A question that was asked about a recent post of mine on “Law of Attraction and YOUR Flow” was about someone who could attract “smaller” things but questioned “the Law” for “bigger” things, my comment reply was…

“The Law” or the Universe do not make distinctions between larger or smaller – WE do.  You will find there is a difference in how you think about the smaller and the bigger things, how you represent/believe them internally

People will have different beliefs about them and in likelihood more ‘resistance’ or less expectation about attracting the bigger things. For many people their expectation of the bigger things is not the same as the smaller ones. When it is, the bigger things will be in your life as well

The thing to do is either work with your beliefs and expectations in expecting those ‘bigger’ things – such as by visualising or practicing thought – or keep playing with the small things and build them up (progressively towards bigger things)

Essentially everything is energy and vibration, it is human minds that distinguish between large and small. If right now you saw £1 million as the same as £10 you would attract it the same way into your life

Law of Attraction and Flow are totally related.  Law of Attraction is the universal ‘mechanism’ of ‘like attracts like‘
and the flow is your personal experience when you are attracting things
easily and effortlessly – it’s almost like you can’t miss at whatever
you do and things work out for you in the right way and right time

We have all had these experiences and of course many are striving to make these more regular!  

A way to get into your flow is with the expectation of good things.  No matter how things are around you, start with the INTENT of what you want, this is a good starting place.  Even if you do not fully believe you can have what you want yet, you can start with an INTENTION to have it – the beliefs will come as you practice your thoughts and vibration around it, you will build your vibrational familiarity around it which will lead to you manifesting it into your life.  Start with the intent and let go of the ‘how’, let the Universe orchestrate that, your job was always to set your vibrational tone

So you start with your intent and you trust and allow it to happen – that means not doubting or contradicting it.  If you plant a seed do you doubt or question it growing?  Why would you do that? 

Ideally when you set your intent and/or focus on what you want you do it for the JOY of it – that is the best place to be, to be in your flow and to be attracting more and more

You will find that when you are in your flow you are focused in your present moment and at what is happening and usually with very little judgement and very little resistance.  You don’t let things unsettle you.  If things happen that you don’t enjoy then in your mind you have a positive outcome or intention for that situation which you are focusing on regardless of what is happening around you

Law of Attraction and your Flow are really a matter of focus rather than luck or waiting for the planets to align.  Just as with everything else, it is all vibrational.  You do not attract things which are not in vibrational vicinity to you and your vibration is determined by your choice of thoughts and feelings

So ask yourself,
What do I want to Focus on today?
What Feels Good to me?
Want to I Appreciate?
What do I Love?
What do I EnJOY?
What can I find in my Past or Recent Past that FEELS GOOD?
What Dreams, Desires, and Goals FEEL GOOD?

It is never about the reality that you are experiencing but where you are putting your attention – that is setting your vibration and what you are attracting more of.  It’s just sometimes you use your present reality as a reason for you not to focus on good things, it is so easy to get ‘sucked’ into the reality happening at the time – but it is always about your focus (hence vibration). 

When your attention and focus is in a good place and it is purely on it (i.e. without contradicting it with thoughts that don’t match it) you will attract things that are a match.

The irony and paradox is, when you are in your flow you do not think about the flow because you are too busy being in it and enjoying it – you are too busy ‘being’ to metacomment ‘about’ it.   So get yourself to a place where you are experiencing and being than having to think too much about it ‘from the outside’

Your Flow is as ready for you as the first good feeling thought you are about to take which will lead to another and another and another and so on…

There is never within any of us such a thing as flaws or distortions other than the masks we have given ourselves.  Deep down from an energetic perspective you are actually ‘perfect’ other than the patterns you have practiced to see yourself with over the years.  You are essentially pure positive energy in a physical form, you are the manifestation of that energy, and moment by moment you are deciding (whether consciously or unconsciously) what the manifestation of that energy is in you being who you are

Your attention can be on the present, the past, the future, or wherever else.  Regardless of where your attention is your point of attraction is in your now moment.  That is what you are attracting more of, whatever your vibration – via your thoughts and emotions – is in your now moment

If your attention is on the lover that scorned you or if it is on the business partner that wasn’t so wonderful, what are you attracting more of?  Or if you haven’t experienced a ‘perfect lover’ but you are envisioning how it might feel, and how it might feel to have your millions and what you will do with them and how your body will feel being how you want it to be – although you may not have yet experienced these but in your now moment you are envisioning them very clearly and deeply and feeling from them, what is your vibration and what are you attracting more of?

