Wayne Dyer passed away last Saturday in Maui, Hawaii at the age of 75.

I remember in my teens having come across his books well before I had heard of spirituality and personal development.

Over time as I went through life discovering more about myself, my own life and wanting to know more about the world (and universe) around me, I found more and more of his work.

In my early days in this field around 20 years ago I would study and take notes on much of his work and of many others, particularly in relation to manifesting our desires.

Dr Wayne Dyer is the author of over 30 books and has appeared on various shows, including with Oprah.

With much appreciation for his great work.

(On another note, Wes Craven, the director of the Nightmare on Elm Street and Scream movies, died yesterday at the age of 76)

This is a popular and powerful topic which came up at the recent Manifesting Excellence get-together.  There is so much I can say on it but for now I will share some tips below and we can cover more over time if you’d like me to (let me know in the comments below if you would!)

Letting Go To Manifest

Attachment can be about pretty much anything: people, possessions, the past, our looks/bodies, jobs, money, the present – anything!

It is not so much about what you are attached to but more so the constricting of your flow from the attachment that limits your life and prevents new happenings, opportunities, experiences and so much more coming in.

Here are some tips on ‘letting go’… you can reply to this and let me know what you think!

1 – Letting Go is Not Necessarily Letting Go of What You Want but to the Resistance (Attachment) to What You Want – Thus You ALLOW and RECEIVE it Better Into Your Life.

You can manifest just by ‘letting go’ and not necessarily actively ‘chasing’ something and trying to ‘make’ it happen (not that I am recommending that – there are many ways of manifesting, but I’m saying it can be done), it is something I have done regularly and we have seen happen on Manifesting Excellence a lot too.

2 – Are You Attached to the Who, What, Where, When How etc?

The key word here is ‘attached’, is it something that is taking you out of your flow or into your flow?

If you want to be with a particular love and it is taking you INTO your flow there does not necessarily need to be anything wrong with that.

But if you are thinking of someone and pining over them believing you cannot/will not have them, it is probably taking you out of flow (especially as there is likely to be attention to ‘lack’ on some level).

Similarly, when you think about money does it take you into or out of your flow?

Cleaning up beliefs and perspectives about a subject will change your attraction to it and of it coming into your life.  If you want help, join us on Manifesting Excellence.

3 – Are You Constricting Your Flow or Expanding and Allowing it?

It’s ALL about universal/spiritual energy (or whatever you want to call it… Universe, God, your Higher Self etc) and the connection between you and ‘it’ (which is just another aspect of you).

The thoughts you think and emotions you feel: are they leading to CONGRUENCE or incongruence?

Are they opening up the cells of your body to receive?  Or are you tightening up, anxious, scared etc?

When do you feel your best?  In moving towards what you are congruent with, you will also be moving away from the fear and scarcity energy connected to attachment.

When you move towards (and beyond) ‘letting go’, the universe finds solutions for you beyond what you ever thought.

But when you attach (and identify) yourself to old paradigms that do not serve you, you limit the ways the broader universe can come into and influence your life.

My friend and award-winning author, Sherri Nickols, is hosting a free video virtual event which she has asked me to speak on with other leading experts.

Myself, Mary Morrissey Dr. Diana Kirschner (“Love in 90 days”) and 17 other world-leading experts on Love & Intimacy, Health, Spiritual and Empowerment and many other subjects are coming together through this video virtual event to teach proven techniques to experience a rewarding life of balance, love, and fun.

I will be speaking on it this coming Sunday on 7th June.

To claim your FREE ticket to the “SPARKLE! Find Balance, Create Love, Add FUN to Your Life” Video Virtual Event click here.

I thought you might enjoy some insights that might help you have more of what you want!

Have you ever wondered about dreams you have had, ‘signs’ you may have seen in your life or what a psychic has said to you?

This is something I have been asked to talk more about this week so I will share some thoughts in this email and if you’d like more you can follow the link for this week’s Manifesting Excellence call as I will be covering it in more detail there.

There is a lot more information lower down this email as well as questions we will be answering.

When we are looking to manifest on a physical level we are combining the spiritual and the physical.

When we look for ‘signs’, symbols or our dreams or get an intuitive to give answers, we are utilising and tapping into the energy within and around us.  It is an extension of the manifesting process.

Both manifesting and intuition are about the physical and the spiritual (energetic).

