Physical Conditions, “Getting Older”, High Energy and Much More…

 

IF YOU BELIEVE IN DECLINE IN YOUR LIFE, YOU WILL SEE MORE OF IT

For many people as they get older they experience what they perceive as ‘symptoms’ of getting older, such as some aches and pains, gaining a little weight, perhaps less energy than what they were used to.  As a result, they start to filter their experiences with something synonymous to “I am getting old(er)”.

That in itself is not a bad thing but when you have a belief filter such as “I am getting older” and associate that with decline, plus if you filter everything else through that, then you are asking for trouble.

Even activities that you are capable of doing, if you process them through the generalised filter of “I am getting older” globally throughout your life, you unnecessarily ask yourself questions such as “Can I still do that?” and “Am I still capable of doing that?” and limit yourself.

Your energy about easily doing those activities gets tainted with a mixed energy.  It is no longer the fresh exciting exhilaration of being alive and flowing your energy to that which pleases you the most.  Instead, at least partially, it is a focusing of your energy on limitations and incapabilities.

And what you focus on, grows in your awareness and experience (Law of Attraction).

Physical conditions, "Getting older" and much more

It’s not just when people have symptoms that they create this filter for themselves but perhaps when they pass a milestone age, such as 30, 40, 50, 60 etc. Or how about when someone remarks to you “You’re getting old” or something is because “It’s age.”

All of these can be enough for someone to adopt a belief filter of “I’m getting old(er)”. That in itself is not a bad thing because in truth in every moment you literally are ‘older’.  But the problem is when most people take on the filter (belief) of “Getting old(er)”, they generalise their life through it and they look for indicators of their decline.

And of course as you look for something – you find it!  You get more confirmation and validation and now you have a negative spiral going on.

 

A SOLUTION

As you progress through life it may serve you more in choosing to not see your life or body as in ‘decline’ or ‘aging’ but instead realising you are entering different phases of your life which will have different characteristics.

People get so preoccupied with what they perceive as declining in some ways that they forget their increasing capabilities and experiences in other ways.

Aren’t you now more experienced, wiser, intelligent and perhaps even more creative than before?  (Including perhaps in having read this piece!)

So the emphasis should be in what ways are you better, more experienced, more advanced, stronger and so much more!  It is about growing THIS belief filter and withdrawing your energy from others that disempower you.

If you genuinely do this, your life will transform quickly.

In what ways you are better, stronger, more experienced, wiser, progressed?  Share your thoughts in the comments below!

If you would like to work with Hemal Radia do check out the One-to-One and Manifesting Excellence pages!

 

 

 

Jealousy, Control & Fear are Denials of Who You TRULY Are

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“Hi Hemal, I was wondering what your thoughts were on jealousy?

I have been hurt so badly in the past by someone and struggle to move on from that.

I stayed alone for sometime and thought I had dealt with it – via reiki and positive thoughts and law of attraction etc – now I am with my new man I on occasion feel it in my stomach and find it hard to keep under control.Dont get me wrong its not a possessive thing, just the odd occasion where I feel sick to the stomach. I know deep down its my own mind and self esteem and I work with this daily but wondered what your view on it was or any advice from your way….thanks for your time to read ..have a great day

Em x”

 

When we are going into a relationship, we are feeling wonderful things and the beautiful emotions build and build – an example of Law of
Attraction!  And then what happens is we may experience fears and
insecurities and other things may come up.  It may be that we are fearful of losing what we have, or that we have a bit of moment to reflect and absorb what has been happening and start to ‘think’ (and the fears and ‘patterning’ come up) rather than continue ‘being‘ in that wonderful feel-good place.

 

“After people attract something (such as a relationship), they can
sometimes get busy trying not to lose it, which is a very different
vibration to what attracted it to them in the first place…”

 

Jealousy is a response to thinking that something is yours when in fact, like everything else in the Universe, it isn’t, and you are no ones either.  Other than the fact that you are two souls meeting along your journey.

 

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The discomfort that exists is because you are thinking thoughts that
are taking you out of your flow and from what you want.  And what you
want isn’t just this physical being in your life, but the essences of
what you are experiencing.  Whilst your physical body and mind
experiences this person, your soul and essences are experiencing so
much more and that is what led to the physical meeting.

You can’t be jealous if you are on your path and know that you will be ok. You cannot base your own wellbeing on another’s presence and feelings for you, but on your own connection to wellbeing and flow (which in itself is attractive for others to be around you).

You love them and adore them because, as a free being, you are chosing to be with them, and vice versa. There is no attachment or holding, especially emotionally. Allow them to be free, they will appreciate and love you even more for it.  Otherwise, energetically, they will feel constricted too.  And when someone feels constriction or pressure, little things can start to come in (such as disagreements, arguments etc) which can build.  It is far better to have the space within ourselves and allow the other, and ourselves, to be who we are.  To be fearless in all eventualities and being at peace with them, so we can enjoy our now.

 

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“Anytime we build a strong momentum about something, and we experience
strong emotions or fears to the contrary, it can get pretty
uncomfortable.”

You cannot carve out and separate a bit of the Universe (such as a person) and hold it in statis
forever and say it is yours.  Everything is interconnected and
interrelated, as are you. You wouldn’t want it any other way.  You
wouldn’t want to be disconnected from your flow. It is more important
to you than this relationship or anything else, because it is to do
with your relationship with who YOU are as the spiritual being that is
living this physical life.

We fear losing what we have but remember we cannot ‘hold’ or ‘force’ something.  What we can do is deal with the fears about it.  What would happen if this person left?  Be at peace with that.  Have it so that does not scare you and you can focus your emotional energy on appreciating what you two have together.

Anytime a limiting thought comes up, identify the underlying what fear behind it, and let it go.  All fears are limited perspectives of the Universe.  They imply that you will not be ok as a result of something happening or not happening.  When in fact the Universe is wellbeing and does not place conditions on it, only you do.

“You came together to love and adore each other, not to be scared of what the future may hold.”

Any jealousy or element of control is about one’s fear or lack of security or certainty about having or keeping something that they want, or how they want it. It is an illusion because you can never truly ‘have’ something and keep it static forever and how you want it.  That’s the illusion. And that can be scary itself the first time someone realises that.  But that’s only fear, it is not reality. The reality is you have no need to be scared because you are safe.

The ‘truth‘ is your flow and connection to all that you want, including through this person or thing that you want. Take your attention away from the noises and distractions from fear, and put them on your truth which is your ever-abundant and ever-infinite flow and adulation from the Universe.

How can you ever be without when you realise how much you mean to this Universe?  There was no coincidence in your creation, and nothing would be withheld from you.  You just needed to know how to ask for it – vibrationally.  In realising your connection, you have nothing to fear being without.  It’s like having fears in looking at a blade of grass, and not seeing the whole field.

 

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