3 Tips to “Letting Go” And Manifest More Easily

 

This is a popular and powerful topic which came up at the recent Manifesting Excellence get-together.  There is so much I can say on it but for now I will share some tips below and we can cover more over time if you’d like me to (let me know in the comments below if you would!)

Letting Go

Letting Go To Manifest

Attachment can be about pretty much anything: people, possessions, the past, our looks/bodies, jobs, money, the present – anything!

It is not so much about what you are attached to but more so the constricting of your flow from the attachment that limits your life and prevents new happenings, opportunities, experiences and so much more coming in.

Here are some tips on ‘letting go’… you can reply to this and let me know what you think!

 

1 – Letting Go is Not Necessarily Letting Go of What You Want but to the Resistance (Attachment) to What You Want – Thus You ALLOW and RECEIVE it Better Into Your Life.

You can manifest just by ‘letting go’ and not necessarily actively ‘chasing’ something and trying to ‘make’ it happen (not that I am recommending that – there are many ways of manifesting, but I’m saying it can be done), it is something I have done regularly and we have seen happen on Manifesting Excellence a lot too.

 

2 – Are You Attached to the Who, What, Where, When How etc?

The key word here is ‘attached’, is it something that is taking you out of your flow or into your flow?

If you want to be with a particular love and it is taking you INTO your flow there does not necessarily need to be anything wrong with that.

But if you are thinking of someone and pining over them believing you cannot/will not have them, it is probably taking you out of flow (especially as there is likely to be attention to ‘lack’ on some level).

Similarly, when you think about money does it take you into or out of your flow?

Cleaning up beliefs and perspectives about a subject will change your attraction to it and of it coming into your life.  If you want help, join us on Manifesting Excellence.

 

3 – Are You Constricting Your Flow or Expanding and Allowing it?

It’s ALL about universal/spiritual energy (or whatever you want to call it… Universe, God, your Higher Self etc) and the connection between you and ‘it’ (which is just another aspect of you).

The thoughts you think and emotions you feel: are they leading to CONGRUENCE or incongruence?

Are they opening up the cells of your body to receive?  Or are you tightening up, anxious, scared etc?

When do you feel your best?  In moving towards what you are congruent with, you will also be moving away from the fear and scarcity energy connected to attachment.

 

When you move towards (and beyond) ‘letting go’, the universe finds solutions for you beyond what you ever thought.

But when you attach (and identify) yourself to old paradigms that do not serve you, you limit the ways the broader universe can come into and influence your life.

 

 

 

Manifesting by Letting Go of Old Energy & Clutter

 

Would you like to finish this year ready to have what you want in 2015?

For many, this time of year, in addition to being about loved ones and the spirit of festivity, is a time where focus shifts to closing out this year and starting the next with anticipation, excitement and great expectations.

This post will help you with that as well as what I will be covering this week, details below.

 

YOU CAN MANIFEST BY LETTING GO

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For many people, when they think about creation and manifestation, they think it to be about ‘creating’, ‘making happen’ and even ‘forcing’ things to happen.

It is often more about the allowing of you and who you are. The processes where people think they are activating their goal, whether by visualisation or any other process, is actually improving their ability to allow and RECEIVE what they want.

The reason most people do not manifest what they want is usually because of old energy they have trapped around them that they haven’t let go of (which is distorting their ability to allow and receive what they want).

Most people have the ability to manifest and create, but they block it and resist it, inadvertently and usually outside of their conscious awareness ie they unconsciously block it.

That is why it is important to reflect on energy we can release to create space for what we would like. When we do this, oftentimes what we want can come in automatically.

You are creating space in your energetic field by letting go of what no longer serves you.

 

IN WHAT WAYS MIGHT YOU HAVE ‘OLD ENERGY’ AROUND YOU RIGHT NOW?

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Some forms of old energy/clutter:

- Emotions/memories
– Beliefs
– Physical clutter
– Digital clutter (Emails, text messages, files etc),
– People and emotions around them
– Incomplete/unresolved situations
– And much more

The above list is not exhaustive, I will be covering other hidden aspects this week.

The key thing is not the item but the energy you have about it.

Are you tolerating a situation or person in your life?

Are you aware that by you ‘tolerating’ the situation (whether consciously or unconsciously) it is taking energy for you to push against (resist) it? This takes energy from your body’s ability to heal & grow, you to manifest etc.

