3 Manifesting Questions For You

 

Here are 3 questions for you which the Manifesting Excellence group have been answering this week:

 

1 – What happens when two people want the same thing?  How does that work in relation to manifesting and the Law of Attraction?  For example, what if you and someone else are going after the same job (or lover!)?  Who gets it?

 
2 – “When it comes to parking spaces or ‘little’ happenings manifesting seems easy.  But I can’t seem to attract the ‘bigger’ things such as a long-term love partner, more money and so on… why is that happening?  What should I do?”

 
3 – “I keep attracting people that aren’t a fit for me in some way… what do I need to change to attract what (who) I want?”

 

What do you think?  Share your thoughts in the comments below.

Click here if you’d like to join us on the Manifesting Excellence call/audio at the weekend for the answers.

 

 

A Beautiful Love Story…

 

In case you didn’t see the story I shared on the Manifesting & Law of Attraction Facebook Page or on the Manifesting Excellence private group yesterday, I thought you would enjoy this…

“I saw this elderly gentleman dining by himself, with an old picture of a lady in front of him. I thought maybe I could brighten his day by talking to him.

As I had assumed, she was his wife. But I didn’t expect such an interesting story. They met when they were both 17. They dated briefly, then lost contact when he went to war and her family moved. But he said he thought about her the entire war. After his return, he decided to look for her. He searched for her for 10 years and never dated anyone.

People told him he was crazy, to which he replied “I am. Crazy in love”. On a trip to California, he went to a barber shop. He told the barber how he had been searching for a girl for ten years. The barber went to his phone and called his daughter in. It was her! She had also been searching for him and never dated either.

He proposed immediately and they were married for 55 years before her death 5 years ago. He still celebrates her birthday and their anniversary. He takes her picture with him everywhere and kisses her goodnight.

Some inspiring things he said;

“I was a very rich man. Not with money, but with love”

“I never had a single argument with my wife, but we had lots of debates”

“People are like candles. At any moment a breeze can blow it out, so enjoy the light while you have it.”

“Tell your wife that you love her everyday. And be sure to ask her, have I told you that I love you lately?”

Be sure to talk to the elderly. Especially strangers. You may think that you will brighten their day, but you may be surprised that they can actually brighten yours.”

 

elderly_couple

 

 

Dr Emoto dies…. (water crystal work)

 

You may know of the work of Dr Emoto, perhaps from the movie “What the Bleep Do We Know?“, about his work with water crystals.

He visually documented that water would take on “the resonance of the energy” that was directed at it, leading to molecular changes in it.  See the pic below for an illustration of this.

Dr Emoto Water Crystal Experiment

If water is so responsive to our thoughts and energy, what does that mean about our ability to heal and transform our body as it is over 70% water?

And what about for the world around us which is also over 70% water?

Last Friday, 17th October 2014, Dr Emoto passed away peacefully with his wife by his side, at the age of 71.  His last word was “Arigato” – “Thank you” in Japanese.

Below is an excerpt from “What the Bleep Do We Know?” that mentions the water crystals, it is around 50 seconds into the clip.

 

 

Dr Emoto

Dr Emoto’s legacy of our thoughts affecting our reality lives on…

 

 

“To Flirt, or not to Flirt?”

 

As I mentioned to you yesterday, based on requests sent in, this week on Manifesting Excellence we are covering “Flirting & Romance“.

We have flirting threads where we have been sharing flirting & romance resources, experiences as well as fun pick-up lines and much more.

One of the questions sent in which I will be covering on Saturday’s call/audio includes:

“I would like to have tips for confidence in flirting and keeping things light in dating/meeting new people… I’m either too serious (like a job interviewer) or too non-serious in using my time /attention on guys I know are not really for me.  If they seem like they have potential, I get too serious and probably way too uptight. If not, I can stay calm because I really can care less.”

We will talk about:

– How to take the pressure off yourself in situations (whether in dating, relationships, work etc)… and WHY to do that

– How to put out the right vibes – doing this on an energy level so your body language reflects it as well as your own personal ‘energy’

Any other questions you have?  Join us today and send them in!

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Flirting

 

Are you looking to meet someone and make it work?  Or deepen a relationship you already have?  Share your thoughts, experiences and questions!  Join the fun by clicking here.

 

 

“The Pony in the Dung Heap” Joke

 

This is a joke I heard yesterday and shared on Manifesting Excellence.  I later discovered that it seemed to be first heard from (President) Reagan.

It is to do with two sons, one an optimist and the other a pessimist.

