I got inspired to write this from an interaction I had with a client this morning. This is what I wrote in a status message on Facebook about it earlier:
“About a month ago a client said that she wanted to lose weight but it felt like a bit of a chore and ‘hard work’. She was also looking to be in a relationship. In the last couple of weeks she has found a partner she is *very* attracted to (at the time she couldn’t believe it happened)…who is a gym instructor and she is spending more time at the gym (EVERY DAY last week lol) than ever. Interesting how things happen isn’t it 🙂
Let go of the how, focus on the essences of what you want, let the Universe orchestrate the details, which will be a match to your overall vibration.”
(Relationships is one of the areas we had worked on in helping her get alignment)
ALLOW YOURSELF TO THINK OF THE POSSIBILITIES
When we think of something not happening or not being possible, what do we do? We tend not to think of it happening or it not turning out how we want to because of our beliefs about it (our beliefs act like switches as to whether we consider the notion of something happening or not), or we have a fear about the situation.
How about allowing yourself to daydream about how nice it would be if it was to happen instead? You don’t have to say it ‘will‘ happen (because that can be uncomfortable for some people because they do not fully believe it at the time), but ALLOW YOURSELF TO CONSIDER THE POSSIBILITY. Just allow yourself to think of it and feel from it and daydream, just CONSIDER THE POSSIBILITY. As you do that, it will get stronger and stronger.
Allow yourself to feel the sensations of how it would be, without putting pressure on yourself for it to ‘have to’ happen. By you experiencing these sensations without doubting or ‘thinking’ – i.e. without contradicting, these feelings will grow and build and you will start to see clues of it happening.
What happens for most people is because they do not believe that what they want can happen they disregard the possibility right away and short circuit their flow so to speak, so they don’t even give themselves a chance. It’s about being gentle and kind with yourself. Allow yourself to entertain the possibility of what you would like just for the thought of it, just for the fun of it. That takes away the pressure of it ‘having to’ happen, and you are doing this for fun.
And as you do that your thoughts about it will build and grow and get stronger. As this happens you will start to get ideas and physical manifestations. These will act as a reflection of your building consciousness about this and you will also feel more and more certain about it – which means your expectation and belief will grow and your pull for what you want will be even greater and greater.
“When you tune into the possibilites this
Universe can provide you, you will think of yourself as crazy for all that
you were holding back from yourself.”
The thing most people do is they let their doubts and fears come in and short circuit their natural and infinite and abundant universal flow. There is no limit to the universal energy the Universe is sending you in every moment – and it is all around you – it’s about you letting it in and allowing it.
Some thoughts you can consider:
– If my life could turn out wonderfully, how would it be?
– If things went right, what would it be like?
– What if things DO work out for me, how would it be?
go of the ‘how’ and the ‘thinking it’ too much. What we are talking about
is you FEELING from what you want. We are talking about vibration and
manifestation, not actions or plans or linear and logical
possibilities (there is a place in life for them too, but here we are talking about lining up your energy).
cannot fathom the possibilities for you from what you have been used
you imagine what it would be like if every resource in this Universe –
because you and it are not separate – was responding to
your aligned vibration to bring you what you wanted?”
IT’S ABOUT LINING UP YOUR ENERGY
What many do is they expect themselves to rationally and logically know HOW they will get what they want. That is what we have been taught as we have grown up. We’ve been taught to have a plan and a structure and have actions listed out. Many people even teach the Law of Attraction with this. That is all very well, I would encourage people to use a vibrational aspect with this.
We are in a Universe that is not just physically full of logic and actions, but also non-physical and spiritual and there is far more that is unseen and we feel from the heart than what we can physically see. There are dormant capabilities within you and around you.
Do you remember a time when things just ‘clicked’? When they just fell into place and you weren’t ‘thinking’ too much and just ‘being’? And you weren’t evaluating, you were experiencing, and things were just taking care of themselves. THAT’S an example of when you had your energy aligned. You may not have been aware of how you did it consciously, but you were in a place where you were in the moment and things were happening.
I work with clients with different aspects and often it is about identifying what feels best to them and taking
their attention off the things that do not matter. Understandably
people have habits of thought they have built up over years and it
is just about practicing a new way. Just like the client mentioned
above, people can start to see things around themselves in their lives
change. But you do it for how you feel, the manifestations are natural
I hear pretty much everyday from people who have read something I have written or a teleseminar they have heard or in working with me and it has inspired them to think of something differently (and it is a pleasure and an honour to be on the receiving end of it!) and that has brought into their life all sorts of things. I am hearing these stories everyday and throughout the day and this is happening around you and you will see more and more of it. There’s only expansion and growth, you – nor anyone else – do not grow smaller. You will experience more and more of these things.
Regarding the above interaction, it was with a Law of Attraction coach who is very successful at what she does. From my perspective I just happened to suggest some tweaks and it has changed how she sees things and what has come into her life.
If you’d like to know more about working one-to-one with me you can do so here: Working One-to-One with Hemal.
Absolutely true that what you think and feel about what you want is the starting point, not the how. Would you like to check out my first squidoo lens at http://www.squidoo.com/awakening-abundance?
After a hard and tiring day’s work, this article is both refreshing and helpful. I can practise being and shifting my focus in expanded ways! Thanks!
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Great post. You’re right that it’s about lining up your energy. In fact, if you haven’t lined up your energy, you can do all the “right things,” take lots of action, and you still won’t get the results you want. It’s vibration, vibration, vibration NOT action, action, action.