This is a popular and powerful topic which came up at the recent Manifesting Excellence get-together.  There is so much I can say on it but for now I will share some tips below and we can cover more over time if you’d like me to (let me know in the comments below if you would!)

Letting Go To Manifest

Attachment can be about pretty much anything: people, possessions, the past, our looks/bodies, jobs, money, the present – anything!

It is not so much about what you are attached to but more so the constricting of your flow from the attachment that limits your life and prevents new happenings, opportunities, experiences and so much more coming in.

Here are some tips on ‘letting go’… you can reply to this and let me know what you think!

1 – Letting Go is Not Necessarily Letting Go of What You Want but to the Resistance (Attachment) to What You Want – Thus You ALLOW and RECEIVE it Better Into Your Life.

You can manifest just by ‘letting go’ and not necessarily actively ‘chasing’ something and trying to ‘make’ it happen (not that I am recommending that – there are many ways of manifesting, but I’m saying it can be done), it is something I have done regularly and we have seen happen on Manifesting Excellence a lot too.

2 – Are You Attached to the Who, What, Where, When How etc?

The key word here is ‘attached’, is it something that is taking you out of your flow or into your flow?

If you want to be with a particular love and it is taking you INTO your flow there does not necessarily need to be anything wrong with that.

But if you are thinking of someone and pining over them believing you cannot/will not have them, it is probably taking you out of flow (especially as there is likely to be attention to ‘lack’ on some level).

Similarly, when you think about money does it take you into or out of your flow?

Cleaning up beliefs and perspectives about a subject will change your attraction to it and of it coming into your life.  If you want help, join us on Manifesting Excellence.

3 – Are You Constricting Your Flow or Expanding and Allowing it?

It’s ALL about universal/spiritual energy (or whatever you want to call it… Universe, God, your Higher Self etc) and the connection between you and ‘it’ (which is just another aspect of you).

The thoughts you think and emotions you feel: are they leading to CONGRUENCE or incongruence?

Are they opening up the cells of your body to receive?  Or are you tightening up, anxious, scared etc?

When do you feel your best?  In moving towards what you are congruent with, you will also be moving away from the fear and scarcity energy connected to attachment.

When you move towards (and beyond) ‘letting go’, the universe finds solutions for you beyond what you ever thought.

But when you attach (and identify) yourself to old paradigms that do not serve you, you limit the ways the broader universe can come into and influence your life.

I thought you might enjoy some insights that might help you have more of what you want!

There are so many techniques out there, how do you know what will work for you?The thing to realise is no matter which technique, ‘all’ they do is work with your energy – and of course you manifest based on your energy.

Some techniques work better at energy levels to disrupt resistance where you are doubtful, fearful, more ‘negative’/resistant.  Other techniques are enablers and magnifiers of your good energy, such as gratitude and appreciation methods which further enhance the good feelings you are experiencing.

Realise that your situation or outcome you want has a particular energy to it.  And, currently you have a particular energy.  If you do not have what you want then in likelihood those energies (‘vibrations’) are different, hence you are experiencing the mismatch on the physical that you are.

You then use techniques and methods to close and bridge the gap between your present energy to where you want to be.  As mentioned above, all techniques (if they are to help manifestationally) will be about shifting your energy.

You may also find that different techniques work better for you along the way as you progress towards your manifestation because most techniques work better at a specific energy level for that particular technique.

For those of you that like Abraham Hick’s techniques, I studied them many years ago early on in my journey to identify the underlying structure and use that to create new techniques.  Many/most of the patterns have a very similar underlying intention.

We will be talking about the above and much more on Saturday’s call in giving you an awareness of how to best use techniques, avoid wasting time on those that won’t help you, and use the ones you do use to get the best/quickest results for you.Click here to register and join us.  Even if you can’t attend live you will be able to access the audio download afterwards.

Plus, you can send in any questions that you have about this subject!  (We have already had some questions sent in, they will be taken on a first-come first-served basis time permitting for the call!)

Whether it be a situation you are going through or some circumstances, no situation comes into your life without the means for you to expand and grow from it.

Have you noticed how nature (including our bodies) as a system – when allowed – evolves and improves upon a stimulus being presented?

Similarly, we are nature in motion.  We have the capabilities and infinite intelligence to evolve beyond any situation.

Oftentimes our minds are obsessed and cluttered with the energy of the problem (being focused and ‘stuck on the problem’) to allow our natural growth and expansion to move beyond it.

It doesn’t always happen right away, just like nature incubates a seed to grow and expand, so do you.