It is apparently shared in Reagan’s biography by one of the Reagan team at the time, Ed Meese (excerpt from “How Ronald Reagan Changed My Life” by Peter Robinson):

Over lunch today I asked Ed Meese about one of Reagan’s favorite jokes. “The pony joke?” Meese replied. “Sure I remember it. If I heard him tell it once, I heard him tell it a thousand times.”

The joke concerns twin boys of five or six. Worried that the boys had developed extreme personalities — one was a total pessimist, the other a total optimist — their parents took them to a psychiatrist.

First the psychiatrist treated the pessimist. Trying to brighten his outlook, the psychiatrist took him to a room piled to the ceiling with brand-new toys. But instead of yelping with delight, the little boy burst into tears. “What’s the matter?” the psychiatrist asked, baffled. “Don’t you want to play with any of the toys?” “Yes,” the little boy bawled, “but if I did I’d only break them.”

Next the psychiatrist treated the optimist. Trying to dampen his outlook, the psychiatrist took him to a room piled to the ceiling with horse manure. But instead of wrinkling his nose in disgust, the optimist emitted just the yelp of delight the psychiatrist had been hoping to hear from his brother, the pessimist.

Then he clambered to the top of the pile, dropped to his knees, and began gleefully digging out scoop after scoop with his bare hands. “What do you think you’re doing?” the psychiatrist asked, just as baffled by the optimist as he had been by the pessimist.

“With all this manure,” the little boy replied, beaming, “there must be a pony in here somewhere for me!”

“Reagan told the joke so often,” Meese said, chuckling, “that it got to be kind of a joke with the rest of us. Whenever something would go wrong, somebody on the staff would be sure to say, “There must be a pony in here somewhere!'”

 

So… when you are going through something challenging… remember to say to yourself “There must be a pony in here somewhere for me!” ;))

There must be a pony here somewhere!

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P.S. The topic this week is about “Flirting & Romance“… want to share some thoughts (or ask some questions)?  You can join here.

 

“3 Waves of Manifesting”

 

Just to let you know that on the Manifesting Excellence call at the weekend we covered the notion of “3 Waves of Manifesting“.

This is a new concept that I have been sharing which evolves your awareness of manifesting, making it easier and faster in your life.

Below are some of the notes from the call. If you would like to access the audio recording of it you can do so by registering at www.hemalradia.com/manifesting.

 

“3 Waves of Manifesting”

Wave 1 – Affirmations, visualisation, goal-setting, ‘positive thinking’ etc (‘Simple stuff’) – the early days, years ago
Wave 2 – Getting into the ‘feeling’, energy, vibration etc (Being conscious of getting into the feeling/energy)
Wave 3 – What we covered on the call at the weekend

– Each of the previous waves, through greater awareness, leads to the next wave. Each subsequent waves includes the previous ones
– Using the terms quantum field, The Field, God, Universe, Source, Inner Being, Higher Self, energetic or non-physical aspect of you interchangeably
– All the techniques you have learnt, all the wisdom and the insights, all the ‘aha’ moments, they take you to the third wave – this wave includes everything before it
Your higher self is already there (where you want to be/do/have)
– “People often talk about faith. As I think about it, faith is an intermediate state because when you ARE something/somewhere, you do not need faith, you just ‘are'”

– “Let’s say you want to be a certain bodyweight. Notice, isn’t your higher-self already there energetically? What gets in the way is your past and present conditioning of how you see yourself”
Vibration/Energy Management
– Realise also that this is layered. In that you make some changes and it creates a shift within you. Then you make some more changes, and so on – PROGRESSIVE
– “When people are waiting for things outside of them to change, it suggests that they themselves have not fully changed because they are waiting for the outside. When you yourself have changed on the inside it won’t matter what happens on the outside because you are congruent with your change. Ironically, this is the quickest way the outside changes also.

Your inner being is
– All loving
– Abundant
– Knows it will be fine
– Nurturing/divine energy
– COMPLETION energy – not seeking or intention energy

When you say the following to yourself and how to resolve it
– “I’m not good enough”
   – “If only I did/didn’t do that”
   – “If only I could be/do/have…”
   – “I’m not young/old enough”
  – “I’m not smart/good looking enough”
  – “Why hasn’t it happened yet?”
  – “Why doesn’t it happen for me?”
  – “Why me?”

Those that try to get what they want by creating drama
– Some people get invested in drama because it gets them things… and then it is reinforced by people giving them things
– Notice the energy behind drama energy – “I don’t have what I want” – it can be victimhood, anger, noise, distraction etc – if you have what you want (ie aligned to your higher-self), would you need to do that?
– It is about COMPLETION energy
The third wave is working with that energetic part of you and being it. Living it. Being the physical embodiment of it. Living heaven on earth


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