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“Letting Go of Emotional Attachment…”

In case you weren’t on the call at the weekend, here is some of what was covered on the “Identifying & Letting Go of Emotional Attachment” call.

You can access the audio of the call in the archives of Manifesting Excelelnce by clicking the link at www.hemalradia.com/manifesting

The audio includes:
– What is “letting go of attachment“?
– It’s not letting go of your desire, it’s letting go of the resistance and the negative emotions around your desire
- Attachment can be to:
– Fears
– Your identity, how you think of yourself and see yourself
– Other people
– Situations
– Addictions
– Clutter
– Symbols
– And much more

Why let go of attachment:
– Manifest your goals faster
– Less stress and more peace in your now
– Clarity of mind and quicker and accurate decision making
– Better connection with your intuition
– Seeing and recognising more synchronicities in your life

– It is not about being emotionally numb. It is not about ‘tolerating’
Negative emotions and resistance distort your signal to the Universe
– Without ‘noise’ your desire is more clearly, purely and powerfully expressed leading to faster manifestations and more of what you want
– When you define your goal what are you limiting or ‘fixing’ yourself by?
- Specifying your outcome and listing and prioritising what is important to you
– Notice when you define your goal what aspects you are emotional to and what emotions
Attachment to timeframes and your goals
– Is there an attachment to ‘how’ your goal comes to you?
- Letting go of the form of your outcome
Attachments take up energy…in freeing them up you get to live more of your joyful present now and  see the opportunities in it and less from your past

List of clues as to attachment:
- “I need it so badly or so soon”
– “I need this”
– I need it before x time”
- “I hope this happens” (either an attachment or more-so a bit of a lack of faith/belief. Nothing wrong with ‘hope’, but guide yourself towards ‘higher’ vibrations)
- “My friends will think differently of me or not like me in the same way anymore” (eg attachment to what others think, conflicting with going after the goal)
- “I just need this goal or thing and everything will be ok” (masking a problem or situation with a goal or thing – it can work out fine, but you may be mixing the energy of the problem with the goal and hence sending out mixed signals for it)
“How could you do this to me?” (puts responsibility and attachment to another than to their own power)

When you are attached you are lowering your energy and taking away from your spirit and your divinity – you are out of manifesting frequency and inspiration of the answers you are looking for
– “Letting go” is not resignation, it is letting go of the resistance to what you want . It is “allowing” what you want. It is also allowing your divinity and your greater power
“Symbols” such as money, cars, houses and things on a physical level – away from your sense of “Self” – are transient. Your spirit knows that. And that true happiness is in your connection to your sense of Self
- True wealth is finding your connection within and wealth on the outside will follow that.
– Letting go of attachment allows you to be passionate about and love what is truly important to you – In what ways are you not happy in your present right now?
– “When you let go of attachment you focus more on the joy of the moment and of the process than the outcome. You know you will be ok. You have let go of your attachment to your form and to your  wellbeing. You are eternal. You are always fine. You have let go of your attachment to the outcome also. Because you have done this you can enjoy the present moment more, and the present moment is all you have.”

Questions included:
– “My relationship with my lover of a few years seems to be ending. She has a situation she is resolving and so am I. I feel sadness and am dealing with it along with everything else”
– Various follow up comments and questions in response to a question from last week
– “I have this belief that if I want something such as money, people, opportunities etc that I have to obsess about it in my head. I have bills that overwhelm me and want to manifest the money to  pay them off, it seems too big to handle…
– The most important thing to ask yourself about any situation in your life is what is it doing to you and your connection with your Self. From there all solutions are possible.

You can access the audio of the call by clicking the link at www.hemalradia.com/manifesting

 

“Letting Go of Emotional Attachment…”

This Saturday we are covering a topic which in my opinion is one of the most powerful in transforming and manifesting what you want. In fact if you have mastery over this you have mastery over most things.

Over the last 18 years or so I have shared techniques and principles around the world and in my view “Letting go of Attachment” is one of the most powerful things you can do because it is about letting go of the noise, friction and resistance, and being who you truly are – the powerful magnificent divine being that you are.

