“When you visualise what you want, do it because you LOVE the imagery & it FEELS GOOD, not because you are ‘trying’ for something – different vibrations.” by Hemal Radia

That’s a tricky one. Can you say more about it. You say I want to be in a place where I visualise what I want because it just makes me feel good, right?  And what happens next?  Things will start moving towards me?  Thanks for that 🙂

Aviram Kalish


Absolutely, focus on the FEELING because that is the indication of your vibration, and your vibration is what attracts vibrational matches via Law of Attraction.

Oftentimes what happens with people is they think so much of a goal and get so ‘attached’ to it (which on some level can imply on a focusing on the lack of it) and create so much pressure and tension for themselves that they restrict their own flow.  And of course if someone is tense and feeling pressure, that is not as supportive of a fluid attractive vibration as might be the case otherwise.  Whereas when you are in a good feeling place and appreciating and loving your experiences, what you want can’t do anything other than come into your experience, in you being in that wonderful place you are a powerful attractor.

When someone is ‘trying’ for something, by implication their attention tends to be more on the outside on the object itself rather than on themselves.  Instead, it is about you BEING from a certain place which in itself is attractive to you HAVING.

Do you remember a time when you were so lost in the moment and enjoying it so much that you weren’t keeping track of things?  And ironically when you looked around, things were taking care of themselves and what you wanted was happening?  And if it wasn’t, you didn’t really care because you were so in the moment?  This can also be what they call present moment awareness and detachment.

Want what you want so that you flow the energy and allow it to come into your experience, and enjoy your now so that you don’t ‘need’ it and allow your energy to flow (otherwise you are pinching your energy flow).


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The quickest and easiest way to change your vibration is through your thoughts.  People talk about actions and that is one way.  A quicker and hence more leveraged way is to work with your thoughts and your feelings.  When you use them to change your vibration you are aligning yourself to what you want, and your indication that you are aligning yourself is by HOW YOU FEEL.  That is the communication from the deeper part of you that you are on track, just like a compass is used as a guide.  That is your internal compass, your internal guidance, to everything that you want.  If you feel better, then you are getting closer.  If it feels worse then you are a bit off-track.

So, when you focus on the imagery that feels the best you are most on track and most aligned in your vibration.  Do it because you love doing it for the sake of it rather than because you are trying to have something, because the implication in trying for something is that you are thinking about that thing rather than fully in the moment and enjoying your now as much as you can.  It’s a subtle difference and we do not always have to be perfect at it, life is a continual journey of improvement, growth and expansion.

You are not meant to forsake your goals, your goals are there for a reason.  They are your desires and your stimulants to flow energy.  But you are also not meant to beat yourself over your head with them because if you do that then of course you are feeling worse and that is your indication that you are taking yourself off track.

So you are being stimulated for what you want and your attention is in
your now, present moment awareness and not ‘attached’ to what you want,
you are open to what is on its way and know it will be what is best for
you, and in thinking/feeling that you are opening yourself up to many
possibilities also.

> “And what happens next?  Things will start moving towards me?”




Nothing needs to happen other then you get into alignment with it for it to enter your lifeWhat you want is outside of your door ready to come in.  The moment you had the desire, it was ready, the Universe had what you want all ready for you, starting with it in vibration.  Your job is to get into alignment with it via your vibration so as to let it in.

It’s like the radio station is playing what you have been asking for, it is your job to get into the frequency of it to receive it, ‘that’s all’ you need to do.  And of course, the way to that is by being (and feeling) a vibrational match to what you want and you are in the frequency and then before you know it you will be seeing it in your life.  Take your attention off whether it’s here yet, instead put it on the enjoyment of your process and your journey and when you’re not looking you’ll turn around and realise it’s been there staring you in the face.

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  • Rhonda Olsen says:

    Beautiful! Thank you so much! The below quote particularly made sense to me in a way that it never has before….I will now practice wanting something and then in order to release it just enjoy the now….brilliant…
    “Want what you want so that you flow the energy and allow it to come into your experience, and enjoy your now so that you don’t ‘need’ it and allow your energy to flow (otherwise you are pinching your energy flow).”

  • Sonali Patel says:

    SOURCE ENERGY – What is it??? I am confused? Can anyone answer this?
    Is it GOD?
    Is it some spiritual power?
    Is it Thoughts?
    What is the Source Energy?

  • Hemal Radia says:

    Yes Sonali you can consider it as that, all of that and everything. It’s the ‘source’ of everything 🙂

  • Preeti says:

    yes, this is awesome….Noteworthy.