3 Tips to Embracing Change

 

Many people go through life fearing what happens, whether it be by the ending of a relationship or job, being in debt or financial challenges, health situations, and the problems encountered in day to day life.

All of these situations require change and transformation within ourselves to transcend them.

On this Saturday’s Manifesting Excellence call we will be sharing some techniques that you can use to quickly do this.

In addition to the techniques on the call, how can you embrace change more easily?

 

3 Tips to Embracing Change

1 – Realise that change is natural in fact NOT changing is against your flow and is painful – it leads to discord within yourself and dis-ease.

2 – Have the awareness that every situation that you experience has the seed of a greater transformation for you.

Much like in the past, you will deal with this. And you will have grown in the process. HOW you deal with it and grow is your journey.

On Manifesting Excellence we aim to provide tools to help with this and make it easier.

3 – Not only will you change and grow, but have the intention that you will THRIVE AND PROSPER.

Life is not about fearing change at every turning corner. It is embracing it, transforming yourself and looking forward to every breath of life you get to experience.

3 Tips to Embracing Change

 

Wishing you a beautiful day with smooth & enjoyable transformations…

 

 

 

“From Heartache to Your Heart’s Desires” Telesummit

Relationship Expert Gladys Diaz has asked me to be amongst 20 speakers to speak in her upcoming “From Heartache to Your Heart’s Desires“relationships telesummit.

The telesummit is free to access and starts on May 6th. We recorded our call last week and it will be broadcast on May 17th at 7.30am Eastern Time/12.30pm UK time.

Some of the things we spoke about included:
- Dealing with Blocks and ‘Heartache’
– Manifesting a Relationship
– Creating Space for What You Want
– If you are in a Relationship then Honouring it and Treating it and your Partner as Sacred

- Not Confusing ‘Love’ and Finding Safety from an Unhealthy Relationship

It was a spontaneous and fun conversation in which we covered a lot in the time that we had.

Do check out the telesummit and let me know what you think of what we covered!

You can register for it for free at http://tinyurl.com/fromheartachetoheartsdesires

From Heartache to Heart's Desires Telesummit with Hemal Radia

 

 

 

How Are You Preventing the Natural Manifestation of What You Want?

 

People talk so much about ‘creating’ and ‘manifesting’ that it is really about the ‘allowing’ of our spirit, our ‘magic’, which leads to our physical manifestations.

I find myself often mentioning this on the Manifesting Excellence calls (like yesterday) that it is very much the case that what we want already exists and it is about the allowing of it into physical manifestation.  One of the easiest ways to manifest is to ask yourself how are you preventing the natural manifestation of what you want?

 

DO YOU NOT REALISE YOU ARE NATURALLY MANIFESTING *ALL THE TIME*?

You (I presume) don’t have to think twice about the manifestation of your next breath or your next meal or seeing the brilliance of daylight tomorrow. These are all very much embedded (in your beliefs and energy) as part of your world. These are very ‘normal’ to you.

That’s the thing. Many people see their manifestation as something which is ‘beyond’ normal. They almost have to skip their belief system (which believes it is beyond normal to have this thing that they want) than to actually make it feel very ‘normal’ and natural to have what they want.

They see what they want as outside of their beliefs and they go against the current and ‘hope‘ (despite their beliefs) that it will happen.  Do you hope that the sun comes out tomorrow or that you’ll be able to breathe in the next minute?  You don’t need to.  Because you expect it.

 

NATURAL LAWS ARE ON YOUR SIDE!

What are your beliefs about what you want? Is it meant to be difficult? Rare? Are you going against natural laws of abundance in thinking this? Why would you want to think of what you want as rare or difficult? Why not think of it as natural and something that will naturally come into your life one way or another (let go of the how).