Why Let Go of Attachment About What YOU Want?
- Manifest Your Goals Faster
- Less Stress and more Peace in Your Now
- Clarity of Mind and Quicker and Accurate Decision Making
- Better Connection with your Intuition
- Seeing and Recognising more Synchronicities in your Life

 

Click here to register onto Manifesting Excellence to access Saturday’s call/audio download

 

On Saturday’s call we will be talking about how to identify attachment within yourself and others and what to do about it.

Enjoy some quotes about letting go of attachment:

Letting go” is not resignation, it is letting go of the resistance to what you want. It is letting go of the  resistance and the negative emotions around what you want, not your desire. In doing that, if anything, it amplifies your desire and makes it even more pure and powerful and your manifestations are more likely to happen faster because you are sending out a clearer signal.
The art of “wanting and not-wanting”. Like everything else it appears paradoxical. When you master the paradox you master the manifestation.” – Hemal Radia

More on Saturday’s call…

When you let go of attachment you focus more on the joy of the moment and of the process than the outcome. You know you will be ok. You have let go of your attachment to your form and to your  wellbeing. You are eternal. You are always fine. You have let go of your attachment to the outcome also. Because you have done this you can enjoy the present moment more, and the present moment is all you have.” – Hemal Radia

 

Click here to register onto Manifesting Excellence to access Saturday’s call/audio download

 

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“From Heartache to Joy” Global Summit

Eram Saeed has asked me to be one of the speakers in her “From Heartache to Joy Global Summit”.

It starts on February 5th and I will be speaking on February 20th about “Manifesting Love the
Easy Way by Following Your Heart

Other speakers include Marci Shimoff, Janet Attwood, Carol Look, and various others.

You can find out more about it by clicking here


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“You know you’re ‘Attached’ when you say things like…”

When you are ‘attached’ to something – whether it be something you want, a person, a situation, or anything else – you will have stifled your flow and be making it difficult for it to naturally manifest how you would like it to be.


On the Manifesting Excellence group I created a thread yesterday titled “You know you’re ‘Attached’ when you say things like...” where we shared many clues to know when you are  attached’ to something and know that you are not letting it happen, and then to work on relieving that.


Below are some of the comments I posted early on. Since then the thread has grown with many  other’s commenting and we will be having a call/audio to go into this in more detail and to resolve this and manifest what you are wanting.  If you’d like to find out more you can by  registering at Manifesting Excellence.



“You know you’re ‘Attached’ when you say things like…”


– “I just need this goal or thing and everything will be ok

– “ When will it happen?

– “I ‘hope’ this happens…

– “I need to manifest this so badly

- “I ‘need’ this…
- “I need it by x (eg Friday)
- “My friends will think differently of me or not like me in the same way anymore
- “How could you do this to me?
– “I ‘just’ need this to work out...

And so many more!! 


If you’d like to know the others and how to resolve them, click here to register to access the rest of the thread and the call/audio that will be covering this in detail.

 

The Situation you have isn’t Impossible…

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Things are made possible from the seeming ‘impossible’ by shifting your perspective, even slightly, and the rest of the Universe reorganises itself in relation to your thoughts…
Make another slight shift and the same happens again…
A few shifts later and you find yourself in a whole different place and with possibilities you weren’t even aware of before…
Everyone starts from a unique place in relation to their beliefs about a subject.  Start from wherever you are about a situation, and make a movement at a time…

This is a natural process. The reason people often don’t find the possibilities is they live from their own  (limiting) beliefs about it not being possible or it being difficult or they listen in to other people’s limitations. Think of the possibilities and enjoy them with great relish…
Relinquish your attachment to the past…
Let the freshness of the infinite possibilities permeate your soul. Remember how that feels?
It happens when you let go of the past and what was before and you create space and open yourself up to what’s ahead for you…
It is natural for you to be in that state of excitement and looking forward to what’s ahead..

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In all I teach and the work I do with others we aim not just to mention perspectives but to get practical too. How do you deal with situations?
Start with a small step,whatever it may be. Create movement.  Everyone comes from a unique situation with unique pespectives and problems and this is how I help people when I work with them.

Movement leads to more movement, dissipates fear and resistance, and gets the energy moving in your direction.

