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Firstly, there is no secret.  The Law of Attraction, and the answers to it have always been available to you based on your vibrational asking (more on that later), think of it as it’s always been, and is, ‘When the student is ready, the teacher appears’, whenever you’ve been ready – vibrationally, for anything, it has appeared; it’s Law.  No exceptions.

There is also no coincidence you are reading this article right now.  You always attract what you are a vibrational match to.

Swami Beyondananda

As a summary, this article will cover:
-WHY USE THE LAW OF ATTRACTION?
-WHAT IS THE LAW OF ATTRACTION?
-HOW YOUR THOUGHTS MANIFEST ON A PHYSICAL LEVEL
-7 WAYS TO USE THE LAW OF ATTRACTION

Recently there has been quite an ‘awakening’ and the term ‘Law of Attraction’ has become popularised for all sorts of things.  I’d suggest focusing on the essence and the spirit and the ‘energy flow’ than the terms that are being offered to you.  This information has always been, and always will be available to you, regardless of any hype, as you will be able to attract it in the best way into your life.  You do not have to go to only one source for ‘THE’ way, the universe will provide as many perspectives as you ask and are open to.  What you should trust is your own guidance and intuition and what you feel drawn to.

WHY USE THE LAW OF ATTRACTION?

Using the Law of Attraction puts you in harmony with the Universe (or ‘God’ or Source or whatever term you want to use).  The Universe expands THROUGH you.  When you have a goal or desire and you grow through attaining it, the Universes expands through you.  It wants you to want what you want (they are also its wants too) and to flow desire and energy towards it, and it will match your energy (vibration) to it, you will attract whatever you are a vibrational match to.

The universal stream that flows through everything and everyone is everywhere, it’s the universal organising principle in the universe, it organises through vibration, your choice is whether you want to deliberately be lined up with it or not, and this is how in your harmony with ‘All-That-Is’ you experience synchronicities and being in ‘the flow’.

The Universe has infinite solutions, but you have to ask for solutions, not problems.  Whatever you focus on expands, whether it be problems or solutions.  The solutions can be as grand as you like, that’s in your choosing, the universe is abundant and infinite in orchestrating the answers.  What are you willing to conceive for yourself?

Inside EVERY desire there is the mechanics for its fulfillment, much like in every seed there is a tree (or many trees!)  You do not have to think about the ‘how’, you just have to focus on your desire and get in harmony with it, and live FROM having it – vibrational alignment with it – feel what it is like to have it in your reality, and live from that place.  The Universe will orchestrate the ‘how’, you’ll be in the right place at the right time, you’ll get the ideas and inspiration, you’ll happen to bump into someone that will mention something in relation to what you want or you’ll catch a TV programme or an article and it’s just what you were looking for at that moment in time – there is no limit to the solutions.  If you think you ‘missed out’ on taking action on something, just keep your attention on what you’re wanting than on the fact you ‘think’ you didn’t do something right (hey weren’t you meant to put aside figuring out the how and just CONCENTRATE ON YOUR DESIRE?), focus on your vibrational alignment and the Universe will orchestrate chance after chance after chance after chance, and so on….

Limitation and scarcity, and competition (as a result of the perception of limitation and scarcity usually), are concepts in the human model of thinking not in the Universe’s, the Universe deals in abundance, limitlessness, infiniteness, expression, creativity, harmony, flow, expansion, and much much more.  It’s not about ‘undoing’, because you can never really ‘un-do’ something as you have new eyes and experience as a result of it, you can never look back on a same situation as you’ll have new eyes and will have expanded as a result of it, it’s about expanding from your present moment, and there are no limits on that at all, all possibilities are open, other than those you close with your perceptions.

WHAT IS THE LAW OF ATTRACTION?

Everything in the universe is vibrating on a quantum level (an even more minute level than the atomic level) at varying degrees, but it is vibrating so fast that things appear solid, such as rocks, trees, people etc.  Do you remember being told when you’re at the cinema and watching a movie that it’s not actually a ‘movie’ but a series of frames being flashed in quick succession, 24 per second, that make it appear like a ‘movie’?  Well that’s what the whole universe is like in that everything is vibrating on a deeper level.  It’s vibrating so quickly that it appears solid at varying levels.  As mentioned, even solid matter such as trees and rocks and people, AND THOUGHT are vibrating, at varying levels.

Your thoughts are magnetic, everything is magnetic on a vibrational level. The Law of attraction states that ‘like attracts like’.

