The Secret to Your Light


“When you are in alignment with who you are, you shine a light seen so brightly by the rest of the Universe.

Your true light has been with you for all time and you have seen it in glimpses.  It is available to you to see more and more of in your life.  Many are seeking something which is already here, now.


“The Universe provides an echo of your vibrational offering.

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In truth, in a spiritual sense, you are the physical manifestation of your light or ‘spirit’ (or whatever words you use to describe it).  This universal spirit which is in everything that you see, and in everything that you don’t see (which is so much more than what you do see), is inherently wellbeing.  You are whole and complete.  And so, if you are whole and complete, by definition, how can you not already be your ‘light’?  (Clue: You are!)

But what happens is we are very used to seeing only what is in the physical world and do not realise our divinity, wholeness, and ‘completeness’.  If we only looked at the head of something and not the body, we wouldn’t get a complete picture, would we?  That is the same as looking at your physical body and not realising the much larger spiritual aspect of yourself that is so much more, and whole and complete. 

You already are all that you want to be, other than when you deny and block yourself of it through your thoughts and beliefs (of which self esteem and self value can play a part).  Even if the physical manifestations are not here yet, you can be the essence and embodiment of it.  Then the physical manifestations and creations in your life are expressions of your wholeness, rather than from a place of incompleteness and an effort to make up for any perceived lack.

Whatever you think, you magnify.  If you believe you are striving for something (such as to feel a certain way or have something), you will be striving for something.  If instead you realise that everything is here, even if not fully in form yet, and you radiate THAT vibration, the Universe gives you the physical confirmation of it.

“Who you truly are on a deeper level is literally beyond words.  All the words in the world couldn’t go close to defining you.  The most beautiful sights and experiences on this planet pale in comparison to you.”

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What you want is not something you strive towards, it is something you accept and allow and be in your now.  If it is a physical manifestation you are looking for, you become the emotional and vibrational embodiment of it in your now.  It is about what you see and believe of your reality, rather than waiting for a reality for you to see it.  It is here and now.  And as you allow it, you see the manifestations of this vibrational offering in what happens around you.

What are you striving for?  What has to be, so that you can feel ‘happy’ (or whatever you are seeking in your life) and complete?  We are used to seeing things in the media that feel good.  But that does not imply that you cannot feel good about where you are right now, regardless of the things portrayed (or advertised) in the media.

“Let it be that the ‘things’ are an expression and consequence (manifestation) of how you feel, than a requirement or condition for you to feel how you want to feel.

For many people, when they feel they need to have something to feel ‘whole’, by implication, it can mean that they are not feeling ‘whole’ right now.  And so by focusing on lack and having that in their vibration – they are then not letting in the very thing they are wanting!

In every moment you are giving off a vibration and frequency from your thoughts.  You attract experiences, ideas, situations, people, and everything else, which is a match to that frequency.

“Being happy, being in love and being loved are states of being.  You can BE anything you like in any moment.  The Universe responds to your state of being, and you get to have what is commensurate with that.”
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People talk about relationships and ‘you complete me’.  In truth, you are always complete.  Although it is a lovely expression to say to the one you love, and of course mean it.  What actually happens in love (or anywhere else) is when we are with someone and feeling so divine, they are reminding us of the beautiful aspects of who WE are on a deeper level.  They are reflecting that back to us.  And that is why we are appreciating them so much!  And vice versa!

The lives we live are reflections of us, whatever we may experience.  When we are with someone and it feels so good, it is because they are very purely reflecting who we are on a deeper level.  The better you feel, the closer you are experiencing alignment with who you are as a spiritual being.  And the closer that alignment is, the more ‘fulfilled’ your life will be.  The physical manifestations will occur as a reflection of that also.

“Your emotions are an indication of your vibrational alignment.  Follow your emotions, that is what they are there for.”

Your alignment is about your congruency and match of your thoughts and emotions with your desires.  If you are wanting something but your thoughts are in contradiction to it, you are, more or less, misaligned to it, and you will feel it emotionally.  It is like wanting prosperity and visualizing it but talking daily about your fears about money and it running out and your worries about it.  The stronger the misalignment, the more severely you will feel it emotionally.  The more aligned you are in your thoughts and beliefs with what you want, the better it feels.  Love, joy,  happiness and the best emotions are synonymous with you being in your now and aligned to what you want.

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Ways to support your alignment:

Don’t doubt yourself.  If you can’t have total faith, step back, let go, and have faith in the bigger scheme of things or in the Universe, or God or whatever it is you believe in.  By doubting yourself, you are just stopping your natural flow and putting the brakes on it.  If you can’t believe initially, don’t doubt at least.  Allow it to flow.

Start to see yourself with what you want.  Practice it in your reality.  Make that vibration familiar.  Make it so familiar, that you come to know that reality more than the one that has been your reality, even though what you want hasn’t manifested yet, but will happen as a result of you allowing it in.