You assimilate all the information needed from the present, past and anything else to have the insights and synchronicities to move on.

It can be instantaneous, or it can take a little incubation time.  When we say “All happens in perfect timing”, it happens when all the aspects within you are ready to receive; however long it takes you to do that, whether by design or by accident.

Are you allowing that natural process?

Remember you are a fantastic aspect of the Divine through which Infinite Intelligence and synchronicities flow.  No goals and desires are unreachable for you.

Nothing is beyond you.  Nothing is too big for you. <3

With Valentine’s Day coming up we are having a call (with audio download) on Attracting Love this weekend on Manifesting Excellence!  Lower down this post I have shared a Real-Life Love Story with you.

Of course, if you are already in a relationship (or some other ‘complicated’ situation!) and have questions or experiences to share you are welcome to send them in.

What would you be most excited to discover?

On this Saturday’s call we will be covering:

– How do I find my ‘soulmate’?
– Why do I keep attracting the same type of person?
– Why do I find different people but none has ‘everything’? And what can I do about it?
– How do I let go of my blocks?
– How do I find my blocks that I’m not even aware I have?
– And much more!

Do you have any questions, experiences or stories about this?  Register and send them in!

You do not have to be able to access the call live – you can register and access the audio download at your convenience

We have people around the world that will be accessing this call from Australia, US, UK, Scotland, Italy, Switzerland, Sweden, India and many other countries.  The audio download makes it easy and convenient to access.

A Real-Life Love Story

Nancy hadn’t been in a long term relationship for many years.  She would meet guys and date, but it wasn’t working out.

She asked me about this at a live event and I worked with her in the seminar for about 20 minutes.  During the break she came up to me and said that her mind was feeling differently about the subject and found herself in thought – I said it was her mind processing the new possiblities and it would make sense.

Three weeks later Nancy shared on Manifesting Excellence that she had met a guy – “Mike”.

Two years on they have moved in together and have been travelling the country investing in real-estate as well as touring destinations around the world for the last year.

When we get congruent about what we want, what we want shows up in our lives.

If you’d like to access Saturday’s call/audio register here.

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Would you like to finish this year ready to have what you want in 2015?

For many, this time of year, in addition to being about loved ones and the spirit of festivity, is a time where focus shifts to closing out this year and starting the next with anticipation, excitement and great expectations.

This post will help you with that as well as what I will be covering this week, details below.

YOU CAN MANIFEST BY LETTING GO

For many people, when they think about creation and manifestation, they think it to be about ‘creating’, ‘making happen’ and even ‘forcing’ things to happen.

It is often more about the allowing of you and who you are. The processes where people think they are activating their goal, whether by visualisation or any other process, is actually improving their ability to allow and RECEIVE what they want.

The reason most people do not manifest what they want is usually because of old energy they have trapped around them that they haven’t let go of (which is distorting their ability to allow and receive what they want).

Most people have the ability to manifest and create, but they block it and resist it, inadvertently and usually outside of their conscious awareness ie they unconsciously block it.

That is why it is important to reflect on energy we can release to create space for what we would like. When we do this, oftentimes what we want can come in automatically.

You are creating space in your energetic field by letting go of what no longer serves you.

IN WHAT WAYS MIGHT YOU HAVE ‘OLD ENERGY’ AROUND YOU RIGHT NOW?

Some forms of old energy/clutter:

– Emotions/memories
– Beliefs
– Physical clutter
– Digital clutter (Emails, text messages, files etc),
– People and emotions around them
– Incomplete/unresolved situations
– And much more

The above list is not exhaustive, I will be covering other hidden aspects this week.

The key thing is not the item but the energy you have about it.

Are you tolerating a situation or person in your life?

Are you aware that by you ‘tolerating’ the situation (whether consciously or unconsciously) it is taking energy for you to push against (resist) it? This takes energy from your body’s ability to heal & grow, you to manifest etc.

I will be talking about the above and much more on two Manifesting Excellence calls this week (you will also receive the audio downloads), on Wednesday & Saturday, where you can identify what you need to let go of as well as create an outstanding 2015.

This is the last chance to access this information for 2014.

Click here if you would like to access this content about letting go and creating an outstanding 2015 (includes access to the audio downloads).