Don’t spend time justifying why you are where you are at now, don’t blame the lover or the (ex) husband or the (ex) wife or parent or the business partner or friend or whomever.  Take your attention away from that, sooth any hurt around that, and put it towards WHERE YOU WANT TO BE

When your attention (and hence vibration and intention) is on where you want to be you are attracting experiences that match that.  Initially it might be something small that manifests that catches your attention and that makes you think, and then something else happens, and something else.  Your attention – your conscious attention – starts shifting towards it more and more, and your expectation builds; you expect it more and ‘allow’ it into your life by being more and more from that place

And of course, if your attention is on those good things that are trickling in, what is your attention NOT on?  Where you came from!  ‘The past’!  You wouldn’t have time to think of where you came from because you’d be TOO BUSY ENJOYING THE NOW!!!!  Love and enjoy your NOW so much that you don’t think about anywhere else and don’t care about anywhere else, and everything will take care of itself.  Create and mould and shape your now.  Take your attention away from what you are coming from and what you don’t want (that in itself will create a huge shift) and naturally your attention will be drawn to those things in your now moment that you can love and appreciate and enjoy

In doing this you will be adopting all those spiritual principles that you’d been reading about for all that time and were figuring out how to implement: detaching, letting go, allowing, creating, attracting and everything else.  You will be applying ALL OF THOSE just by making the most of your now moments.  In you enJOYing each moment you are not being attached to what you want because your attention is on the now (detachment, letting go), and because you are feeling good you are allowing, creating and attracting

Remember not to beat yourself up.  It is ok if things happen (or happened) that aren’t how you like them or want them to be.  Sooth yourself around that, sooth your vibration around that.  If you give yourself a hard time for too long you are building THAT vibration (and then don’t be surprised if you attract matches to that via recrimination!)

So make peace with the way things are, that will soften your perspective to what you don’t enjoy, it will create the space for what you DO enjoy and your attention will naturally go there.  As it goes there that will build – Law of Attraction – it will attract more thoughts that match that and it will grow and grow and grow and you will see physical manifestations.  If you do not contradict or doubt yourself along this process you will see more physical manifestations and it will grow and build and build and build.  It is loving your now moment but wanting to expand and grow more and have more. 

Your now moment is as rich and abundant as you see it to be, and seeing that will show you more abundance.  There is no corner or spot in the Universe that is not abundant – the Universe is abundant EVERYWHERE – period!  The Universe is not playing a game and has said that just for you – just for you – it will withhold some of its abundance!  It has not decided that just for kicks it will withhold it from you!  The Universe adores you as you are a part of it and it expands THROUGH you – if you win, it wins!

So be kind to yourself, know that there is abundance around you, today, and every day, where you are, and everywhere

In your kindness to yourself the Universe will match that, and you will see things around you, and it will get easier, you will see reflections of your love for yourself and it will expand and grow

Remember to appreciate who you are, there is no coincidence you are here, you came here to do things and experience things.  Appreciate you are here to be you, and you are perfect the way you are

The only reason your reality isn’t the way you want it to be is because on some level you are keeping a vibration of that which you don’t want

When you think of what you want, it is on its way.  At that moment you are emanating the vibration that is a match to it.  When you then doubt and question it or look at what is around you and how separate or different or far away you are from what you want, you are mixing up your vibration, and thus the ‘pull’ on what you want isn’t the same

Allow yourself to dream, allow yourself to fantasise about what you want.  Don’t put pressure on yourself, allow yourself to gently build the vibration of what you want.

If it is a car, a lover, a house, money in your account or whatever else, go to it from a place of inspiration and how good it will feel to have it in your life, rather than a place of ‘needing’ it and how it will fix things in your life and how you believe you will as a result be able to do things you believe you cannot do right now.

When you are wanting to attract something to ‘fix’ something you are in likelihood starting from a place (and vibration) that is not a match to what you want.  Want what you want because it inspires you, because you love it and are in love with it

But how can you get there when you need to pay the bills?  Or that your lover has just walked out on you?  And that you feel terrible as a result of something like this.  Gently take your attention away from what has just happened.  Sooth your vibration around that.  Make peace within yourself with what has happened.  It is not the end of the world, even though it may seem like it at the time.  It is one of life’s contrasts, although knowing that may not make you feel better at the time.  But thinking of it as the worst thing in the world is not going to solve it or make it better either.