Your senses are interpreting vibration and re-presenting
it to yourself in what you perceive and experience through your senses,
and the things you perceive are always in proximity to your vibration –
you don’t experience something you are not close to vibrationally –
like attracts like.

Other analogies of Law of Attraction include:

–Birds of a feather flock together
-What you sow is what you reap
-As with-in so with-out

All thoughts have a vibration.  So if you are saying ‘I don’t want to be poor’, your mind has to think of ‘not poor’, i.e. it has to internally represent ‘poor’ and thus resonate with that vibration.  Don’t think of a blue elephant in a yellow tree – your mind had to represent it internally.  Thus it had to think of it to ‘not’ consider it.  You can’t not think of something, your neurology cannot process a negative, it can’t ‘not’ think of something without actually thinking of it!  So focus on what you WANT than on what you don’t want, resonate with the vibration of what you want than of what you don’t want, you will know you are as what you want will feel good and what you don’t won’t.

So what happens if you’re looking for money, wealth and prosperity and your attention is on having ‘enough’ money and ‘getting by’?  Do they sound vibrational matches?  Most probably not.  It’s not the words you use but the vibration, the feelings, behind the words that are important, but generally most people’s interpretations of prosperity and ‘getting by’, for example, are very different and probably contradictory.

Hence in those scenarios the more you ‘try’ the further away you get because you’re reinforcing the absence of money than the presence of it.  There will be some tips later on getting vibrational alignment with it.

Everything you want IS around you, all possibilities exist, it’s about aligning your thoughts and vibration and letting it into your reality.  It’s like being in a boat in the ocean and asking for water…and looking at the boat and not what’s around (or what you are looking for) and asking for water and…looking at the boat….

When you line your vibration up with what you want you are changing the probabilities of what you want to happen.  There is a probability for everything – everything has a possibility – you affect it with your vibration

You’ve always been ‘using’ the Law of Attraction, whether you’ve been aware of it or understood it or not, much like gravity.  You can’t not use it whilst you’re in the physical universe, it’s just whether you’ve been using it consciously and deliberately or not.

HOW YOUR THOUGHTS MANIFEST ON THE PHYSICAL LEVEL

As you think a thought and don’t contradict it (such as you think of money but don’t dwell on the absence of money), and hold it momentarily you will attract another thought, and another thought, and another, and another, and so on, and you will soon have gathered a cluster of thoughts.  Soon enough they will become your dominant thinking on that subject and they will manifest in your physical reality

The key thing is whatever you put out you get back – however it’s not necessarily about what actions you put out, it’s about the vibration you put out, or in that case the vibration about the action, it’s the energy behind the action than the action itself.

Some people talk about taking certain actions, such as clutter clearing, tithing, etc to attract abundance.  Some people attract it, some don’t.  The difference is in the intent and vibration ABOUT what they do.  Some people tithe because they’ve heard that’s how you attract more money and they ‘need money’, whereas others do it because THEY HAVE THE FEELING they have MORE THAN ENOUGH and are passing what they have onto others, they are continuing the flow.  These people may have relatively little but it’s about the perception, THE FEELING that they have plenty, which attracts more of the same, that they have ‘plenty’.

7 WAYS TO USE THE LAW OF ATTRACTION

Many other posts on my blog will go into more detail and provide examples on Manifesting and using the Law of Attraction but here are some quick tips on using it in your life.  There are an unlimited number of ways you can use it as thought and vibration are fluid and malleable, and your willingness to play with your imagination is one of the factors in your ‘success‘

My Manifesting and Law of Attraction 101 post covers 101 points on various things about manifesting and Law of Attraction, including various aspects of attracting and ways of thinking.  Other favourites include a post I wrote on How I Manifested my Car by Lining up to it Vibrationally and 10 Thoughts on Abundance.

The main purpose is putting your attention on the aspects of having what you want, essentially the FEELING of it being in your life, and not contradicting it with the absence – or perception of lack – of it.  And that’s all it is, a perception.  Your job is to practice seeing and FEELING what you want here, so that you can draw it into your reality.

1 – Spend some time contemplating it, imagine it in your life, how would it feel?  What would you do, be, have?  What would your day be like?  Most importantly, HOW WOULD IT FEEL?  Live FROM this feeling place.  Get as specific and as detailed as you can (the specifics flow energy) WHILST feeling good.

If at any point you feel any emotional discomfort because you are not sure about it, your beliefs are not fully lined up yet, adjust what you are thinking so it feels great again and carry on from there.  Keep practicing these good feeling thoughts.

Create scenarios, frames and games to use your imagination.  Imagine a friend has given you an unlimited credit card, imagine you can go out and spend whatever you like and buy whatever you like, what would you get?  What would you do?  How does that FEEL?