The topics covered on the calls will include:

– Manifesting by Letting Go of Old Energy
– Overcoming ‘Clutter Blindness’
– Identifying ‘Unconscious Clutter’ You Didn’t Know You Had
– Incomplete and Unresolved Situations Take Up Your Energy
– What Are You Tolerating That is Silently Draining You?
– How to Determine if Something is Old Energy to Let Go of
– How to Easily Create Space For What You Want
– Focusing Techniques for 2015 Goals
– And Much More!

Register here to access this and much more!

Here are 3 questions for you which the Manifesting Excellence group have been answering this week:

1 – What happens when two people want the same thing?  How does that work in relation to manifesting and the Law of Attraction?  For example, what if you and someone else are going after the same job (or lover!)?  Who gets it?

 
2 – “When it comes to parking spaces or ‘little’ happenings manifesting seems easy.  But I can’t seem to attract the ‘bigger’ things such as a long-term love partner, more money and so on… why is that happening?  What should I do?”

 
3 – “I keep attracting people that aren’t a fit for me in some way… what do I need to change to attract what (who) I want?”

What do you think?  Share your thoughts in the comments below.

Click here if you’d like to join us on the Manifesting Excellence call/audio at the weekend for the answers.

This is a joke I heard yesterday and shared on Manifesting Excellence.  I later discovered that it seemed to be first heard from (President) Reagan.

It is to do with two sons, one an optimist and the other a pessimist.

It is apparently shared in Reagan’s biography by one of the Reagan team at the time, Ed Meese (excerpt from “How Ronald Reagan Changed My Life” by Peter Robinson):

Over lunch today I asked Ed Meese about one of Reagan’s favorite jokes. “The pony joke?” Meese replied. “Sure I remember it. If I heard him tell it once, I heard him tell it a thousand times.”

The joke concerns twin boys of five or six. Worried that the boys had developed extreme personalities — one was a total pessimist, the other a total optimist — their parents took them to a psychiatrist.

First the psychiatrist treated the pessimist. Trying to brighten his outlook, the psychiatrist took him to a room piled to the ceiling with brand-new toys. But instead of yelping with delight, the little boy burst into tears. “What’s the matter?” the psychiatrist asked, baffled. “Don’t you want to play with any of the toys?” “Yes,” the little boy bawled, “but if I did I’d only break them.”

Next the psychiatrist treated the optimist. Trying to dampen his outlook, the psychiatrist took him to a room piled to the ceiling with horse manure. But instead of wrinkling his nose in disgust, the optimist emitted just the yelp of delight the psychiatrist had been hoping to hear from his brother, the pessimist.

Then he clambered to the top of the pile, dropped to his knees, and began gleefully digging out scoop after scoop with his bare hands. “What do you think you’re doing?” the psychiatrist asked, just as baffled by the optimist as he had been by the pessimist.

“With all this manure,” the little boy replied, beaming, “there must be a pony in here somewhere for me!”

“Reagan told the joke so often,” Meese said, chuckling, “that it got to be kind of a joke with the rest of us. Whenever something would go wrong, somebody on the staff would be sure to say, “There must be a pony in here somewhere!'”

So… when you are going through something challenging… remember to say to yourself “There must be a pony in here somewhere for me!” ;))

If you’d like to join us on Manifesting Excellence click here.

P.S. The topic this week is about “Flirting & Romance“… want to share some thoughts (or ask some questions)?  You can join here.

Just to let you know that on the Manifesting Excellence call at the weekend we covered the notion of “3 Waves of Manifesting“.

This is a new concept that I have been sharing which evolves your awareness of manifesting, making it easier and faster in your life.

Below are some of the notes from the call. If you would like to access the audio recording of it you can do so by registering at www.hemalradia.com/manifesting.

“3 Waves of Manifesting”

Wave 1 – Affirmations, visualisation, goal-setting, ‘positive thinking’ etc (‘Simple stuff’) – the early days, years ago
Wave 2 – Getting into the ‘feeling’, energy, vibration etc (Being conscious of getting into the feeling/energy)
Wave 3 – What we covered on the call at the weekend

– Each of the previous waves, through greater awareness, leads to the next wave. Each subsequent waves includes the previous ones
– Using the terms quantum field, The Field, God, Universe, Source, Inner Being, Higher Self, energetic or non-physical aspect of you interchangeably
– All the techniques you have learnt, all the wisdom and the insights, all the ‘aha’ moments, they take you to the third wave – this wave includes everything before it
– Your higher self is already there (where you want to be/do/have)
– “People often talk about faith. As I think about it, faith is an intermediate state because when you ARE something/somewhere, you do not need faith, you just ‘are'”

– “Let’s say you want to be a certain bodyweight. Notice, isn’t your higher-self already there energetically? What gets in the way is your past and present conditioning of how you see yourself”
– Vibration/Energy Management
– Realise also that this is layered. In that you make some changes and it creates a shift within you. Then you make some more changes, and so on – PROGRESSIVE
– “When people are waiting for things outside of them to change, it suggests that they themselves have not fully changed because they are waiting for the outside. When you yourself have changed on the inside it won’t matter what happens on the outside because you are congruent with your change. Ironically, this is the quickest way the outside changes also.”