I will be talking about the above and much more on two Manifesting Excellence calls this week (you will also receive the audio downloads), on Wednesday & Saturday, where you can identify what you need to let go of as well as create an outstanding 2015.

This is the last chance to access this information for 2014.

Click here if you would like to access this content about letting go and creating an outstanding 2015 (includes access to the audio downloads).

The topics covered on the calls will include:

- Manifesting by Letting Go of Old Energy
– Overcoming ‘Clutter Blindness’
– Identifying ‘Unconscious Clutter’ You Didn’t Know You Had
– Incomplete and Unresolved Situations Take Up Your Energy
– What Are You Tolerating That is Silently Draining You?
– How to Determine if Something is Old Energy to Let Go of
– How to Easily Create Space For What You Want
– Focusing Techniques for 2015 Goals
– And Much More!

Register here to access this and much more!

 

 

Dr Emoto dies…. (water crystal work)

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You may know of the work of Dr Emoto, perhaps from the movie “What the Bleep Do We Know?“, about his work with water crystals.

He visually documented that water would take on “the resonance of the energy” that was directed at it, leading to molecular changes in it.  See the pic below for an illustration of this.

Dr Emoto Water Crystal Experiment

If water is so responsive to our thoughts and energy, what does that mean about our ability to heal and transform our body as it is over 70% water?

And what about for the world around us which is also over 70% water?

Last Friday, 17th October 2014, Dr Emoto passed away peacefully with his wife by his side, at the age of 71.  His last word was “Arigato” – “Thank you” in Japanese.

Below is an excerpt from “What the Bleep Do We Know?” that mentions the water crystals, it is around 50 seconds into the clip.

 

 

Dr Emoto

Dr Emoto’s legacy of our thoughts affecting our reality lives on…

 

 

“3 Waves of Manifesting”

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Just to let you know that on the Manifesting Excellence call at the weekend we covered the notion of “3 Waves of Manifesting“.

This is a new concept that I have been sharing which evolves your awareness of manifesting, making it easier and faster in your life.

Below are some of the notes from the call. If you would like to access the audio recording of it you can do so by registering at www.hemalradia.com/manifesting.

 

“3 Waves of Manifesting”

Wave 1 – Affirmations, visualisation, goal-setting, ‘positive thinking’ etc (‘Simple stuff’) – the early days, years ago
Wave 2 – Getting into the ‘feeling’, energy, vibration etc (Being conscious of getting into the feeling/energy)
Wave 3 – What we covered on the call at the weekend

– Each of the previous waves, through greater awareness, leads to the next wave. Each subsequent waves includes the previous ones
– Using the terms quantum field, The Field, God, Universe, Source, Inner Being, Higher Self, energetic or non-physical aspect of you interchangeably
– All the techniques you have learnt, all the wisdom and the insights, all the ‘aha’ moments, they take you to the third wave – this wave includes everything before it
- Your higher self is already there (where you want to be/do/have)
– “People often talk about faith. As I think about it, faith is an intermediate state because when you ARE something/somewhere, you do not need faith, you just ‘are'”

– “Let’s say you want to be a certain bodyweight. Notice, isn’t your higher-self already there energetically? What gets in the way is your past and present conditioning of how you see yourself”
Vibration/Energy Management
– Realise also that this is layered. In that you make some changes and it creates a shift within you. Then you make some more changes, and so on – PROGRESSIVE
– “When people are waiting for things outside of them to change, it suggests that they themselves have not fully changed because they are waiting for the outside. When you yourself have changed on the inside it won’t matter what happens on the outside because you are congruent with your change. Ironically, this is the quickest way the outside changes also.

Your inner being is
– All loving
– Abundant
– Knows it will be fine
– Nurturing/divine energy
– COMPLETION energy – not seeking or intention energy

When you say the following to yourself and how to resolve it
- “I’m not good enough”
   – “If only I did/didn’t do that”
   – “If only I could be/do/have…”
   – “I’m not young/old enough”
  – “I’m not smart/good looking enough”
  – “Why hasn’t it happened yet?”
  – “Why doesn’t it happen for me?”
  – “Why me?”