Realise that on a deeper level (even on an atomic level), you are connected to everything else.  Remove the illusion of separation and realise your inherent connectedness to everything in this Universe.  This can be liberating.  And by affirming this connection and remembering that you are connected to all that you want, and by your expectation of it, you bring it closer into your reality.

“You live in an abundant Universe where there are no limits to the wellbeing you can experience; within yourself, and as physical manifestations in your life.

– It is not about giving yourself a hard time.  That is just like doubting yourself.  Your alignment and your flow are from a place of faith and trust in yourself and in the workings of the Universe, than on doubt, fear or mistrust.


“Your flow is far more important than any situation.  From your flow, you have access to all possibilities.”

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Jealousy, Control & Fear are Denials of Who You TRULY Are

“Hi Hemal, I was wondering what your thoughts were on jealousy?

I have been hurt so badly in the past by someone and struggle to move on from that.

I stayed alone for sometime and thought I had dealt with it – via reiki and positive thoughts and law of attraction etc – now I am with my new man I on occasion feel it in my stomach and find it hard to keep under control.Dont get me wrong its not a possessive thing, just the odd occasion where I feel sick to the stomach. I know deep down its my own mind and self esteem and I work with this daily but wondered what your view on it was or any advice from your way….thanks for your time to read ..have a great day

Em x”


When we are going into a relationship, we are feeling wonderful things and the beautiful emotions build and build – an example of Law of
Attraction!  And then what happens is we may experience fears and
insecurities and other things may come up.  It may be that we are fearful of losing what we have, or that we have a bit of moment to reflect and absorb what has been happening and start to ‘think’ (and the fears and ‘patterning’ come up) rather than continue ‘being‘ in that wonderful feel-good place.


“After people attract something (such as a relationship), they can
sometimes get busy trying not to lose it, which is a very different
vibration to what attracted it to them in the first place…”


Jealousy is a response to thinking that something is yours when in fact, like everything else in the Universe, it isn’t, and you are no ones either.  Other than the fact that you are two souls meeting along your journey.


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The discomfort that exists is because you are thinking thoughts that
are taking you out of your flow and from what you want.  And what you
want isn’t just this physical being in your life, but the essences of
what you are experiencing.  Whilst your physical body and mind
experiences this person, your soul and essences are experiencing so
much more and that is what led to the physical meeting.

You can’t be jealous if you are on your path and know that you will be ok. You cannot base your own wellbeing on another’s presence and feelings for you, but on your own connection to wellbeing and flow (which in itself is attractive for others to be around you).

You love them and adore them because, as a free being, you are chosing to be with them, and vice versa. There is no attachment or holding, especially emotionally. Allow them to be free, they will appreciate and love you even more for it.  Otherwise, energetically, they will feel constricted too.  And when someone feels constriction or pressure, little things can start to come in (such as disagreements, arguments etc) which can build.  It is far better to have the space within ourselves and allow the other, and ourselves, to be who we are.  To be fearless in all eventualities and being at peace with them, so we can enjoy our now.


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“Anytime we build a strong momentum about something, and we experience
strong emotions or fears to the contrary, it can get pretty

You cannot carve out and separate a bit of the Universe (such as a person) and hold it in statis
forever and say it is yours.  Everything is interconnected and
interrelated, as are you. You wouldn’t want it any other way.  You
wouldn’t want to be disconnected from your flow. It is more important
to you than this relationship or anything else, because it is to do
with your relationship with who YOU are as the spiritual being that is
living this physical life.

We fear losing what we have but remember we cannot ‘hold’ or ‘force’ something.  What we can do is deal with the fears about it.  What would happen if this person left?  Be at peace with that.  Have it so that does not scare you and you can focus your emotional energy on appreciating what you two have together.

Anytime a limiting thought comes up, identify the underlying what fear behind it, and let it go.  All fears are limited perspectives of the Universe.  They imply that you will not be ok as a result of something happening or not happening.  When in fact the Universe is wellbeing and does not place conditions on it, only you do.

“You came together to love and adore each other, not to be scared of what the future may hold.”

Any jealousy or element of control is about one’s fear or lack of security or certainty about having or keeping something that they want, or how they want it. It is an illusion because you can never truly ‘have’ something and keep it static forever and how you want it.  That’s the illusion. And that can be scary itself the first time someone realises that.  But that’s only fear, it is not reality. The reality is you have no need to be scared because you are safe.

The ‘truth‘ is your flow and connection to all that you want, including through this person or thing that you want. Take your attention away from the noises and distractions from fear, and put them on your truth which is your ever-abundant and ever-infinite flow and adulation from the Universe.

How can you ever be without when you realise how much you mean to this Universe?  There was no coincidence in your creation, and nothing would be withheld from you.  You just needed to know how to ask for it – vibrationally.  In realising your connection, you have nothing to fear being without.  It’s like having fears in looking at a blade of grass, and not seeing the whole field.


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