– Your inner being is –
– All loving
– Abundant
– Knows it will be fine
– Nurturing/divine energy
– COMPLETION energy – not seeking or intention energy

– When you say the following to yourself and how to resolve it –
– “I’m not good enough”
   – “If only I did/didn’t do that”
   – “If only I could be/do/have…”
   – “I’m not young/old enough”
  – “I’m not smart/good looking enough”
  – “Why hasn’t it happened yet?”
  – “Why doesn’t it happen for me?”
  – “Why me?”

– Those that try to get what they want by creating drama
– Some people get invested in drama because it gets them things… and then it is reinforced by people giving them things
– Notice the energy behind drama energy – “I don’t have what I want” – it can be victimhood, anger, noise, distraction etc – if you have what you want (ie aligned to your higher-self), would you need to do that?
– It is about COMPLETION energy
– The third wave is working with that energetic part of you and being it. Living it. Being the physical embodiment of it. Living heaven on earth

Click here to register and access the audio of the call

Yesterday I had a very lovely experience which all started by me setting an intention, which I will share with you in a moment.

I was on my way to the gym early yesterday morning and I knew I would be doing quite a bit of cardio so I set an intention… I said to myself: “Wouldn’t it be lovely if I bump into some wonderful people at the gym and we have some GREAT chats!”

The irony is this… I DID meet three people… and they were all people I had known from the gym for years, but (as a result of the energy of the intention) we had very NEW conversations…

The world around you reveals itself to your energy… if you have the same energy then you have the same experiences and same aspects experienced from others. 

Change your energy, and you draw forth new experiences, including from the same people.
The third person I synchronistically bumped into worked freelance with film studios such as Pinewood and Shepperton here in the UK and worked on major blockbuster movies over the years.  We have said hello to each other for years but this time we talked about all sorts of experiences that we have had in our lives.

In his case, we was telling me how in the 70s and 80s he worked on the Superman and Star Wars movies amongst others.  He met Christopher Reeve, Marlon Brando, Peter Sellers and his wife Britt Ekland, David Niven and many others.

I got to know about these people as if I had met them myself… their nuances and their day to day habits which most people never get to know.

As we got talking my friend mentioned how in breaks during filming they would play football (soccer!).  They played football matches with Christopher Reeve and the lighting crew.  He told me now nowadays it wouldn’t happen anymore because the studios try to protect their ‘assets’ (the actors), including for insurance reasons.  I learned how Marlon Brando would take the crew out for drinks and was “a man’s man”.

I heard about how Peter Sellers would keep to himself, perhaps focused on his roles.  And there were quite a few stories about him and his then wife Britt Ekland!

I also heard about how David Niven is just like he is on-screen as is Christoper Reeve, and a gentleman.

My friend and I talked for quite a while and I learnt about many of the behind-the-scenes secrets and how high profile actors were when they weren’t on-screen.

I ended up getting a lot of cardio done as well as us laughing a lot and having plenty of fun!  At the end my friend and I shook hands and said we would chat again.

Let’s See What Happened Manifestationally…

1 – I set an intention: “Wouldn’t it be lovely if I bump into some wonderful people at the gym and we have some GREAT chats!”

2 – I let it go.  I stayed in the moment and enjoyed my time in the gym.  I found that I used three pieces of equipment and waiting for me on the next equipment every time was someone ready to have a conversation.

Sure, I could have put on my earphones and listened to music or done something else, but I’d set the intention for conversation and this is what I got on this occasion, every time.

When you think of your goals, are you setting intentions?  Intentions create a focus in your energy.  Your perceptual filters (conscious and unconscious) also draw in data, information and situations to be consistent with your intention.

Setting intentions is often an under-rated tool.  Even if you are having a challenge or are stumped on a situation, set an intention for the answers to come to you – even if you don’t know how they will come.  Take it a step at a time.  You can intend your way to manifestations!

The above process may seem trivial to some, but it is a same type of process that makes fortunes, brings fantastic love to your life as well as bodily and health changes.