- Those that try to get what they want by creating drama
– Some people get invested in drama because it gets them things… and then it is reinforced by people giving them things
– Notice the energy behind drama energy – “I don’t have what I want” – it can be victimhood, anger, noise, distraction etc - if you have what you want (ie aligned to your higher-self), would you need to do that?
– It is about COMPLETION energy
The third wave is working with that energetic part of you and being it. Living it. Being the physical embodiment of it. Living heaven on earth


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“Meeting Christopher Reeve, Marlon Brando, Britt Ekland, Peter Sellers and David Niven”

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Yesterday I had a very lovely experience which all started by me setting an intention, which I will share with you in a moment.

I was on my way to the gym early yesterday morning and I knew I would be doing quite a bit of cardio so I set an intention… I said to myself: “Wouldn’t it be lovely if I bump into some wonderful people at the gym and we have some GREAT chats!

The irony is this… I DID meet three people… and they were all people I had known from the gym for years, but (as a result of the energy of the intention) we had very NEW conversations…

The world around you reveals itself to your energy… if you have the same energy then you have the same experiences and same aspects experienced from others. 

Change your energy, and you draw forth new experiences, including from the same people.
The third person I synchronistically bumped into worked freelance with film studios such as Pinewood and Shepperton here in the UK and worked on major blockbuster movies over the years.  We have said hello to each other for years but this time we talked about all sorts of experiences that we have had in our lives.

In his case, we was telling me how in the 70s and 80s he worked on the Superman and Star Wars movies amongst others.  He met Christopher Reeve, Marlon Brando, Peter Sellers and his wife Britt Ekland, David Niven and many others.

I got to know about these people as if I had met them myself… their nuances and their day to day habits which most people never get to know.
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As we got talking my friend mentioned how in breaks during filming they would play football (soccer!).  They played football matches with Christopher Reeve and the lighting crew.  He told me now nowadays it wouldn’t happen anymore because the studios try to protect their ‘assets’ (the actors), including for insurance reasons.  I learned how Marlon Brando would take the crew out for drinks and was “a man’s man”.

I heard about how Peter Sellers would keep to himself, perhaps focused on his roles.  And there were quite a few stories about him and his then wife Britt Ekland!

I also heard about how David Niven is just like he is on-screen as is Christoper Reeve, and a gentleman.

My friend and I talked for quite a while and I learnt about many of the behind-the-scenes secrets and how high profile actors were when they weren’t on-screen.

I ended up getting a lot of cardio done as well as us laughing a lot and having plenty of fun!  At the end my friend and I shook hands and said we would chat again.

 

Let’s See What Happened Manifestationally…

1 – I set an intention: “Wouldn’t it be lovely if I bump into some wonderful people at the gym and we have some GREAT chats!

2 – I let it go.  I stayed in the moment and enjoyed my time in the gym.  I found that I used three pieces of equipment and waiting for me on the next equipment every time was someone ready to have a conversation.

Sure, I could have put on my earphones and listened to music or done something else, but I’d set the intention for conversation and this is what I got on this occasion, every time.

When you think of your goals, are you setting intentions?  Intentions create a focus in your energy.  Your perceptual filters (conscious and unconscious) also draw in data, information and situations to be consistent with your intention.

Setting intentions is often an under-rated tool.  Even if you are having a challenge or are stumped on a situation, set an intention for the answers to come to you – even if you don’t know how they will come.  Take it a step at a time.  You can intend your way to manifestations!

The above process may seem trivial to some, but it is a same type of process that makes fortunes, brings fantastic love to your life as well as bodily and health changes.

 

Why Haven’t You Yet Manifested What You Want?

 

Are there some things that haven’t yet manifested for you?

Too often people get frustrated about not being able to manifest or make happen the things that they would like or for the ones they care about.  They then get disheartened, dispirited and lose hope in their journey of life.

I’m going to share with you some thoughts that may help you whether that relates to you or doesn’t.  This is something I have been sharing in recent weeks on Manifesting Excellence.

 

CONGRUENCE

When I look back on my most successful manifestations (including my most grandest and mind-blowing), the common factor in them is CONGRUENCE.

Realise you are an energetic system composed of various parts, aspects, beliefs etc.  The reason why you don’t get the things you want when you don’t is there isn’t a congruence (or ‘alignment’) of those aspects.

You experience the world through your senses, particularly visually, auditorally and kinesthetically as mentioned in recent calls.

These are each channels of input and feedback you get when you are wanting to manifest something and give you clues as to what you need to tweak to get the congruence to get the manifestation.