 

MAKE IT FAMILIAR AND NATURAL

Over the years I have manifested many things and when I’ve gotten what I want the way I’ve done it (and there are many ways of doing it) is by working on my beliefs (frequent thoughts) and having what I want to be very familiar and natural – in fact so familiar and natural that I pretty much don’t even have to think about it (aha, that ‘letting go’ phenomenon!)

 

How are you thinking about YOUR goals?  How do they feel to you?
How have you manifested some of the things that you have manifested?
Share your thoughts below!

 

Hemal Radia is the author of “Find You & You Find Everything: The Secrets to the Law of Attraction” as well as a ‘super’ coach/mentor and speaker.

Click here to Work One-to-One with Hemal and have him help you ‘naturally manifest’ your goals!

Click here for Manifesting Excellence

 

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Something to Help You to an AMAZING Year

I hope you have a had a very lovely start to your year.

I thought I would add some thoughts that may help you to a very wonderful year…

A New Year awakens possibilities, hopes and aspirations…
Nurture them…it is easy to fall into habits and previous routines by end of January or February…
Your aspirations are always with you…just remind yourself of them…

At the start of a year or at the end of the prior one, we clutch our loved ones and remind them how much they mean to us. We remember fond memories and do our best to forget those not so fond.
Hold them deeply…your love for them is priceless…for yourself, and for them…
 
Sometimes some may not say those words you have been wanting to hear…
It does not mean it is due to any shortcomings in you…
Love them anyway…and yourself…
 
There are those for whom you light up their world…
Whether they be a lover, a friend, a relative, a pet, or someone new…
You are still lighting up the world…your light burns brighter each time…
 
Do not forget what you offer this world…
Too often we get caught up with the day, and ups and downs…
A ship may rock up and down, but doesn't forget its path…
It is ok if you experience turbulence, but stay true to your course…

There are those wanting to adore you for you…
Allow them to do that…it is not just about you receiving, but allowing them to give too…
Both have their own meaning to the heart…

Take this year and know that everything is to play for…
It doesn't matter the past that you accumulated…
It is not an accumulation world but a flow one…
In changing you, you change what you accumulate…
The past disappears, new experiences and people and happenings appear…
Everything is changeable…

Your future is bright and large…with you very PRESENT in it…

To YOU, and to one of your most memorable years EVER.

With Much Love,
 
Hemal


Despite What Happened, Your Life Will Be Even Better

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Many have been through some form of major experience, whether it be in having to move home, losing a job or a business not working out, a divorce or relationship change, a bereavement, or some other personal matter, and then found that it is not easy to ‘find themselves’. 

What can also happen after a major incident, besides the life change, is the carrying of emotions and any beliefs and perceptions as a result of this experience.

So someone comes out of an experience where they might feel lesser for it, perhaps having lost something on a physical level – whether it be possessions, finances, or a part of themselves.  As well as any potential ‘scarring’ they may have experienced, and being worse for wear.  Does this seem familiar?

Not to worry if it does.  The rest of this article will focus on the remedy of it. 

YOU ARE MUCH MORE THAN YOU SEE, AND MUCH MORE THAN WHAT HAS HAPPENED

My book talks about us being much more than the physical body that we are.  You are divinity in physical form.  You are energy.  And so much more.

All your desires and wants are already in form energetically, just not in physical form, yet.  Just because you have been through something traumatic, it does not mean anything has changed.  What has changed is your relationship to those things as a result of your beliefs and perceptions because of what you have been through.  Those thoughts of doubt that you have, they create a discord between where you are and where you want to be.  The more you doubt yourself, or have fear, or other thoughts incongruent with your desires, the stronger the emotional pain that you feel and the stronger the indication that you are off-course.  Move towards what feels less worse, and then towards what feels better.

Painful emotions are an indicator that you are off-track.  They are not here to punish you.  They are an indication, a guide, as to the direction to your light.

When you berate yourself and beat yourself up, notice how it feels?  And at other times when you are kinder to yourself and forgiving and allowing, notice how that feels?  The better it feels, the more you are facing (and heading in) the direction you want to be.

