Going into the New Year with MOMENTUM!


You may be reflecting on the year that is passing and the year that is coming in. As you go from one year to another there is a momentum you carry with you, it is filled with your hopes and excitement for what is ahead and pride from where you have come from, or even sometimes disappointment and the intention for things to be better, all in all it is a momentum. The attracting power of the momentum is based on your strength of intent and your alignment to it. This momentum you carry with you all the time – your vibration – but psychologically many people believe the turning of the year as significant for them, a new canvas to paint upon so to speak, although you have this momentum with you ALL THE TIME 



Wherever you are at know that you have the potential to shape your next year better than at any point in your life. You are wiser, smarter and more experienced.  On a spiritual or non-physical level you ALWAYS have MORE resources than you have EVER HAD, as a spiritual being you are ALWAYS EXPANDING, even in your mistakes you expand, you grow, you cannot not grow, ALL THE TIME. In your physical life your vibration has been CONSTANTLY expanding. On a spiritual level you are far more evolved now with far more resources and synchronicities and abilities available to you than you have ever had, it is just a matter of you lining up to them vibrationally, which is what this blog, the audios/teleseminars, the one-to-ones and all that you have been experiencing with me have been about


Below are some things for you to consider in supporting you in getting into attraction mode, you can write the answers in the comments below if you like, YOU ARE BUILDING YOUR VIBRATION ABOUT WHAT YOU WANT, that is what it is about, and the Universe matches your vibration, it can't not, it's physics. And further below I will even tell you what each point below is doing for your consciousness and focus,

1 – Write 3 to 5 things that you have Appreciated about this year

2 – Write 3 to 5 things (or more) that you are Anticipating/Excited about next year

3 – This time next year, what will you be delighted and proud with? What will have happened? (You can do this for the end of Jan too, what will you be proud of by then?)

What the above does:

1 – It gets your focus onto what you Appreciated about this year and on what you LIKED, i.e. a POSITIVE focus, it takes your attention off anything that wasn't quite great but onto what you liked, and you are also making peace with it this way. And by focusing on what you like and appreciate and having your vibration in that place you are looking to attract more of the same

2 – In building the vibration of things to look forward to, and by writing a few things you are strengthening that vibration

3 – This builds on (2) and takes it further and deepens it, 'delighted' can be thought of as a stronger emotion and higher vibration, and in writing this you are writing it as if it has happened, and that is a strong place to be.  Practice that vibration of it having already happened, and the path between then and now will organise itself. I tell my clients if they have done their vibrational work, the 'how' and the path will sort itself out


When you have Dreams and you feel your day to day reality is not in line with them

Kim: I have one primary goal that I want and I have given a lot thought about it and really love the feeling of having it, but my day-to-day work and my thoughts of work hinder me occasionally and I end up flowing upstream with thoughts. Is there a way to stay tuned in and connected all the time, no matter what?

In terms of day to day works thoughts, my thinking is along the lines of no matter how hard people may try to find good feeling places while at their day to day job, it is really hard to stay in a good mood if 1) you are not happy with your circumstances or 2) people around you are only being disruptive and are negative in their outlook. This is why I asked how can one stay connected nearly all the time and just go with the feeling of allowing.

The ‘day to day’ work is not so much an issue or doesn’t have to create discord in you, in fact you could enjoy it, when you think it’s likely not to be around forever as you’re on your way to ‘better things’ if that thought feels better to you.

The Value of Resistance and Contrast

So you are asking if there is a way to stay tuned in and connected all the time, no matter what.  I would presume that to mean not having resistance or ‘contrast’.  Realise that resistance and contrast serve functions in the manifesting process, they enable you to make preferences and choices, they fire ‘rockets of desire’, and then you line up to them.  And you have manifestations, and from those new perspectives (and contrast) you have new preferences and choices.

I’m presuming that it’s not necessarily about staying connected ‘all the time’ but about lining up and staying connected so you can manifest what you want, so let’s work with that.

Making Peace with the Present

You know that whilst you have discord about where you are currently you are not quickly getting close to where you want to be, the solution is to make peace with where you are at. 