When you have congruence the indicator will be that your channels of input via your senses will be congruent – ie all of them delivering messages to you that are consistent with each other, rather than inconsistent or incongruent.

 

EXAMPLES

If you have a beautiful image (visual) in your mind of something you are looking forward to having but remember someone telling you (auditory) that you can’t have it or get a bad feeling about it (kinesthetic), will you manifest it?  In likelihood you probably wouldn’t, because there is an incongruence.

What about you telling yourself (auditory) how wonderful a new (or current) relationship would be, you hear your partner say to you (auditory) how much they love you, but you remember imagery (visual) of your past memories where you were hurt.  Will the loving relationship manifest?  Not so likely, because again there is an incongruence.

 

FEEL IT IN YOUR BODY

When you have congruence you will also feel this in your body.  Whether it be excitement, a feeling of energy, exhilaration, or in other ways.

Your body is an energetic system. When the thoughts you have are congruent and aligned, your body loves it!  And you will know this because you have felt it before!  It also helps its ability to heal and maintain itself, as well as more physical, mental and spiritual energy for other activities.

 

WANT MORE?

I will be talking more about this and making your manifestations happen on a call this Thursday on Manifesting Excellence.  If you would like to listen to the call or download the audio of it then you can register by clicking here.

We will also talk about:
    – Specific methods and ways of identifying congruence (or ‘alignment) to your goals, including examples
    – Why does chanting or mantras work for some people?
    – How to avoid ‘thinking too much’ about what you are wanting to manifest
    – Plus questions sent in, and much more

Have a very beautiful and congruent day!

 

 

When You Fall in Love…. (Something for YOU)

 

Hello : )

I hope you are keeping well…

This is something that came to me intuitively this morning that I thought I would share with you….

 

When you find what you love, whether it be a person, a goal, a dream, don’t think twice about it… embrace it, imbue your energy with it. Mesh your existence with it….

Not compromising your sense of identity, but expanding your sense of identity and who you are with the promise and excitement of your divine spirit expressing delight to you and through you…

You came here for the expression of your spirit and the experience of it than of the second guessing and of the egoic thinking…

You are spirit expressing itself through every joyous portal than a mind calculating the fears and constraints. One leads to ever expansive and exponential expansion, expression and joy, the other to contractive and cautious movements and a potentially declining and uncomfortable existence…

When you fall in love it is not about the object of your desire but the indication that what you feel is the path to who you are. Make the most of it…

Embrace and fall in love with this moment that you are in love…

“I Love You”

~ Hemal Radia

 

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When You Truly Manifest You Wont Need to ‘Think’ About It

 
Manifesting is an expression of your being rather than an activity of your rational mind.  When you are drawn to something it pulls you towards it, rather than you having to ‘think’ your way to it.

This coming Saturday on the Manifesting Excellence call/audio we will be covering “Authenticity, Self-esteem & Self-value“, next week I will be sharing a method I developed in getting your daily thoughts into alignment to what you want so that it happens quickly in line with what we are talking about here.

What happens for many is daily they find themselves in a whirlpool of thoughts and emotions and they can’t think of what they want, it is too much against the tide of fear and anxiety and other emotions they are feeling.

They can’t sleep, they feel tired, they feel other symptoms. I’ll share a way of changing this and moving towards what you want.

 

When you truly manifest you don’t need to ‘think’, the energy ‘pulls’ you (like a magnetic experience). The right thoughts, ideas, manifestations and happenings pave the way to what you want.

 

For most people this doesn’t happen because their thoughts are going in mixed directions so very little tends to happen or if there is inspiration it is crowded out by noise and not realised in physical manifestation.

When you have thoughts going in different directions it’s like trying to lift or pull something with your arms and legs pointing in different directions – that’s not ‘alignment’ because you are diffusing and your effort and energy.

It’s the same with manifesting, you want alignment with your thoughts.  The reason things feel hard when your thoughts are in different directions is you are ‘splitting’ your energy.  When you lift something with alignment it’s easy, it doesn’t feel like hard work.

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What You Want Happens When You Live Your Now

 

Too often people complain that Law of Attraction doesn’t work or that they are not able to manifest what they want.

When I ask them some questions it quickly becomes apparent that they are wanting something that they are not energetically lined up to.