It is not what happens but your perception of it that affects you and your life.  And thus then also creating the possibilities in your next moment.

 

No matter what has happened, no matter what may appear to be ‘damaged’ in physical (or emotional) form, it does not need to affect you or your life.  This is an abundant Universe with all possibilities.  Everything is fluctuating as energy and all possibilities exist.  You literally mould the reality around you with your thoughts.  When you have doubts and fears, they are projected into your reality.  When you have an assuredness, that no matter how, things will be fine, and you genuinely feel this, the way is more likely to be easier. 

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The best vibration to have is not one where you are imposing on the Universe to do something for you, but one where you have a knowingness of your own divinity and wellbeing.  The Universe corresponds to the vibration that you offer – whether it be in reflecting you being of ‘need’, or in reflecting the knowingness of your power.  Two different vibrations with different reflections from the Universe.

 

It may seem that you have lost things dear to you – whether it be a home, a business, work, loved ones, children, or others.  Realise that nothing is ever lost and the connection is eternal.  You may not be together in physical at this moment, and there’s nothing to say you won’t be again, but put your focus on your forward path. 

WHAT YOU WANT DOES NOT REQUIRE PHYSICAL RESOURCES TO START

The vibration of looking at the past and perceiving ‘loss’ is not as conducive to you attracting what you want as looking to the future and knowing fresh possibilities are ahead (including with the same people, if you so choose).  The possibilities are there, and they enter your life as quickly as you create the space for them.  They do not necessarily require physical resources, they start with you creating the energetic space and your alignment for them.  Then they happen.  And in your building awareness and confidence, more come.

But when you look back and focus, whether consciously or unconsciously, on what is lost, you are offering the vibration of loss, and this creates an energetic barrier between you and what you want.  The barrier is as strong as your emotion is about it.

Realise what happened has actually served you in that you have responded by growing on an energetic level.  You now just need the alignment on the physical level in your realisation of your divinity and that all is (and will be) well. 

TAP INTO THE PLAYFUL, CREATIVE WONDER WITHIN YOU

So realise, no matter what, all possibilities exist.  Remember that playful wonder when you were a child of getting to create and build again.  We often forget this, and often don’t allow ourselves this because we think we are too old or that it’s not possible to create again or that we do not have the resources.  These are ALL beliefs.  The Universe is a malleable energy that responds to your thoughts.

Play with the creative wonder that all possibilities are (and they always are) open to you.  What would you do, be and create?  What do you get to do?  How?  With whom?  Do this just for the sake of raising your energy.  Do this consistently and long enough – without doubting or fearing, as much as possible, and notice the physical manifestations that occur in your experience as the shoots of recovery.

The Universe never forgot you and has never not loved you.  You only created the separation through your feelings of unworthiness, hopelessness, destitution, and anything else which is far, far, far away from the joyful, loving creator that you are.  Life can be difficult sometimes.  But within you is an inner spirit and glow, and a love, which when you radiate from within, lights up the life you experience.  The intention of this article is to remind you of it.

Remind yourself of what is worthy about you.  Of what is valuable about you.  Of what is lovable about you.  Of what is priceless about you.  When you start seeing it, the Universe can start reflecting it back.  See yourself as a unique aspect of divinity.  There will never be another like you, ever.  Bask in that place and live from that place.  From that perspective, all that seemed painful will change.

Life is like a river.  Where you put your attention and energy now will influence what flows to you next.  Old waters will pass.  New, fresh waters will enter your experience.  You have choice in what you experience.  You choose by what you feel and expect.

 

There are free resources and links at http://www.hemalradia.com, as well as Hemal’s Manifesting Excellence Group Coaching programme and Working One-to-One with him.  Free Chapters to his book “Find You & You Find Everything: The Secrets to the Law of Attraction” are also available.

