From Drug Addiction and Poverty to a Life of Abundance and Happiness

Hi Everyone,

This is an email I received recently.  I am sharing it with you (with permission) and have replaced the original names with initials

Hi Hemal

Two years ago my dear mother-in-law took me with her to attend a one day workshop on the Secret.  It was all very new then and hadn’t yet exploded into the phenomenon it is today.  At that stage I was pregnant, unemployed and my husband, also unemployed, was in the grips of a drug addiction that had seen him survive two heroin overdoses.  My husband’s 8 year old twin daughters from his previous relationship lived with and witnessed every single day how their father’s drug abuse pulled us further and further into financial, emotional and mental ruin.  We never had money for food as every cent he earned was spent on cocaine and we were in the process of being evicted from our home.  My life was in absolute ruins Hemal – I truly felt hopeless.  
I had grown up in awful circumstances too, my past a web of sexual abuse, alcoholism, neglect and poverty.  I knew only how to feel unworthy, as if my lot in life was in fact not a lot at all but very, very little!  But after watching the Secret, a concept so new to me, I decided I would give positive thought a try, and I did.  I only managed a little at first, as it was incredibly difficult to change 30 years worth of negativity.  I noticed over the months how much easier it became, how quickly I was able to catch my negative thoughts before they became all-consuming.  And then things started changing!
My beautiful daughter was born and she gave me the motivation I needed to continue being grateful, to believe in myself and to teach our children to be positive, to instil in them strong values and morals.  Our daughters, then 9 years old, also began visualising, they too began being positive and happy despite their dad’s drug use.  We believed that we would be happy, we dreamt about it and we lived it through all adversity and despite our circumstances.  In July 2007, after 10 long years of hardcore drug use, my husband stopped taking drugs.  He took three months off, removed himself from the course of daily living as much as he could and he started on the long road to sobriety.  Three months to the day after he took his last hit, he began his employment as a Mechanical Engineer with an international company.  In six and a half short months we have gone from poverty to life in abundance!  We have a beautiful home filled with beautiful furniture (my husband had sold everything we owned for money to get drugs – we had so little left), we always have money and food and most importantly of all we have the kind of family bond that most people can only dream of.
We each have gratitude books, N (husband) included, that we write in all the time.  This attitude of gratitude has brought us so close to each other – we easily express our love and adoration for one another all the time and words like, “I love you”, “I’m proud of you” are things said daily in our home.  My husband has morphed into the most caring, attentive, loving, adoring, calm and happy man I have ever had the pleasure of meeting.  He works 2 jobs with such passion for each and still manages to be such a present and able father and husband.  His children adore him, they idolise him – he is our everything.  It was the most incredible feeling for me to be able to hand over the reigns of our family to him and allow him to take his place as head of our home and know beyond any shadow of doubt that he was capable and deserving enough to be there!

Our children, A and C (children), now 10 years old, have been through therapy and their Psychologist is incredibly pleased with their state of mind and with them as little people.  They are well adjusted young ladies who care so much about the feelings of others and who give thanks daily for everything they have.
I’m so happy and motivated and positive for our future.  We’re still paying off debts accumulated throughout the years, but those debts are lessening at an incredible rate.  I have an amazing job with the promise of great things to come. I love my life, I love myself and my children and I love my husband so very much!
This is an exert from my husband’s gratitude book:
 “I express my gratitude for my wife and best friend, she is always a constant support to me and to the good Lord who has blessed me with my three girls – the best reasons to keep living and fighting for every moment that I may share with them.  Thank you for the wonder of being a father and husband to my family and beautiful wife.  Thank you for a nice cup of coffee and for a Friday filled with the promise of rain and the enjoyment of our health, wealth and family”

From A's (child) book :
 “I am so grateful that we are so happy and lucky and that we have such a great family and that every moment in my little life is always happy.  I am grateful that we have a house to live in and such a great family and for my wonderful (but crazy) mom and handsome daddy”

From C's (child) book :
“I am grateful for quite a lot today.  I am grateful that we got to dance with mom and that daddy got home safe from work. I am grateful for my dad, he is always doing his best for us and he works so hard and I’m glad he’s my dad.  I’m grateful that mom got such a good job and that I have such a great family. Thank you”
My children at this age are so aware of thinking positively and being happy and fulfilled that I know their futures are going to be filled with success and happiness.  I’ve done it Hemal – I’ve broken the cycle of poverty and pain lived through by so many generations of my family before me and set a new course of abundance and happiness for generations to come.
The Law of Attraction works, it works, it works, it works!!!
Blessings and love




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What you Want is Already around you

What you want is already around you,
EVERYTHING is already around you,
You are turning the invisible to the visible,
You are letting it reveal itself to you,
As you think the thoughts that are in harmony of it,
As you think of what you want,
What you are thinking is only a tool or a symbol for you to get into the frequency (/vibration) of what you want,
And then you are allowing by letting it in or something better,
When you are saying ‘ONLY this’ is what I want, you are not allowing something that might be better or more suited to come to you, you are dictating the ‘how’,
There are an infinite number of ways it can make its way to you,
Let it come to you in the easiest and quickest way it can…
But of course, your journey was meant to be as fun as the destination,
So you were never going ‘where is it, where is it’ were you <wink>
Because you are so enjoying the journey and the creation of it….

(Hemal Radia)


What do YOU want from Law of Attraction?