You mention the circumstances and the people ‘disruptive and negative in their outlook’, realise that circumstances are a mirror of the vibration that has been given off and the sooner attention is put onto something else the sooner you can let new things in.  I’ll use the diagram from the previous post which illustrates this


So, let’s sooth the vibration of where things have been.
You may have thoughts around the current work such as ‘Oh, you’re getting in the way of my dreams’, ‘As soon as you go I can get on with my primary goal and dreams’ or ‘The people here are just pulling me back’ or ‘The people here are so disruptive’.  Whilst those thoughts can be understandable in the environment, you want to get at peace with that.  Because whilst your observations are on that, you’ll see more and more evidence of it and not allow evidence of you being close to all the things that you DO want.

Can you find something about your work that you can appreciate, or like?  Is there something that you ‘might’ appreciate?  Did the work come to you at a time when you needed it?  Or has helped you to pay the bills?  Realise, in your whole evolution, this work came to you at a time when it was a vibrational match for you.  You may not enjoy it or love it, and that’s ok, but you can be thankful (and I’m not suggesting you’re not).  Kind of like friends, who have known each other a while and both have evolved in their own ways and it is time to move on, and there’s no point holding grudges or ‘bad vibes’ about it.  Make peace with the current work.  If you are able to focus on thoughts about it that you appreciate then all the better.

You might say ‘How can I get at peace with it when I’m still in it?’  You make peace with it, but also realise that for wherever you want to be going, you need to make the emotional journey first, so that it can be reflected in the circumstances you experience.  The only reason this job is still around and not something else is you are a closer match to this through your attention at this moment in time.

Feeling better about the Present

If there are consistent things that keep coming up in your day to day reality that don’t feel good then:

-List them, use them to pivot to what does feel good.  Eg ‘The people I work with are very negative’, pivot it to ‘I’m going to have people around me who are inspirational and I feel energised around’ and then when that’s comfortable then into present tense such as ‘I have fantastic people around me who all contribute so positively to my life

-You can work on finding aspects that you appreciate about
those things or other things, or you could make humour of it

Realise that your present moment is on a continuum, there are things
‘better’ than it and there are things ‘worse’ than it.  Which you
compare it to will determine how you feel about where you are
currently.  It’s all about using the comparisons and thoughts to feel
good right now

-You could for example play a game that every hour (or whatever time frame) you have to find one unique thing in your day to day work that you like or appreciate.

-You could use the future processes I mention in this post where you go out to the future and you look back to now from it, realising that you GOT what you wanted, you GOT your primary goal, and where you are now was a piece in the whole orchestration of it

When you are feeling good and in the moment (and acting from joy) you’re not counting the moments, you’re not hoping or working out how soon you can have your other goals, because you are enjoying the present moment, and ironically you tend to do better and attract what you want quickly anyway.

Using your Desire to Feel Good

So let’s move onto the second part, which is perhaps more directly related to what you asked, about feeling good.  You can find things in the present work that feel good, or you can find things in your primary goal that feel good (which you are) or you can find thoughts in anything else that feel good, but just not contradict it with your thoughts about the present work, that seems to be the key in what you’re asking.  If you feel good and don’t contradict it you’ll get what you want.

If you’re getting ‘sucked’ into not feeling good from the ‘day to day work’ and you feel good about your primary goal, then practice that vibration further and further.  If your vibration is higher about it then the day to day work vibration may not have the same impact.  The way to stay connected more of the time is to practice the vibration of what you want, and as you do that it becomes more and more familiar and more ‘normal’…in fact more ‘day to day’ shall we say 😉  and the momentum (and Law of Attraction) is very firmly in that direction.  If your dominant thoughts are in a direction about what you want then that’s where the momentum is.

Spend more time focusing on what you like about it, the best aspects of it, how you’d like it to turn out, etc.  How would it feel to be in your life right now?  You will find as you have that vibration around you more and more you will notice things around you change, things in your day to day work will be different.  But, your focus is on you feeling good, not looking at the external environment for reference.  The manifestation could be close to happening – often 99% of the work is done before you see it on the physical – and by you checking for it you’re bringing that into your vibration, if there is doubt or uncertainty that comes into it, and it’s not helpful.  Your attention should be on your own thoughts and feelings about what you want than looking at others for reference, impose your intent [on the environment] through your vibration than the other way around.