Detaching From an Outcome and Following Your Joy

 

> I am not sure that I am understanding something, on one hand we are told to detatch from any outcome and on the other hand am hearing that we should be emotionaly invested in the joy of the outcome so that it will manifest. I feel that I am eather missing or missunderstanding something important. Any light you can shed will be most appreciated. Again, Thank You and Bright Blessings.

It may seem contradictory, but they are actually the same thing.  The way I would suggest to people to 'detach ' from an outcome is to let go of the attachment or need to itHave your perspective such that it feels good.  So the emotions that you 'invest' towards it, if any, are light, and enjoyable.

Let go of the details, let go of any attachment or need to aspects of itTrust that by you focusing on the essences of what is important to you, the details will take care of themselves.  When you do this, what you will be doing is taking away any 'heaviness' and resistance towards it, and what you will be left with is the joy that you are talking about in emotionally investing in it.

 

Making Money Doing What You Love, with Law of Attraction

> I am in a Law of Attraction Master Mind group and we are discussing the money aspect of our chosen path. We have been challenged to contact someone whom we admire that is doing what we wish to do and ask them a question. I have chosen you and the question is: What would you say about creating an income from someone's passion? If you feel that this something you can share with me I will be so grateful.
I thank you for your time and wish you bright blessings, Chessie, creator of "Evolution lf Self; Journey into Body, Mind, Spirit Balance"

If someone follows their true joy, that joy in itself has a very attractive vibration.  It will bring people to it that are a match to it.

What prevents many people from creating an income from what they love are their beliefs about it. 

Consider the following questions:

- Do I believe it is possible to make money from this?
- Do I believe that *I* can make money from this?

- As I think about doing this thing that I love, how do I feel?  Do I feel a conflict in relation to something else in my life, such as with creating money, or with something else?

- What other thoughts come up for me about this thing that I want to do?

It may not necessarily be that you always have to have positive answers to the above questions, it can even be that you just ALLOW the possibility of it (i.e. not block it).

If everything is energy in this Universe, then the possibility exists in everything.  The only thing that stops you is your vibration – which is composed of your beliefs about it.  Oftentimes, many of these beliefs are from past programming, maybe thoughts about 'traditional' ways of making an income etc. 

Regarding this last point about 'traditional' ways of making an income, some people, who are looking to start their own business, have been very used to making an income through a 'regular' job and when it comes to them starting their own business and following something they love, they may have beliefs about it not being right to do something that they love, that work and money are not meant to be enjoyable, etc.  These are all beliefs.  And beliefs can quickly be changed.

On the other hand, you can have beliefs that it is fun to make money, it is fun to do what you love – in fact that it's the best way.  That by you enjoying what you do, you are offering something so much more, and the money naturally comes from that also.  If you were giving someone so much joy and pleasure through the vibration of joy that you share, as you think about it, people would find it impossible not to give you money for it.

Some people believe they are not worthy to do what they love and make money from it.

In the joy of what you feel for what you are doing, the worthiness is inherent in that.  The value and the 'worthiness' is in the joy.  The vibration is the most important aspect that you can transfer on.  If you have that, then you are 'worthy'.  I wrote a blog post a couple of years ago about "It's not about the Actions but about the Energy behind those Actions."

In you questioning your worthiness, you are diluting the value that you offer.  Allow yourself to think of yourself in the grandest of ways and with the greatest contribution possible.  Activate the most powerful vibration within yourself.  Do it in the most loving of ways and in ways you resonate with, relative to your beliefs.  Allow your beliefs to expand and grow and for you to (vibrationally) 'grow' to this possibility for yourself.

In light of the above, as you think about it now, how unnatural would it be to NOT make money following your love… ;)

 

Jealousy, Control & Fear are Denials of Who You TRULY Are

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“Hi Hemal, I was wondering what your thoughts were on jealousy?

I have been hurt so badly in the past by someone and struggle to move on from that.