There are times when I have manifested something and saw an image of it in my mind before I received it.  Did I manifest it because of that image or was the image a (intuitive) representation of what I was about to manifest? 😉

In the past on Manifesting Excellence we have talked about how one can tap into their own intuition to get the answers they need and add synergy to the manifesting process.

In my view, the world (Universe) speaks to us.  And… it is also reflective of our own energy.

It is about building our relationship and communication within ourselves to recognise the information and messages we get to best utilise them to have more fulfilling lives (as well as grander and faster manifestations!)

Sometimes people get off-course and lose themselves in the process.  Here are 3 quick tips to avoid that:

3 Things to Avoid in Using Intuition

1 – Losing Your Sense of Self in Seeing a Psychic or Intuitive

Some people become addicted to the information because it gives them hope rather than using it as an additional channel of information in making (or not making) decisions.  It becomes their ‘lifeline’ rather than a supplement to make informed choices, step into their power and manifest and create what will make them happy.

2 – Looking into Everything as a ‘Sign’

Getting confused as to what to do or what signs mean… and at times being paralysed thinking they are going against what they ‘should’ be doing (according to the ‘signs’).  This also hampers their manifesting because they send confused and mixed signals.

3 – Thinking there is something wrong with you if they cannot remember your dreams  (Someone asked me about this on Manifesting Excellence last week)

Everyone has dreams, it doesn’t mean you will necessarily consciously remember them every morning although there ARE ways of improving your ability to remember them.  It does not mean you are not ‘special’ (unlike your friends who say they do, for example) if you cannot always consciously remember yours.

What I recommend is for you to find the power that is within YOURSELF.

Everything you create and attract, including the signs, symbology and intuitives will be a reflection of your own energy.

We will be talking more about this on Saturday, if you’d like to join us click here.

When you register you will be able to access the call as well as receive a link for the audio download afterwards.

These are some of the questions I have been sent which we will be answering:

– “I have been aware of signs and symbols. I see them as metaphysical… Am I wrong or right? Or are they just coincidences?”

– “I saw a sign while driving that said “good fortune” and I won at the casino gambling.  Was that sign just a coincidence or a sign from the universe?  I see many hearts and the word love everywhere I go.   Were those heart signs and love word a sign to love myself and find myself and shift?  Are those signs telling me that love is coming in a form of a relationship? Or are they just coincidences?”

– “Are psychics real ? Are they effective with LOA?  Do they know what’s coming up?  Or are they a scam?  I went for a reading and I’m not sure if to believe or not what they said.   I know that LOA is all about energy, but what role do psychics play?  And what psychics do you recommend that we get readings from to enhance our path with LOA?”

– “What do dreams represent in LOA?  I have been dreaming about rainbows and dolphins which are positive symbols.  Whereas before I would dream about not so positive symbols … are dreams prophecies or signs of the universe?  Are dreams to be interpreted?  Do dreams have a connection or correlation with LOA/manifestations.  Are they answers to questions?”

– “What is Flow?  If a person has thoughts and beliefs about something but not the movement or actions will they not get what they want?  Is it self-sabotaging to have the thoughts but not the actions to make something happen?”

Based on questions sent in last week we covered “Sex & Orgasmic Manifestation“… upon registering you will be able to access that call as well this upcoming one!  Click here to register!

There are so many techniques out there, how do you know what will work for you?The thing to realise is no matter which technique, ‘all’ they do is work with your energy – and of course you manifest based on your energy.

Some techniques work better at energy levels to disrupt resistance where you are doubtful, fearful, more ‘negative’/resistant.  Other techniques are enablers and magnifiers of your good energy, such as gratitude and appreciation methods which further enhance the good feelings you are experiencing.

Realise that your situation or outcome you want has a particular energy to it.  And, currently you have a particular energy.  If you do not have what you want then in likelihood those energies (‘vibrations’) are different, hence you are experiencing the mismatch on the physical that you are.

You then use techniques and methods to close and bridge the gap between your present energy to where you want to be.  As mentioned above, all techniques (if they are to help manifestationally) will be about shifting your energy.

You may also find that different techniques work better for you along the way as you progress towards your manifestation because most techniques work better at a specific energy level for that particular technique.

For those of you that like Abraham Hick’s techniques, I studied them many years ago early on in my journey to identify the underlying structure and use that to create new techniques.  Many/most of the patterns have a very similar underlying intention.

We will be talking about the above and much more on Saturday’s call in giving you an awareness of how to best use techniques, avoid wasting time on those that won’t help you, and use the ones you do use to get the best/quickest results for you.Click here to register and join us.  Even if you can’t attend live you will be able to access the audio download afterwards.