Make peace with what happened (or is happening).  Realise there is far far far far more for you in life, it’s not over, there is far more ahead for you.  As you gently do this your feelings and attention will shift towards what you want.  Towards the future and what you want and where you want to be

Allow yourself to daydream.  Allow yourself to think about what you want.  Allow yourself to imagine it in your life, just for the fun of it.  You are doing this for the fun of it, not because ‘you want it’.  Sometimes ‘wanting it’ can have a need.  But have you noticed that when you enjoy something the results take care of themselves?  The reason is that when you are having fun, when you are appreciating, when you are loving (including yourself), your vibration is very pure.  What does this mean?  It means it is very much on what you want and feels good, it is very much in tune with the divinity within you, the God within you.  It is from this place that miracles happen for you.  And miracles DO happen for you

Miracles often happen when we are doing something and we suspend our judgement on what is possible and stay in the moment and create.  For when we suspend our judgement on what we can do and what is possible we are in the moment and creating without ‘thinking’ and ‘judging’, we are purely moulding the clay so to speak.  When we are doing what we are doing for the love of doing it, very present moment oriented, we are creating magic 

You will know this experience from when you have been in love with someone (or something, such as a pet), been involved in an activity (such as painting, playing music etc), or something else where you were totally in the moment, captured by the moment, intoxicated by the moment for the sake of the moment and that’s all.  With no care or attention on anything else but the moment. 

This is where you create your miracles and magic from

When you get to this place, you won’t even be thinking about your reality because you’ll be too busy creating miracles in your life

THE KEY IS HOW YOU FEEL

What you will find is one's purpose is joy, love, enjoyment, appreciation, fun etc – whatever words one wants to use here, the key is the essence, the feeling, the vibration etc – and the FORM (the 'how') of it can be whatever, it can be being great at a sport, business, the arts, internet marketing or whatever it may be. The form can be a range of things and it can vary throughout your life and as you choose, the common denominator is HOW IT FEELS. That is when you know you are connected to your true purpose.

When you are in a relationship and it 'feels right' or a job or work that 'feels right' or something else that 'feels right' then you are on the path of your purpose, and that can be whatever you want it to be, so long as you have a clear vibration about it – i.e. you do not contradict it, your indication is through your feelings.

The terms 'Purpose' and 'Mission' etc have been banded around for many years, what you will find is that when someone feels something is their purpose…it FEELS a certain way, that is the key. The form – the details, the 'how' – of the purpose can change, just as you are ever growing and ever changing, and as the Universe is abundant and has choice and freewill, you can make anything your purpose, it feeling good is the indication of your alignment to it.  The better it feels the more in song you are with it.

When you are in alignment – and you can call it being on the path of your purpose, or whatever terminology you'd like to use – the Universe orchestrates itself and will provide the resources you need to have and be what you need to do. The Universe does not mind what you do, but when you are in alignment with yourself you will expand powerfully and see physical manifestations and the Universe will be your best friend in making sure the road ahead is fine to take you to where you want to go, and if not the Universe will give you signs to take detours that can get you there faster.

IT'S ABOUT THE JOY AND THE PROCESS

The implication of the word 'purpose' suggests it has to be an end result, that's not necessarily the case in how we are talking about it although it is part of the process, part of the mix.  When someone paints a beautiful painting the fun is in the painting of it, when someone is with the love of their life the magic is in the moment. When someone has a child the joy is in the process of it than intending the child to live to a 100 (end result), your joy is in the process of being with your child.

When you have goals, whilst the goal is an end result, your real purpose is your joy and process in creating it, including the contrast and the challenges you experience and how you expand and grow – including vibrationally – as a result. So it's not just about the end result and how quick you get there and in what style.

Everything you go through, whatever detours or dead-ends you take and however challenging it may be, or even easy as it may be, is 'perfect' and part of the journey, it is all adding to your development and there is nothing that you do that is 'wasted', it is all adding to your vibration in attracting what you want. Even when you are frustrated and disappointed in the short term, in those moments your desire for what you want is amongst its strongest, you are hungriest in that moment and your vibration has expanded, and when you get back on the road in terms of your alignment and feeling better and better you improve your alignment and harmony with the Universe and from a more powerful place vibrationally.

YOU WILL LITERALLY SEE MIRACLES AROUND YOU

So know that whatever you do is fine, it's part of the journey, and as you head towards better and better feeling thoughts, experiences and moments, you are lining up to the magic within yourself and the Universe around you. As you align to that harmony, to that magic, you will literally see miracles happen around you. All the miracles you have ever heard of have all been in this category, there is no difference. And you have access to it a step at a time from wherever you are, right now.

Just start with something that feels a bit inspired, and then do something else from there, and something else from there, and so on. And within a few steps – whilst it may seem 'only' a few steps – vibrationally you are already exponentially so far away from where you started, and the momentum is powerfully towards where you want to go.  Each progressive step is bigger and more powerful as each one builds on the vibrational platforms created by the previous steps.