I stayed alone for sometime and thought I had dealt with it – via reiki and positive thoughts and law of attraction etc – now I am with my new man I on occasion feel it in my stomach and find it hard to keep under control.Dont get me wrong its not a possessive thing, just the odd occasion where I feel sick to the stomach. I know deep down its my own mind and self esteem and I work with this daily but wondered what your view on it was or any advice from your way….thanks for your time to read ..have a great day

Em x”

 

When we are going into a relationship, we are feeling wonderful things and the beautiful emotions build and build – an example of Law of
Attraction!  And then what happens is we may experience fears and
insecurities and other things may come up.  It may be that we are fearful of losing what we have, or that we have a bit of moment to reflect and absorb what has been happening and start to ‘think’ (and the fears and ‘patterning’ come up) rather than continue ‘being‘ in that wonderful feel-good place.

 

“After people attract something (such as a relationship), they can
sometimes get busy trying not to lose it, which is a very different
vibration to what attracted it to them in the first place…”

 

Jealousy is a response to thinking that something is yours when in fact, like everything else in the Universe, it isn’t, and you are no ones either.  Other than the fact that you are two souls meeting along your journey.

 

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The discomfort that exists is because you are thinking thoughts that
are taking you out of your flow and from what you want.  And what you
want isn’t just this physical being in your life, but the essences of
what you are experiencing.  Whilst your physical body and mind
experiences this person, your soul and essences are experiencing so
much more and that is what led to the physical meeting.

You can’t be jealous if you are on your path and know that you will be ok. You cannot base your own wellbeing on another’s presence and feelings for you, but on your own connection to wellbeing and flow (which in itself is attractive for others to be around you).

You love them and adore them because, as a free being, you are chosing to be with them, and vice versa. There is no attachment or holding, especially emotionally. Allow them to be free, they will appreciate and love you even more for it.  Otherwise, energetically, they will feel constricted too.  And when someone feels constriction or pressure, little things can start to come in (such as disagreements, arguments etc) which can build.  It is far better to have the space within ourselves and allow the other, and ourselves, to be who we are.  To be fearless in all eventualities and being at peace with them, so we can enjoy our now.

 

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“Anytime we build a strong momentum about something, and we experience
strong emotions or fears to the contrary, it can get pretty
uncomfortable.”

You cannot carve out and separate a bit of the Universe (such as a person) and hold it in statis
forever and say it is yours.  Everything is interconnected and
interrelated, as are you. You wouldn’t want it any other way.  You
wouldn’t want to be disconnected from your flow. It is more important
to you than this relationship or anything else, because it is to do
with your relationship with who YOU are as the spiritual being that is
living this physical life.

We fear losing what we have but remember we cannot ‘hold’ or ‘force’ something.  What we can do is deal with the fears about it.  What would happen if this person left?  Be at peace with that.  Have it so that does not scare you and you can focus your emotional energy on appreciating what you two have together.

Anytime a limiting thought comes up, identify the underlying what fear behind it, and let it go.  All fears are limited perspectives of the Universe.  They imply that you will not be ok as a result of something happening or not happening.  When in fact the Universe is wellbeing and does not place conditions on it, only you do.

“You came together to love and adore each other, not to be scared of what the future may hold.”

Any jealousy or element of control is about one’s fear or lack of security or certainty about having or keeping something that they want, or how they want it. It is an illusion because you can never truly ‘have’ something and keep it static forever and how you want it.  That’s the illusion. And that can be scary itself the first time someone realises that.  But that’s only fear, it is not reality. The reality is you have no need to be scared because you are safe.

The ‘truth‘ is your flow and connection to all that you want, including through this person or thing that you want. Take your attention away from the noises and distractions from fear, and put them on your truth which is your ever-abundant and ever-infinite flow and adulation from the Universe.