Successive movement builds momentum and eventually this momentum carries it…

 

If you have more thoughts on this then you are welcome to share them on Manifesting Excellence.

You can also click here to work with Hemal: Working One-to-One with Hemal

 

 

“Working with Fear about not having Money” and other topics

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These are details of the Manifesting Excellence call on Saturday, you can access it via the archives by registering at www.hemalradia.com/manifesting

Working with fear around not having money
– There are different ways into your flow
– Interaction about losing weight
– Being ‘pinned down’ energetically by the present
– Setting targets and a future direction
Enjoying the process and stepping away from where you are coming from
It’s the emotions behind not having money, such as survival, embarassment, etc
– Working with the core
emotions

- Fear can be like quicksand
Make a list of fears and concerns and work through them, whether emotionally or behaviourally
Make a list of 50-100 constructive ideas - the key thing is to get your mindset in a place of solutions and ideas
See this as a phase in your life (ie transient) and you will be moving on to better things
– “Meditation is normally said to be great and most spiritual masters seem to recommend it. Why is that? Does it get you better into your flow?”
– Because of what you go through you will be better and stronger
Set an outcome or goal or direction. It is easy for your mind to veer towards fear, give it another pre-set direction so it has somewhere else to turn to than the fear
– What would you like? How would you like it? Get as specific as you can?
– “Trying to do too much”
- The key thing is your alignment, not whether too much or too little – what feels the best and most desireful?
Avoid second guessing yourself and “splitting” your energy
- Does it feel better or worse to do less? How about to do more?
- Being ‘hopeful’ about manifestations and what it implies
– Getting conscious about how your impending manifestations feel to you
– You want to be ‘solid’ in your congruency and alignment
When you ARE it, you don’t have to think of becoming it
– Being gentle and soft with yourself and closing the emotional gap from where you are to where you want to be
– Being general at first and getting specific
– eg “I may not be where I want to be, but I’ll find my way…”
– eg “I may not know the how, but I love me having x. When I have it I will love x, y, z
etc”.
The emotions you feel are indicative of the emotional gap between where you are and where
you want to be
- Incorporating more into your life that adds towards your congruency, and taking things out which lead to incongruency
– For some people it can be addictive dealing with those that are incongruent. Be aware, and step
away
– “Energy vampires
Don’t get pulled into other’s issues when you don’t want to be. Be vigilant and aware
– Nurture the thoughts and things that add to your congruency and alignment
– Like orange juice, are you adding to the concentration or diluting it

These are details of the Manifesting Excellence call on Saturday, you can access it via the archives by registering at www.hemalradia.com/manifesting

 

 

 

“Which is better: Visualization, Writing it down, or Meditation?”

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I often get messages from many of you with questions about joining Manifesting Excellence.  Just to let you know that we had the first call of the year on Saturday and it is available as an audio in the archives by registering at www.hemalradia.com/manifesting.

Below is an overview of some of the content on it:

– “When trying to manifest, which is better: Visualization, writing it down on paper or journal, or meditation?
The key thing is the FEELING of what you want to manifest
– Using different processes for different areas of your life at different times
– Identifying more unconscious or subliminal thoughts
What to do when “feeling good” isn’t easy because you aren’t feeling very good
Lifing yourself up many energetic levels
– “How is our health being affected by our emotional state?”
Your body, mind and spirit know what to do for a perfectly healthy body, other than when you block with resistance
Negative emotions distort the communication within your body
– Your body – like everything else – is constantly regenerating itself
– When you are in your flow you are allowing in the ‘life force’ – just like when you are in love or excited about something
– “How do you control your thoughts?”
– “Manifesting flippantly
Being light and loose about what you want to manifest
Manifesting $10,000 being as easy as manifesting a parking space
– As you go up the energetic scale you get more outrageous, creative and inspirational in your thinking
– What thoughts come up that you don’t want? Release the negative emotional base of them
Amplify the good thoughts you want with positive emotion
– “I’m in a relationship and afraid of sabotaging it. I fear it not working out or me not being good  enough or pretty enough of keeping him. I really like him and I’m fighting myself with the negative and the fear…what can I do?”
– Filtering present relationships and yourself with habits from past relationships
Dulling your senses with noise from the past
Things to say to yourself to feel better about yourself and the relationship you are in
Setting outcomes and goals for yourself and the relationship into the future
Abusive relationships and the dynamics in them
– An abuser acts the way they do because they are so disconnected and out of their flow
– “I lost my work and then couldn’t find more work and went through all my money and bottomed out as an alcoholic. I have now been sober for 5 1/2 years and lost a job recently and am filled with fear. I am working on a movie and believe I have many other talents but do not know how to bring the money in. I also believe I may have blocks to money and self-worth and self-esteem are always a work in progress  for me. What can I do?”
– Turning intention to something commercially profitable
Use the Manifesting Excellence private Facebook group to interact ideas
– When in fear, start making actions to get the momentum going