As many of you are aware I am working on content on Law of Attraction, whether it be products, blog posts , free content, etc.  I would like to know what you want, I have created a few questions at which if you could answer would be very helpful in that and also more likely to enable you in getting what you are looking for also


More information on me!

Hi Everyone,

I have had quite a few people ask me for more information on me and I have (finally!) added more info on my About page on here.  I may tweak it over time but there is more info there for now

You can click the link in the top right (under the photo) or click here:


Loving Yourself

As on the Outside, as on the Inside.  Everything is a vibrational match, what is it telling you about your feelings for yourself…?

Most importantly, what do you appreciate about yourself?  What CAN you appreciate about yourself?  Just like when you look at a baby or a pet and have feelings of love and appreciation, it is because you are associating to the positive aspects of them and not to negative perceptions – your feelings are very pure.  It’s the same with yourself, what can you appreciate?  And what can you think less of?

There are no limits to how much you can love yourself or someone else, just like the Universe, it is Abundant and Infinite


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Timing – Allowing the Universe to Bring you What you Want

This was a reply to a post that Xio wrote about Timing and the Universe bringing you what you want on the Universal Law Of Attraction group on Facebook,

Absolutely, there’s a quote I heard which is that ‘God’s Delays Are Not God’s Denials‘  lol.

Where you are is perfect, you do not need to be anywhere else, everything is in alignment for you to be where you are at Now, what is most important in all of this is to maintain your alignment, that is to be in line with your good feelings/love/joy/appreciation etc because whilst it may ‘appear’ that things aren’t how you wanted them at the present moment, it is important that you don’t bring that into your vibration.

Keep your alignment on the things that you want and that feel good so that you are resonating from them and attracting them.  Allow the physical to respond, don’t prejudge it too early.  It’s never about what ‘is’ (unless you are wanting to vibrate it), it’s about what you are choosing to vibrate and attract more of.  Let your feelings be your indicator of your vibration and let the Universe do the rest.



Abraham on Manifesting a House using Law of Attraction

Thanks to Nina Ferrell for letting me know about these audios

Abraham on Manifesting a House, part 1

Abraham on Manifesting a House, part 2



The Vibration of Love – Love quotes

Love and Appreciation are amongst the highest vibrations and when you are vibrating from them you are attracting the things you are wanting and more of the same, plus it FEELS GOOD!

The underlying essence in the quotes below is Love….


To love is to receive a glimpse of heaven….Karen Sunde

Love is not a matter of what happens in life.
It’s a matter of what’s happening in your heart….Ken Keyes

In real love you want the other person’s good.
In romantic love, you want the other person….Margaret Anderson

The beginning of love is at the end
of resistance….Danielle Light

Dance like no one’s watching,
Love like you’ll never be hurt,
Sing like no one’s listening,
Live like it’s heaven on earth….William Purky

Two parrots

Love is not a matter of counting the years —
it’s making the years count….Wolfman Jack Smith

Love creates an “us” without
destroying a “me”….Unknown

Do you want to know a good way to fall in love?
Just associate all your pleasant experiences with someone,
and disassociate from all the unpleasant ones….Richard Bandler (co-developer of NLP)

The best proof of love is trust….Dr. Joyce Brothers

Love is friendship set to music….Pollock

Love is, above all, the gift of oneself….Jean Anouilh

I love you, not because you are perfect,
But because you are so perfect for me….Unknown

You can’t force someone to love you; all you can do is
become someone who can be loved; the rest is up to them….Unknown

Love simply cannot spring up without that self-surrender
to each other. If either withholds the self,
love cannot exist….Dr. E. Stanley Jones

True love stories never have endings….Unknown

We waste time looking for the perfect lover,
instead of creating the perfect love….Tom Robbins

The greatest happiness of life is the conviction
that we are loved – loved for ourselves, or rather,
loved in spite of ourselves….Victor Hugo

Time is too slow for those who wait,
too swift for those who fear,
too long for those who grieve,
too short for those who rejoice,
but for those who love,
time is eternity….Henry Van Dyke

Love is a canvas furnished by Nature
and embroidered by imagination….Voltaire

Where there is great love there are
always miracles….Willa Cather


Who travels for love finds a thousand
miles not longer than one….Japanese Proverb

To love and be loved is to feel the
sun from both sides….David Viscott

Love is an energy – it can neither be created
nor destroyed. It just is and always will be,
giving meaning to life and direction to goodness…
Love will never die….Bryce Courtney

Love talked about is easily turned aside,
but love demonstrated is irresistible….Stan Mooneyham

Immature love says: “I love you because I need you.”
Mature love says: “I need you because I love you.”….Erich Fromm

Love has nothing to do with what you are
expecting to get — only with what you are
expecting to give — which is everything….Katherine Hepburn

Love is the triumph of imagination
over intelligence….H.L. Mencken

Falling in love consists merely in uncorking the
imagination and bottling the common-sense….Helen Rowland

I love you without knowing how, or when, or from where.
I love you straightforwardly, without complexities
or pride; so I love you because I knew no other
way than this, where ‘I’ does not exist, nor ‘you’.
So close that your hand on my chest is my hand, so
close that your eyes close as I fall asleep….Pablo Neruda

To love without expected return on my investment
frees me to love with purity of heart, mind and soul…
I am not distracted by selfish motive or disappointed
by insensitivity…I am free to love…just love….L. Hodge

Once you have learned to love,
You will have learned to live….Unknown

Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away…..

Sunset for two





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