Too often people complain that Law of Attraction doesn’t work or that they are not able to manifest what they want.

When I ask them some questions it quickly becomes apparent that they are wanting something that they are not energetically lined up to.

When you think about what you are wanting, are you describing it as “over there” whilst wanting it and not thinking of it as “over here”?  There is an implication in your definition of it that it is not here and it is “over there”; this is reflected energetically which perpetuates the gap between you and what you want.

When you are in your flow, in your groove, in ‘alignment’, you don’t think of it as being “over there”.  There is no sense of gap and oftentimes you are so in your groove there is only a sense of here and now – you are the centre point of the Universe from your perspective.

Think about the time when you totally loved someone.  Whether they were in your life at that moment or not, think about that time when you had a whole-body experience in feeling the emotions and so much love and appreciation for this person.  Notice how you are so full of emotion that it was timeless and space less – there is only the here and the now.

The ‘gap’ of something being “over there” often appears when someone isn’t fully happy about what is “over here”.  They are not fully at peace with the way things are or how their present is.

Make peace with the present.  This is a way of closing the gap energetically.

When you are truly in your flow and BEING from where you want to be, energetically, paradoxically you actually aren’t thinking about your goal (not from a ‘lackful’ perspective anyway), you are too busy enjoying your present.

You will know this from your own experiences.  It almost like when you don’t ‘care’ about the outcome (it’s not that you don’t care, you do value it, it’s actually that you have less anxiety and negative emotions – ‘heaviness’ – connected to it, it feels lighter), you are too busy living your now, and ironically you are the most attractive to what you want at that point anyway.

What experiences do you have with this?
What examples do you have on when you have ‘let go’ and found yourself very attractive to the things that you have been wanting?

Share your thoughts and experiences in the comments below.

Hemal Radia is the author of “Find You & You Find Everything: The Secrets to the Law of Attraction” as well as a ‘super’ coach/mentor and speaker.

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This Saturday we are covering a topic which in my opinion is one of the most powerful in transforming and manifesting what you want. In fact if you have mastery over this you have mastery over most things.

Over the last 18 years or so I have shared techniques and principles around the world and in my view “Letting go of Attachment” is one of the most powerful things you can do because it is about letting go of the noise, friction and resistance, and being who you truly are – the powerful magnificent divine being that you are.

Why Let Go of Attachment About What YOU Want?
– Manifest Your Goals Faster
– Less Stress and more Peace in Your Now
– Clarity of Mind and Quicker and Accurate Decision Making
– Better Connection with your Intuition
– Seeing and Recognising more Synchronicities in your Life

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On Saturday’s call we will be talking about how to identify attachment within yourself and others and what to do about it.

Enjoy some quotes about letting go of attachment:

“Letting go” is not resignation, it is letting go of the resistance to what you want. It is letting go of the  resistance and the negative emotions around what you want, not your desire. In doing that, if anything, it amplifies your desire and makes it even more pure and powerful and your manifestations are more likely to happen faster because you are sending out a clearer signal.
The art of “wanting and not-wanting”. Like everything else it appears paradoxical. When you master the paradox you master the manifestation.” – Hemal Radia

More on Saturday’s call…

“When you let go of attachment you focus more on the joy of the moment and of the process than the outcome. You know you will be ok. You have let go of your attachment to your form and to your  wellbeing. You are eternal. You are always fine. You have let go of your attachment to the outcome also. Because you have done this you can enjoy the present moment more, and the present moment is all you have.” – Hemal Radia

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When you think of your dreams or goals, how do they feel? Is there a heaviness about them? An element of ‘need’? What if they didn’t happen? How would you feel?

If there is any element of ‘heaviness’ or tightness about them, in likelihood there is an element of attachment on some level. That does not necessarily mean there is anything wrong with the goal, but your perspective about it.

What happens in your life is down to your perspective and vibration about something than what the situation is. Your perspective and vibration ARE what make it what it is to you.

RELATIONSHIP EXAMPLE

If two people have been beautiful lovers, are perhaps married now, and after time they are feeling a bit of heaviness in the relationship, does that mean that there is something ‘wrong’ in the relationship? Not necessarily. But it does suggest that what they are focusing on within the relationship has changed.

So, what if these two people decided that they would now remind themselves what made them fall in love with the other in the first place? And perhaps make a list of 10 things that they adore about the other and what is so special and priceless and unique about them. Would that change how they feel about the other? Would that allow the relationship to be in that light, fluffy place full of possibilities? Absolutely! It would raise their vibration and more and more possibilities, love, inspiration, and ‘MAGIC’ would enter their experience.

When you raise your vibration, you reach that tingly place of possibilities where it’s all possible.

At higher vibrations, the energy is more fluid and lighter and possibilities are free-flowing and you are more connected to your Infinite Intelligence. With attachment, negative emotions etc, it is not as fluid, it is heavier, and is more static.

YOUR DREAMS, AND YOUR DIVINITY

When you think of your goals or dreams, how can you think of them that feels the best? What aspects about them can you think about them that feels the best?

If it emotionally feels better, that is your indication of you getting further into alignment with your goal and the indication of it being in your reality sooner.

Also, consider what aspects should you take your attention off? Sometimes we have a goal, say wanting money, but we are fearful of us not having it at the moment. If you take your attention off that and onto what feels good about having money and what you will do with it, does that feel better?

Focus on the aspects that feel the best about your goal, and take your attention off the aspects that don’t. The Universe will conspire to match you in the energetic relationship you are forming.

Be at peace with your goal happening or not happening, and focus on the aspects you love about it: “My goal, I love you not because of you happening or not happening, but I love you for the joy you give me when I think about you.” Isn’t that ‘unconditional love’? And one of the most attractive forces in the Universe?

Do you remember times when you ‘let go’ of something and stopped thinking about it, it happened? It’s not that you stopped thinking about it that made it happen, it was that you took your attention off the attachment and the lack of it.

When you are in a place of joy and knowingness that you are truly ‘safe’ in this Universe, and that no matter what happens or doesn’t happen, you as an eternal divine spirit – which is who you truly are – will be fine, you are most in synch with everything else.

Many people get caught up in the physical perspective of their lives, and do not always remember they are an eternal spirit having a physical experience. When you remember that, you remember who you truly are, and you shine a beacon in this Universe to draw all that you want to you.

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