst your physical body and mind
experiences this person, your soul and essences are experiencing so
much more and that is what led to the physical meeting.

You can’t be jealous if you are on your path and know that you will be ok. You cannot base your own wellbeing on another’s presence and feelings for you, but on your own connection to wellbeing and flow (which in itself is attractive for others to be around you).

You love them and adore them because, as a free being, you are chosing to be with them, and vice versa. There is no attachment or holding, especially emotionally. Allow them to be free, they will appreciate and love you even more for it.  Otherwise, energetically, they will feel constricted too.  And when someone feels constriction or pressure, little things can start to come in (such as disagreements, arguments etc) which can build.  It is far better to have the space within ourselves and allow the other, and ourselves, to be who we are.  To be fearless in all eventualities and being at peace with them, so we can enjoy our now.

 

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“Anytime we build a strong momentum about something, and we experience
strong emotions or fears to the contrary, it can get pretty
uncomfortable.”

You cannot carve out and separate a bit of the Universe (such as a person) and hold it in statis
forever and say it is yours.  Everything is interconnected and
interrelated, as are you. You wouldn’t want it any other way.  You
wouldn’t want to be disconnected from your flow. It is more important
to you than this relationship or anything else, because it is to do
with your relationship with who YOU are as the spiritual being that is
living this physical life.

We fear losing what we have but remember we cannot ‘hold’ or ‘force’ something.  What we can do is deal with the fears about it.  What would happen if this person left?  Be at peace with that.  Have it so that does not scare you and you can focus your emotional energy on appreciating what you two have together.

Anytime a limiting thought comes up, identify the underlying what fear behind it, and let it go.  All fears are limited perspectives of the Universe.  They imply that you will not be ok as a result of something happening or not happening.  When in fact the Universe is wellbeing and does not place conditions on it, only you do.

“You came together to love and adore each other, not to be scared of what the future may hold.”

Any jealousy or element of control is about one’s fear or lack of security or certainty about having or keeping something that they want, or how they want it. It is an illusion because you can never truly ‘have’ something and keep it static forever and how you want it.  That’s the illusion. And that can be scary itself the first time someone realises that.  But that’s only fear, it is not reality. The reality is you have no need to be scared because you are safe.

The ‘truth‘ is your flow and connection to all that you want, including through this person or thing that you want. Take your attention away from the noises and distractions from fear, and put them on your truth which is your ever-abundant and ever-infinite flow and adulation from the Universe.

How can you ever be without when you realise how much you mean to this Universe?  There was no coincidence in your creation, and nothing would be withheld from you.  You just needed to know how to ask for it – vibrationally.  In realising your connection, you have nothing to fear being without.  It’s like having fears in looking at a blade of grass, and not seeing the whole field.

 

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FREE Inspiring Wallpaper for YOU, Downloadable Right Now!

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Here is an inspiring image and quote that we have created for you to have on your desktop that you can download right now!

This image encapsulates the entire Universe in one image – it embodies the quote in it in that it represents the whole Universe.  You will notice that in the image there is day (beaming sun) and there is night (the stars in the sky).  There is heaven (clouds) and there is earth (the ocean).  And also that the ocean (/Universe) is endless and ‘limitless’ – it represents all possibilities.  All possibilities are ALWAYS open to you.  All possibilities always exist in each moment.

This image also represents the whole Universe being supportive and being far bigger and expansive and ‘better’ than the human mind can contemplate. 

Thank you to my friends Fawny Frost for the original photograph and Jessie Smith at StoryKraft Kreative for her wonderful design work and us working with the concept and embodying the meaning into the image.

You can download this image in various sizes depending on the resolution of your computer:

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Do feel free to leave us a comment below and let us know what you think :)