How can you ever be without when you realise how much you mean to this Universe?  There was no coincidence in your creation, and nothing would be withheld from you.  You just needed to know how to ask for it – vibrationally.  In realising your connection, you have nothing to fear being without.  It’s like having fears in looking at a blade of grass, and not seeing the whole field.

 

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A Story about Manifesting a Pet

I put up a photo of a friend’s cat on the Hemal Radia page on Facebook a few days ago.  Another friend of mine, Jen Reynolds, commented with a story of an experience she had.  Enjoy :)

“I found a cat almost 9 months ago.  The funny thing about it is I was talking about how I wanted to get a cat because my dog (Note: Jen’s dog is “Chaco”, her chihuahua, who she calls her “5lb rat”) is afraid of a lot of things including other dogs but he seemed to really like cats when I took him for walks.

I talked about wanting a cat for a couple weeks on Facebook, Twitter, and to my friends.  I am not sure why I wanted one so bad but I knew that if I felt it… It was something that I needed and kept my eyes open and even planned to visit a shelter the next week.

One morning at 4 AM I heard a kitten crying.  Half of her tail was cut off and she was bleeding.  I took her in and bandaged her up (I have scars on my arm to prove it LOL)

I thought I was helping her and was grateful to do so.  What I did not know is how much she would help me.  I have a medical condition that sometimes flares up in cold weather or barometric changes and every time I have an ache or pain, this precious cat lays right on top of it and warms the area up.  It really does ease the pain!  There have been times when it was raining all night and when I woke up she was on top of my chest and stomach just to keep me warm which reduced my pain

It is amazing what a precious pet can do and teach us!  This picture (that she was replying to on my page) just reminds me of how precious our furry friends are!  OHHHH AND SMART! They live in their flow all the time.  It is amazing!”

  
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Jen with Chaco (right) and Chica (left)



Going Into 2010 With Momentum

I had a very pleasant surprise yesterday.  Lisa Ellwood (she will tell you below how she came across me) tagged me on a note on Facebook that she had written.

A year ago I wrote a post on “Going into the New Year with Momentum” where I mentioned about how, through your perspective, you can have a great momentum in going into the New Year.  I didn’t know until I saw Lisa’s note yesterday, that she had applied what was in that note and (in her words) EVERYTHING she had written had come to fruition even down to the time periods specified.  As she will tell you, she is someone who has had some challenges, including “clinical depression”.

I will paste Lisa’s note and do feel free to share your thoughts and write YOUR answers to my exercise in the comments below.

By the way, on Saturday 9th January there will be a free teleseminar about making the most of 2010 for YOU, keep an eye out for more details soon.

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Lisa’s note:

My latest New Years Tradition: Going Into the New Year With Momentum

This is a great addition to my New Year’s Traditions.

My dear friend Michelle H. turned me onto The Manifesting & Law of Attraction Page founded and run by Hemal Radia here on Facebook last year (http://www.facebook.com/ManifestingLOA). The timing was quite fortuitous as it was nearing Christmas.

Hemal did a post where he talked about *Going into the New Year with momentum*. In essence, you are compelled to do a lot of self-reflection – never a bad thing at all and especially if you are in denial about taking control of your life and your ability to create the future that you want for yourself. I can honestly say that just about everything I wrote for 2009 came to fruition even down to the time periods specified. Quite profound for one who struggles with positive thinking (being clinically depressed doesn’t help), meditation and visualisation.

Below is the exercise Hemal had us follow. I’ve made a couple of slight tweaks but this is the general format.

MANIFESTING & LAW OF ATTRACTION

GOING INTO THE NEW YEAR (2010) WITH MOMENTUM

1 – Write at least 3 to 5 things that you have Appreciated about this year

2 – Write at least 3 to 5 things (or more) that you are Anticipating/Excited about next year

3 – This time next year, what will you be delighted and proud with? What will have happened? (You can do this for the end of Jan too, what will you be proud of by then?)

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(Solaris image by Lisa Ellwood)