When you think of your dreams or goals, how do they feel? Is there a heaviness about them? An element of ‘need’? What if they didn’t happen? How would you feel?
If there is any element of ‘heaviness’ or tightness about them, in likelihood there is an element of attachment on some level. That does not necessarily mean there is anything wrong with the goal, but your perspective about it.
What happens in your life is down to your perspective and vibration about something than what the situation is. Your perspective and vibration ARE what make it what it is to you.
If two people have been beautiful lovers, are perhaps married now, and after time they are feeling a bit of heaviness in the relationship, does that mean that there is something ‘wrong’ in the relationship? Not necessarily. But it does suggest that what they are focusing on within the relationship has changed.
So, what if these two people decided that they would now remind themselves what made them fall in love with the other in the first place? And perhaps make a list of 10 things that they adore about the other and what is so special and priceless and unique about them. Would that change how they feel about the other? Would that allow the relationship to be in that light, fluffy place full of possibilities? Absolutely! It would raise their vibration and more and more possibilities, love, inspiration, and ‘MAGIC’ would enter their experience.
When you raise your vibration, you reach that tingly place of possibilities where it’s all possible.
At higher vibrations, the energy is more fluid and lighter and possibilities are free-flowing and you are more connected to your Infinite Intelligence. With attachment, negative emotions etc, it is not as fluid, it is heavier, and is more static.
YOUR DREAMS, AND YOUR DIVINITY
When you think of your goals or dreams, how can you think of them that feels the best? What aspects about them can you think about them that feels the best?
If it emotionally feels better, that is your indication of you getting further into alignment with your goal and the indication of it being in your reality sooner.
Also, consider what aspects should you take your attention off? Sometimes we have a goal, say wanting money, but we are fearful of us not having it at the moment. If you take your attention off that and onto what feels good about having money and what you will do with it, does that feel better?
Focus on the aspects that feel the best about your goal, and take your attention off the aspects that don’t. The Universe will conspire to match you in the energetic relationship you are forming.
Be at peace with your goal happening or not happening, and focus on the aspects you love about it: “My goal, I love you not because of you happening or not happening, but I love you for the joy you give me when I think about you.” Isn’t that ‘unconditional love’? And one of the most attractive forces in the Universe?
Do you remember times when you ‘let go’ of something and stopped thinking about it, it happened? It’s not that you stopped thinking about it that made it happen, it was that you took your attention off the attachment and the lack of it.
When you are in a place of joy and knowingness that you are truly ‘safe’ in this Universe, and that no matter what happens or doesn’t happen, you as an eternal divine spirit – which is who you truly are – will be fine, you are most in synch with everything else.
Many people get caught up in the physical perspective of their lives, and do not always remember they are an eternal spirit having a physical experience. When you remember that, you remember who you truly are, and you shine a beacon in this Universe to draw all that you want to you.