Plus, you can send in any questions that you have about this subject!  (We have already had some questions sent in, they will be taken on a first-come first-served basis time permitting for the call!)

I wonder if you can relate to a popular question I was sent a few days ago.

I was asked by someone who would like to find work asking whether she should look to find work or whether she should manifest abundance (in previous years she had already manifested a flat and money but through various circumstances lost it).

She recently joined Manifesting Excellence to help her attract work and money.  In the last couple of weeks she has already had movement with other areas of her life and would now like to resolve this.

The thing is, how can you manifest when you aren’t feeling good about where you currently are?  ie aren’t you putting out a vibe of disatisfaction?  If so, then how can you attract something that brings you HAPPINESS?

Also, when you are undecided your energy is divergent and not convergent – it causes a split in your energy.  Thus your energy is divided – it is not congruent (or ‘aligned’) and usually leads to nothing happening.

This is usually a reason why most people do not get what they are wanting, and it is outside of their conscious awareness (ie they are unconscious of it).

You want to find a way to align that, so your internal focus is like a laser beam locking in (including unconsciously) on what you want so it comes in.

We will be answering these and other questions of yours this Saturday including:
– How to Manifest While not Happy With Where You Currently Are
– 3 Things You Can do When Your Goal Doesn’t Feel Good
– Being in ‘Two minds’ (Potential Split Energy) Can Lead to Not Getting Either Scenario
– Should I be “Getting a Job” or should I be “Manifesting my Abundance”?
– “Unemployment to Abundance” – is an energetic gap, how to close that gap
– Avoiding Hidden Dichotomies in your Thinking Inadvertently Splitting your Energy
– “Contrast” vs “Resistance”

Click here to Register

The call-in/audio download details will be sent to you when you have registered.

Whether it be a situation you are going through or some circumstances, no situation comes into your life without the means for you to expand and grow from it.

Have you noticed how nature (including our bodies) as a system – when allowed – evolves and improves upon a stimulus being presented?

Similarly, we are nature in motion.  We have the capabilities and infinite intelligence to evolve beyond any situation.

Oftentimes our minds are obsessed and cluttered with the energy of the problem (being focused and ‘stuck on the problem’) to allow our natural growth and expansion to move beyond it.

It doesn’t always happen right away, just like nature incubates a seed to grow and expand, so do you.

You assimilate all the information needed from the present, past and anything else to have the insights and synchronicities to move on.

It can be instantaneous, or it can take a little incubation time.  When we say “All happens in perfect timing”, it happens when all the aspects within you are ready to receive; however long it takes you to do that, whether by design or by accident.

Are you allowing that natural process?

Remember you are a fantastic aspect of the Divine through which Infinite Intelligence and synchronicities flow.  No goals and desires are unreachable for you.

Nothing is beyond you.  Nothing is too big for you. <3

With Valentine’s Day coming up we are having a call (with audio download) on Attracting Love this weekend on Manifesting Excellence!  Lower down this post I have shared a Real-Life Love Story with you.

Of course, if you are already in a relationship (or some other ‘complicated’ situation!) and have questions or experiences to share you are welcome to send them in.

What would you be most excited to discover?

On this Saturday’s call we will be covering:

– How do I find my ‘soulmate’?
– Why do I keep attracting the same type of person?
– Why do I find different people but none has ‘everything’? And what can I do about it?
– How do I let go of my blocks?
– How do I find my blocks that I’m not even aware I have?
– And much more!

Do you have any questions, experiences or stories about this?  Register and send them in!

You do not have to be able to access the call live – you can register and access the audio download at your convenience

We have people around the world that will be accessing this call from Australia, US, UK, Scotland, Italy, Switzerland, Sweden, India and many other countries.  The audio download makes it easy and convenient to access.

A Real-Life Love Story

Nancy hadn’t been in a long term relationship for many years.  She would meet guys and date, but it wasn’t working out.

She asked me about this at a live event and I worked with her in the seminar for about 20 minutes.  During the break she came up to me and said that her mind was feeling differently about the subject and found herself in thought – I said it was her mind processing the new possiblities and it would make sense.

Three weeks later Nancy shared on Manifesting Excellence that she had met a guy – “Mike”.

Two years on they have moved in together and have been travelling the country investing in real-estate as well as touring destinations around the world for the last year.

When we get congruent about what we want, what we want shows up in our lives.

If you’d like to access Saturday’s call/audio register here.

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