Realise that you may think there are logical steps to what you want and 'logically' it may seem far away, but when you take the vibrational steps as mentioned here you are taking EXPONENTIALLY LARGE STEPS. You may have thought 'How will I achieve this?' but when you line up to what feels good and to 'You' – the spiritual part of you by what feels good – you are in synch with the Universe and you see the synchronicities and 'coincidences'.

You could for example be in a lift with someone who is looking for something that you are offering and it just 'happens' to be a perfect fit for both of you.  You see the coincidences and the synchronicities happen, and in your excitement and 'allowing' you are letting in more and more of them and you are letting in more of your flow.

When you are in tune with your 'purpose' all sorts of things will open up for you. The Universe is always your friend, though now you are in tune with it and working side by side and all sorts of synchronicities and apparent 'chance happenings' and ideas and inspirations will naturally come through, AND THIS IS THE NATURAL FLOW. Also it won't feel like 'work' because it's 'fun'.

Sometimes people can have a belief of "Can I really do that, as it 'feels like too much fun'", allow yourself to follow what feels good, that is the sign from the Universe, even if it doesn't immediately make rational sense, but it IS getting you in tune with You and everything else.

When you tune into your love and fun and enjoyment and so on you are in tune with what you came here to do

 

For quite some time now as I have interacted with people, whether
online or on phone or in person, I have been hearing the results people have been getting from our interactions.  This has been happening time and time and time again.

In my background in the mid 90s when I did my NLP I coached and trained and
developed many of my own Manifesting & Law of Attraction processes
over the years and had results with others as well in my own
life.  What has been happening more recently is that people have also
been experiencing answers from me intuitively and it was very much
resonated with what they were looking for and given them their answers.

I
wanted to open this option up for others, for you to work one-on-one
with me on your goals and challenges.  I have a monthly package with limited slots remaining for us to interact via email
and phone interaction on YOUR goals, contact me for more information.

Contact me at hemal@manifestingandlawofattraction.com about what you would like to work with and for more information.
I am letting people get in touch
and ‘book their place’ as there will only be a number of people I can
work with one-to-one on a monthly basis

Tamara Kerner, Colorado, USA

I know I always say “Thank you, Hemal” but I mean it.
I am more aware of my alignment, my own vibration, focus on feeling good, Thank you.
Your teaching is always interesting and I feel good reading your articles and listening to your Teleclasses, Thank you.
Thank you so much and I am very happy that I can connect with you.

Rebecca Seal, London, UK

I participated in one of your Teleseminars in August and it was amazing how the experience not only stayed with me throughout the day, but as positive things occurred, they kept growing and compounding.  Everything seemed to flow so easily – the more people I encountered, the more I was able to give to them and receive back their energy.  By that evening, I was feeling so “buoyant” that when I was suddenly asked to speak in front of an audience without warning – instead of panicking, words just flowed easily.  And – at the end of the day: I won 3 raffle prizes that night!

You can really get to know him; he is down-to-earth, authentic, and really has something of value to offer.

Dora Crow, California, USA

Your answer is exactly what I
wanted to hear and I immediately feel more aligned with my goal and I’m
certain I am going to receive it within the next few weeks.
Thank you so much!  In all honesty this is fantastic!
The depth of information you give is very good.
Thanks very much Hemal

Sanjay Patel, West Midlands, UK

This was a comment from Meg to one of my posts on "Don't focus on the Who or the How, only on the What", I thought it was a beautiful story and so titled it "God's delays are not God's denials" and highlighted it in a post…

Many of you have been asking about them and the audios on Manifesting & Law of Attraction are now available!

These are from the teleclasses in the summer which if you didn't attend them live then you can download them now

There is a free audio in which I answer questions from around the world on the topic and there are 4 audios on Accelerating Your Manifesting & Law of Attraction Skills which are over 6 HOURS in duration in total and include handouts for each audio, for more information click on the following links:

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Here is a question that someone asked on the Universal Law of Attraction group on Facebook,

"Has anyone ever used meditation with the Law of Attraction?  Someone said she used meditation with Law of Attraction to manifest her desires. I was wondering has anyone incorporated meditation with the Law of Attraction?"

What meditation does is it quietens the mind and this serves various purposes,

IT'S ABOUT LETTING IT IN

Firstly as you quieten your mind and think less thoughts in general (less 'noise') you are likely to have less resistant thoughts and so you will be 'allowing' what you want better. You are always connected to the Universe/Source/God (choose whichever word resonates for you) and you are only not letting it in through your day-to-day resistant thoughts ('resistant' meaning when you think or feel of something that you don't want), so when you quieten those you are letting in the universal well-being, the natural flow, and so you are naturally in alignment with all that you want (and all that you are from a spiritual perspective).