When you think about what you are wanting, are you describing it as “over there” whilst wanting it and not thinking of it as “over here”?  There is an implication in your definition of it that it is not here and it is “over there”; this is reflected energetically which perpetuates the gap between you and what you want.

 

When you are in your flow, in your groove, in ‘alignment’, you don’t think of it as being “over there”.  There is no sense of gap and oftentimes you are so in your groove there is only a sense of here and now – you are the centre point of the Universe from your perspective.

 

Think about the time when you totally loved someone.  Whether they were in your life at that moment or not, think about that time when you had a whole-body experience in feeling the emotions and so much love and appreciation for this person.  Notice how you are so full of emotion that it was timeless and space less – there is only the here and the now.

The ‘gap’ of something being “over there” often appears when someone isn’t fully happy about what is “over here”.  They are not fully at peace with the way things are or how their present is.

Make peace with the present.  This is a way of closing the gap energetically.

 

When you are truly in your flow and BEING from where you want to be, energetically, paradoxically you actually aren’t thinking about your goal (not from a ‘lackful’ perspective anyway), you are too busy enjoying your present.

 

You will know this from your own experiences.  It almost like when you don’t ‘care’ about the outcome (it’s not that you don’t care, you do value it, it’s actually that you have less anxiety and negative emotions – ‘heaviness’ – connected to it, it feels lighter), you are too busy living your now, and ironically you are the most attractive to what you want at that point anyway.

What experiences do you have with this?
What examples do you have on when you have ‘let go’ and found yourself very attractive to the things that you have been wanting?

Share your thoughts and experiences in the comments below.

 

Hemal Radia is the author of “Find You & You Find Everything: The Secrets to the Law of Attraction” as well as a ‘super’ coach/mentor and speaker.

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When it Gets Hard to Trust Yourself or Know What’s Right

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There are times in life when a lot has happened, or is happening, and we don’t know what to do.

It can be very ‘noisy’, whether with your own thoughts or with the noise from other’s opinions.

In this post I will share a couple of steps you can take in addressing this and getting more in tune with yourself.

 

1 – Quieten the Noise as Best as you Can.

Identify what your internal ‘noise’ is about if you can. What specifically are your fears, anxieties, expectations?  Sooth them.

If it’s about other’s opinions then the same here, why do their opinions matter to you?  What ‘hold’ do they have over you?  Loosen (and then remove) your perspective on that hold.

Step into your power and what you want.  Take the other person (or people) out of the equation.  It could be a parent, a partner, an ex-partner you have a child with – anyone, do not make them a reason for taking yourself out of your power, your divinity.

 

Your divnity never foresakes you. But you foresake it based on your beliefs and perspectives about yourself and your life.

 

If you feel you are in a helpless and hopeless situation you will see the helplessness and hopelessness in the situations around you and not the possibilities.  The possibilities present themselves when you change your state of consciousness.

Oftentimes we are not conscious of what is making us feel that way, but there are ALWAYS reasons for why we feel the way we do, and we do not have to feel that way (if you would like more on this, consider joining Manifesting Excellence or working one-to-one).

You will give up your power because you will believe that the situation is bigger than you are – it’s not.

 

2 – Reconnect to What you Want and Who You Are

When we get ourselves out of our flow it is usually because we are focusing on what we don’t want or what we fear.

Fears, anxieties and other negative emotions distort our natural intuition and instincts (including the solutions we require) as well as our sense of who we are and what is important to us (That’s why sometimes we make bad decisions when we are out of our flow – decisions are commensurate with our state at the time).

What is it you want?
How would you like things to be?
How will you know when you have them?
Get as specific and clear as you can.

Who are you?
What do you believe in?
What is important to you?

 

There is no situation in your life that is bigger than you are. Have you forgotten that you are the divine expressed in physical form?  What can be more powerful than that?

Step into and realise that.  Do not make something else outside of you bigger and scarier than you.  That is you creating projections – like the big shadows you would see when you were a child and would scare you.

Instead, step inwards to your own power…
To what you love…
To who you are…
To what you believe in…
Your values…
To the things that matter to you most…
The life that you want to have…
How would you like it to be? 
Why does this matter to you so much?  Step into it.  Take the steps now in making this happen…

 

Have you noticed that all the solutions above take you closer to your heart and spirit, and everything else – such as fears – take you further away from it?

Share any thoughts or comments on this below.

 

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