Finding that Helping Others is Draining?


This is an excerpt of my response to someone on a forum who was finding they were getting drained by helping others (this is also a topic that was covered in last week’s Manifesting Excellence call and is in the archives there):


If it is forced or draining then there is an energy misalignment. It’s finding different motivators for you in doing this (if you still choose to) which get you into alignment.  Ideally, look for things that give you a sense of joy, love etc.

It sounds like you have some things that are taking you out of flow (this would also tie in with not seeing the inspiration, because there are things ‘pulling’ at you rather than things inspiring you).  Doing things when out of flow will feel hard work.  It’s about remedying those perspectives/situations so that you are going forward from a neutral/positive place and your consequent manifestations are a match of that energy.



The “Manifesting Continuum” and 7 Questions/Processes to Manifest your Goals


On this Saturday’s Manifesting Excellence call/downloadable audio I will be sharing the concept of the “Manifesting Continuum” for the first time to manifest your goals more quickly and easily.

You will also be able to download 7 Questions/Process which you can use to get into alignment with what you want and for it to come into your life more quickly.

This will all be downloadable whichever timezone you are in, including the audio of the call.

If you’d like to access this as well as all the other benefits then register here to access the call/audio.


Manifesting Continuum, Law of Attraction, The Secret

Manifesting Continuum





FREE Kindle Books Giveaway



You may remember that recently I was on Kelly Galea’s “From Corporate to Creative” radio show talking about “How You Can Make Money Doing What You Love.”

Kelly currently has a giveaway event where she is giving away FREE Kindle book versions of her radio shows and podcasts – my recent episode about how to make a living doing what you love is free on Kindle next week ; )


Click here to access the links to the FREE Kindle books

FREE Kindle Book Giveaway



Wife Swap TV show & “Entitlement” Attitude, and Attraction of the Opposite Sex


Want to get some great insights and manifestations in your life?

– Wife Swap TV show & “Entitlement” Attitude, and Attraction of the Opposite Sex
– How to Manifest to “Make Amends”
– What to do When Finding it Difficult to be Grateful
– If I Help Others will I Attract Suffering?
– I have had Financial Challenges before and resolved them however I was filled with Dread and Panic recently. How do we Let Go of Old Programmed Responses?

These topics and more will be covered on this Saturday’s Manifesting Excellence call/downloadable audio –
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“The Secret” by Rhonda Byrne – When Others Ask My Opinion

“The Secret” by Rhonda Byrne

I was on a radio show last week when “The Secret” by Rhonda Byrne came up in the conversation. I was asked about my background and the radio show host found it fascinating that I was creating material on manifesting and Law of Attraction long before The Secret came out (in 2006).

Regarding “The Secret” by Rhonda Byrne, what do I think of it?  This is something I have been asked over the years.

My answer is it was lovely in the increasing of awareness of the Law of Attraction and about creating our realities.  The DVD in particular was inspiring, colourful and motivating.  But it still left many wondering….

"The Secret" by Rhonda Byrne - Law of Attraction book


But “How?”

Whilst it increased the awareness of Law of Attraction and taking charge of what comes into our lives, The Secret left many wondering about the “How”.

“How do you attract what you want?”

Many of you that have worked with me, been on Manifesting Excellence or interacted with me will know about my journey. That for many years from the late 90s onwards I studied the best methodologies out there for manifesting and creating.

I enjoyed Abraham Hick’s work and much else of what was out there, creating my own, and distilling it into an easy to understand and apply way.  I enjoyed learning and creating more of the “how.”

As my own exposure worldwide grew there was a calling from people wanting to experience more of me, whether via live events, a book by me or in other ways, which all came about.


Find You & You Find Everything: The Secrets to the Law of Attraction

While there was a growing awareness of Law of Attraction in the world, there was a gap in understanding how to apply it.  This would be evident by the messages I would receive and on comments on my social networks.

When I wrote my book “Find You & You Find Everything: The Secrets to the Law of Attraction” my intention was to fill this gap in an easy, gentle and loving way.

Whilst at the same time connecting the reader to the love and connection within themselves simply by the process of reading the book.

So, my opinion is that The Secret is very lovely for what it was.  And, if you are wanting to know more about how to apply the Law of Attraction and attract more in your life in being in sync with your divinity as well as understand how all this works, there is more out there for you.

Have you read/watched The Secret? What did you think? What is your opinion of it?
Share your thoughts in the comments below…


Hemal Radia is the author of “Find You & You Find Everything: The Secrets to the Law of Attraction” as well as a ‘super’ coach/mentor and speaker.

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The Secret by Rhonda Byrne - Law of Attraction book




Your Outcome is on its Way to Flowering…


Below is something I shared on the private group for Manifesting Excellence earlier that I thought you might enjoy…


Just like a seed changes form in its evolution to a flower, so will your intention. Just as a seed is bathed in rain and germinates in the soil around it, so does your intention from your energy to the environment around you.

Have the knowingness that your outcome will be blossoming and that everything that is happening is the process of adding solidity and groundedness in the shaping of your outcome, perhaps even a solidity that is essential in the manifestation of it.

You have an end-outcome in mind; everything else is an outcome on the way to that outcome. There is never really one fixed outcome, but a process comprising of one continuation after another.

Enjoy the whole process and realise that it is all beneficial in your growth and evolution, than waiting for the one flowering outward manifestational moment.
~ Hemal Radia


The Way to With Love....

My Good Deed for Yesterday :)


This is something that happened yesterday.  Have you thought about the good deeds you do? : )


As I put my grocery shopping in my car yesterday afternoon and was about to drive away I saw an elderly lady who had just parked next to my car who was getting out. She struggled to get out of her car and had crutches. She was then struggling to open her car back door to get her bags out (re-using bags, environmentally friendly).

So I went up to her and asked if I could help with anything. With a big smile she appreciatively said “That is so kind of you but I should be able to manage.” I gave her company and walked with her to the entrance of the supermarket and brought a shopping cart over to her to take inside.

We chatted while we walked, she mentioned that she should get knee surgery done and we talked and laughed a bit. When we reached the entrance she enthusiastically said thank you and was beaming, smiling and really appreciative that someone had taken the time to think of her, approach her, smile and be friendly, and help her.

Just wanted to share as some of the subtlest things we do can mean so much to others : )


What are your thoughts on helping others? Have you any stories to share on this?
Do share in the comments below : )


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