Also when you have a quieter mind you can put more of your attention on what you DO want
and focus more on that, and of course you are getting vibrational
alignment with what you want that way.

NOT ABOUT 'WORKING HARDER' OR 'TRYING HARDER' NECESSARILY

Getting what you want is not necessarily about 'working harder' or 'trying harder' – which can sometimes imply not being aligned as you are needing to expend 'effort', which is different to free flowing energy and desire and enthusiasm and love for what you want and you taking action through your inspiration – it is about tuning in and letting it in. 

It is not at all about having any less desire, but about how you channel your desire and do it with aligned thoughts and action than misaligned.  You will find that when you are aligned and 'letting it in' things will come to you far more easily than having to 'strive' and 'chase' for things.

Working harder and trying harder work fine from an action or physical point of view but the letting it in and allowing is from a spiritual perspective where you have greater leverage by having all of the resources of the Universe's or God's or Source's available to you, if you can imagine every cell in the Universe orchestrating with you towards what you want and it being in tune with your harmony and vibration, that is available to YOU!

Hi Hemal,

Thanks!
Abigail

Hi Abigail,

Being 'tougher' implies you have something to 'be
tough against', which implies on some level you are thinking of
something you do not want, and of course if you have something in your
vibration of what you don't want you are attracting more of the same.
Ask yourself what you DO want instead, how you'd like things to be, practice
those thoughts and vibration.

Focus on what you DO appreciate,
that you have a wonderful child, that you are getting to spend time
with him or her, that although the dynamics have changed recently you
are making the most of what you have and are enjoying and appreciating
things.

And despite what your ex does or doesn't do, practice your vibration
towards what feels good to you rather than as a response to how he behaves,
otherwise you may find yourself up and down, practice taking your
attention off that and putting it onto your own alignment, in that
being what feels good to you (as that is your 'guidance', intuition,
whatever you want to call it), or at least feels 'better' to you, as it
is all relative

When you get into your own alignment others
around you will change, or you will see those aspects in them that
match your vibration, OR, when they behave those ways they used to you
won't see it or be around because vibrationally you won't be a match and
are instead lined up for what you do want. All in all it means the same
thing, when you have lined up your vibration and have alignment [to what feels good to you – that is your 'purpose'], you
will experience more of that

Hi Hemal

Thanks!
Abi

Hi Abi,

When you say 'I don't want them to make a long car
trip' or 'I want them to not have to make a very long car trip', they are both the same thing in that the focus is still on not making a long car trip, i.e. on what you don't want (you can't process a 'negative'; don't think of a blue elephant in a purple tree – you can't 'not' think about it, you have to think about something to not think about it, hence don't put your attention towards what you don't want), put your attention on
what you DO want instead, so I'm presuming what the most important things are
is that the boys are well, happy and so on, put your attention on that, whatever your (positive) intention is.  Practice your vibration around that.  If they are fine and happy making long trips or doing other things
then that is still a match to what you want, let go of the form, let go of judging the form of how your positive intention is achieved.

So ask yourself why you
want what you want to get your positive intention, i.e. them not having long trips for example is so
you want them to be well etc, put your attention on that than on 'how' it happens.  You are presuming what they will go through with long car journeys, and that may be well-founded based on what has happened in the past, but soften your perspective on it, soften your beliefs and thoughts around it, focus on what you do want than on what has happened in the past, create the present and future based on what you would like it to be than your experiences in the past.  When you are looking to avoid the past happening that is where your vibration is, instead start practicing how you would like things to be.  What you create in your future is just a matter of which vibration you practice and all possibilities are open to you

WHAT ARE YOU PRACTICING

Bit by bit also take your attention away from the frustration of the
interactions (with the ex) and put it on what you are wanting, which is how you want
the boys to be. Because if your attention is on frustration, you will attract a match to that either in that context or elsewhere, put your attention on
the wellbeing of the boys, and the key thing is how it makes YOU feel,
put yourself in that place, and let the form and the happenings take
care of themselves.  Right now you probably have a list of the things you dislike about your ex and how you don't want things to be, but do you have a list of how you want things to be?  Which vibration are you practicing stronger?  Which is your dominant vibration?

And what I am talking about is more about
your own focus and vibration than what you say to the ex, if you are
vibrationally in the right place then the right things will take care of themselves, if needed you will say the right things or you may even find that you don't need to say anything as they are taken care of

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