You can register at www.hemalradia.com/manifesting to access the audio from the call at the weekend as well as the archives with audios on topics such as attracting money, relationships, freeing up energy and emotional attachment, making 2013 a great year, and much much more!

 

Letting Go of Emotional Attachment

Thank you for your Happy New Year messages!  I hope your New Year has started wonderfully well!

In the last day or two on the private Facebook group for Manifesting Excellence there was a thread shared by someone about letting go of attachment. I had mentioned something last year and she was mentioning how she had found it transformational. I later commented on her post and afterwards thought that you might enjoy it too, I’ve included it below.

Enjoy!
(If you’d like to check it out, click Manifesting Excellence to find out more)

Letting Go of Emotional Attachment

“Another way of letting go of emotional attachment is asking what if it doesn’t happen? Not that you don’t want it to happen, but of revealing fears and letting them go about it so you can focus on what feels good to you about having it.

It appears paradoxical in that it seems you are releasing what you want, but you are releasing the fears so you can make space for what you want.

When we want something with fear (or other emotions) attached to it we are sending out mixed signals and we wonder why it doesn’t come to us and what we are doing wrong. It’s actually that we have those emotions there and by releasing them (and when we do we are genuinely at peace about it because we have placed our power in our Self than on something outside) we have created space for what we want.

There are some spiritual circles that say not to have desire. I think it may be about semantics as oftentimes they imply that the desire has elements of fear or lack etc and that’s why they may be saying not to have desire.

My view is it’s about letting go of the emotional attachment (which is through the negative emotions) and you are left with pure desire, pure Source energy, pure love, pure God – whatever you want to call it – and it’s the most powerful and most purest energy and you will create in your life as if you are God. Well, you ARE God, an aspect and embodiment of God and offering the unique reflection and aspect of God that no one else can.”

 

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“Soul-to-Soul Love vs Ego-to-Ego Love”

 

Soul-to-soul ‘love’ is flow/infinite/abundant/expansive and connective…
Whereas ego-to-ego ‘love’ can be divisive/fear-based/limited/scarcity thinking and contractive.

Ego-to-ego can resonate at times in people’s journeys and their evolution and for where they are at that moment – there is nothing necessarily ‘wrong’ with it, it can be a phase like many others.

But it may not be something that lasts as it is based on the superficial and transient, than on the deeper, infinite, the divine, or the ‘truth’ – who you really are.

You are your soul/spirit in addition to your physical form. Loving something (or someone) for their form is transient because they will change form, as will you.

But loving someone for who they are will be an eternal love affair because that’s ‘who’ they are and who you are.

One is expansive, abundant, timeless, connective and adds to who you are – the other is divisive, fear-basesd, contractive and transient.

What do you think? Share your thoughts in the comments below!

 Soulmate and Soul Love

 

“Finding Love” call this week

 

This Saturday's Manifesting Excellence call is about "Finding Love"!

* Do you keep attracting the same type of man/woman into your life?

* Are you finding that what you are looking for hasn't been appearing in your life?

* Are you scared of getting into a relationship or feel that you won't be happy?

* Do you believe that what you want isn't out there?

* Do you believe that you are carrying the past with you and it makes it difficult for you to have what you want and be happy?

* For this and much more, and YOUR questions, join us on the Manifesting Excellence call this coming Saturday!

Click here to register for Manifesting Excellence

P.S. In registering you also get access to the call archives on topics such as Money, Relationships, Fear, Letting Go and much more.  Register at Manifesting Excellence