Using the Future to tap into your Feelings and gain Wisdom & Insights

I’ve often said about GET INTO THE FEELING OF WHAT YOU WANT, here’s a way of doing it…

Firstly, determining your sense of time…

You have a sense of your past yes?  i.e. a collection
of memories, going back over the years?  It doesn’t have to be vivid
necessarily, but just a sense of it.  And you have a sense of the
future?  And right now you are at Now.  Can you imagine a sort of
timeline with that?  You have a way of differentiating for example what happened last week to last year, and also what you expect next week to, say, next year for example.

Working with the Future

I’m going to go through a few steps, you may want to try them all initially and then later use the ones (of the later steps) you particularly enjoy and have a feel for, essentially they are giving you a new perspective, a new way of looking at, or rather FROM, your goal.
So in future this can be a quick process because you know what you like
and enjoy, initially I’m giving you a few ways you can use this.

1. Ok, think of something you want in the future.  It could be a specific goal or it could be an intention, so for example you could say ‘I have the solution to my financial/business challenges
because currently you don’t know what the answer is, or even that there
might be a possible answer, because you are in ‘problem’ mode, you
could be finding it difficult to contemplate a solution, so you find it
easier to set an intent than try to think of a specific solution. 

On the other hand you could have a specific goal too
which you know you want.  Anything is fine, this process is really for
helping you in ALIGNING VIBRATIONALLY with what you want.  You can use whatever form you want, and as you practice the vibration you’ll have experiences and thoughts which will make it clearer anyway (and you can do this exercise as much or as little as you like, in whatever way feels best)

2. Float up above Now in your time line,
so you’re above Now looking down seeing yourself down there in Now.
You can do this closed or open eye, whichever you prefer. 

3.  Now go forward in time to when you feel you will have this goal or outcome or intent.  You don’t have to be precise in terms of timing if you don’t want to, you can just get a sense of when.
It’s important you feel comfortable (and possibly excited or better
when you finish).  How soon you can have things is based on your
ability to ‘allow’ and as you work with your thoughts and beliefs, what
you can do and how quickly will always be evolving and improving anyway.

So now you’re above your timeline, above the event or outcome or intention (not ‘in’ it, yet).  Look down and see what you see, hear what you hear, feel what you feel.  You can see yourself down there with your outcome. 
you want to get some distance on it you can float higher above your
timeline or if you want to get closer you can go down and into it
(which we’ll do in a moment))

Describe to yourself what is happening down there.
So you’ve gotten your goal, how is it for you?  What are you seeing?
Hearing?  Feeling?  What is happening around you?  Describe it in as
much detail as you like.  If it feels good then spend time on it, milk the thoughts vibrationally, let the energy flow from the feelings.
If it doesn’t feel good then adjust it so it does.  You may want to
work with your thoughts separately and come back to this exercise with
something you DO feel good about.


4.  Step INTO the outcome and experience it vividly.  Feel the emotions.
If you’ve acquired something then how does it feel to have it or own
it.  What does it feel like when you touch/hold it, what is the texture
like?  The colours?  What do you hear?

Spend as long on this as you like.  This could be a
fun place to be!!  Remember, when you’re feeling good you are flowing
life force.  Your thoughts were always your way of flowing energy and
when you’re doing it you feel great.  So milk it, use this to feel as
good as you like.  Keep yourself in this place for as long as you can, at least 17+ seconds (so your vibration adjusts to your thoughts), and minutes and longer if you like.  Play with it than thinking of it as an exercise.  Manifesting, like most things in life, it works best when it’s fun and a game than when it’s a jobPlay!!  Lol

5.  Now this is a key step, go back above your timeline again, like you’re over the event, and go to AFTER the event has occurred.
It can be an hour, a day, a week etc, whatever time period you like,
but it’s AFTER THE SUCCESSFUL COMPLETION of the event, it’s all done
and over and you have what you wanted.  Notice I said ‘wanted’, because from this perspective it will be something that has happened,
i.e. you are AFTER the event has occurred.  Now, look down, how does it
feel?  How does it feel to be being, doing, having what you wanted?  To
be living FROM it?  You can also step down into the event (i.e. after
the goal has happened)

From this perspective, you’re not wanting or looking for something, because you already have it!
You’re not only BEING, DOING, HAVING, but because you are further in
time in having it (from when the goal was achieved), you’ve been being,
doing, having for some time, so in fact the absence of it isn’t even
there because you’ve had it and the vibration of having it is very familiar to you.

Other uses for the Perspective of the Future

This is also a great process for removing anxiety
about something.  Because if you are truly seeing yourself from a
perspective of having something, from beyond its successful completion,
how can you be anxious about it?  It (anxiety) can’t exist because YOU
HAVE WHAT YOU WANT, you’re looking from a perspective of beyond having

And if say you don’t know if you can think about
having it then why not?  Why would you want to line yourself up
vibrationally with something than what you want?  Why would you want to
think of something other than what you want?  It’s taking charge and
taking responsibility of the thoughts you have.

If you were anxious about a date (or an interview for
example), you couldn’t be nervous about it from a perspective of AFTER
it happened could you?  From the day after or a week after for
example.  Anxiety is an emotion of the future and it can’t exist when
you’re looking back from beyond it, with thoughts of having succeeded.
You can get a bit more distance and go into the future a bit more
further on from the outcome if you want to, but anxiety can’t exist if
you’re beyond the event and thinking thoughts of it having gone how you wanted it to, and why would you want to think otherwise anyway…

Something else you can do, if you’re into
conscious/intellectual learnings lol, is when you’re beyond the
successful completion of the outcome you can ask yourself questions
such as:

  • What have you learnt?
  • Who have you become, in what ways have you grown/developed?
  • If you were to give yourself 3-5 great learnings in having achieved this, what would they be?
  • And so on…

And you can ask any questions you want, but remember the answers will be as good as the questions you ask lol.  The Receiving will be as good as the Asking  lol  So ask yourself the most amazing questions you like.

There is no such thing as time, there is only the past and future constructionsperspectivesfrom your present moment, you are working with time to gain insights and perspectives which are always available to you.

You can also go further in time too, for example 10 years or more, and look back at the insights from that perspective, AND USE THEM NOW.
So you’re using the wisdom from the future, NOW, and not having to go
through as much trial learning as you might have otherwise.

Let’s say someone is looking to find someone and be
in a relationship, be married, etc.  They could see the events unravel
in their timeline, they could be above it and look down and see these
events occur, and they could go out to say 10 years in time when
they’ve been married for a number of years, fantastically, happy,
successful experiences (why would you want to entertain a vibration any
less than that…? 🙂 ), they could imagine them to be the most
glorious years of their life.

You can create whatever fantasies and realities you like in
your future and USE THEM to gain massive insights.  What if you created
a future reality of working with the top people in your field, and you
had gained 10 years of insights with them, and brought it back to now
to use?  What is that doing?  It is lining you up vibrationally to that
wisdom, you will be acting and living and feeling FROM that place.
Every thought that has ever been thought is available to you, you just
need to be in vibrational range to access it.

The Physical follows your Vibration

Remember, the physical follows your vibration not
the other way round.  Don’t look around you for things to inspire you,
because whilst there may be things, you’re relying on external (i.e.
outside of you) influences to affect your vibration, which means you’ll
do well when things will be going well, but when there aren’t too many
inspirational things around you you may not do so well (because you’re
relying on external influences), instead be a visionary and blaze a trail based on your thoughts and intentions, let your vibration create the physical experiences to match it, and the irony is you’ll then attract the external influences that inspire you anyway,
no matter what is happening in the world.  The world could be in a
recession but you’ll be amongst those that are thriving because if your vibration is of prosperity, you can’t attract anything other than that, it’s a universal law.

Any questions on this feel free to write to me, I’m
happy to clarify anything, and if you found it of value then great!
And let me know so I have feedback on what you’re liking.  And if it
wasn’t great for you, not to worry, there’s an ABUNDANCE of processes
and things you can do, so there’ll be limitless numbers of those that
WILL be great for you