2 – When you line up emotionally to what you want, you will be inspired to take actions.  If they are from a place of joy then they will be the ‘right’ actions and actually the quickest route to where you want to go.  Even if in the short term it appears to have ‘failed’, if it was from a place of joy then whatever you were to gain from it you did, despite it appearing not to have succeeded, and it was a quicker route than others you might have thought rationally or logically.

The best feeling (inspired) actions are the quickest path to where you want to go, they are the impulses from the Universe guiding you on the right things to do.  There are an infinite number of ways to get to where you want to go.

3 – With all the processes, games and visualisation, MILK THEM.  It’s not just about doing them, but you’re using them to flow energy.  So when you write the things you buy or do, write descriptively, FEEL the emotions, live it, make it real.  How would it feel right now?  What else?  What else?  Milk the emotions from it.  That’s what manifesting is meant to be about, the energy flow.  The goals and desires are your tools in doing that

Say ‘Wouldn’t it be nice if…’ or ‘What if…’ and imagine scenarios of what you’d like to happen, play with this, daydream

4 – Get used to how things FEEL.  For example when you make a list of goals or thoughts, notice how they feel.  Get used to focusing or working with goals or desires such that they feel better and better.  You don’t have to ‘change’ something, it’s about what aspects of it you focus on that bring out the best feelings in you.  You could be in a relationship with someone and whilst the person may not change, you can take responsibility and choose what aspects of that person you are going to put your attention on, and which you aren’t.  Whatever you focus on expands.  And consequently that relationship will change anyway.

Keep practicing better and better feeling thoughts, they are an indication of your improving vibration on the subject (see the diagram below)

5 – Appreciate, love the things you have in your life currently.  Make peace with the Now.  No matter what you may think of your future, it is always being attracted FROM your Now, that is your point of attraction.

Practice focusing on things (no matter how small) that you know you appreciate.  That will allow you to have thoughts about other things that you appreciate, and so on.  The vibration of appreciation and love is very high and if this is your state of being it is a very ‘attractive’ place to be.  You can also look to appreciate things in what you are looking to attract (but don’t get yourself into ‘why is it not here, why is it not here’ type thinking, that’s not very ‘attractive’, so don’t focus on the absence of it but on what you LIKE about what you are attracting)

6 – Writing is a great focuser and makes you focus on what you are writing/thinking about, all your attention is on it.

7 – Focus on the above about the POSITIVE ASPECTS of what you want, use them to feel good.  It ‘s always been about the energy you summon from the goal, and the positive aspects summon positive energy flow.  Your indication of that will be by how you feel.

Remember to practice the thinking on what you want because you enjoy it rather than because you ‘need’ what you are thinking of – if you ‘need’ something, thinking from that place (yearning, pining etc) is a different vibration – it’s from a place of absence, from lack, than a vibration of HAVING, BEING, DOING it

As you practice the thoughts of what you want this will become more and more dominant in your vibration and you will find it easier to do it, and you can keep striving for better feeling thoughts.  So as you’re getting familiar with some good feeling thoughts, better feeling thoughts will become more and more accessible

The diagram below illustrates this, as you raise your vibration through feeling better and better you will have access to thoughts (including ideas and inspiration) you didn’t have access to previously.

Q & A

Is there pre-destination or freewill?

You are attracting through your vibration and have freedom to alter your vibration through your thoughts

But are some things pre-destined and I can’t change them?

If you believe that, yes  😉

The universe is vibrational and malleable

For some things you may have set things in motion energetically and it may not be easy to reverse the momentum as it is/has manifested on the physical level, but that’s a moot point as it’s not your part to figure out, you always put yourself in vibrational harmony with what you want and let the Universe orchestrate it.
Let the universe deal with the mechanics of it and the how, you deal with the vibration.  That was the deal before you came here.

Sometimes my goal feels uncomfortable, why is that?

Whenever you have an experience and desire shoots
forth from it you are likely to not be in alignment with it (otherwise you’d have it), so there is a difference between your desire
and belief, this is what feels uncomfortable and is represented by the
discord in your emotions.  The discord represents the difference between the desire and the belief.  Feeling good is when they are lined up, and you have vibrational alignment.

The solution (to discord) is to use the above processes and practice feeling (good) from what you want.

You can also use what I call ‘softening’ statements (a topic in and of itself and there are examples in other posts on this blog) such as:
-‘I may not have what I want but I know it’s on its way’
-‘The Universe is infinitely abundant in its solutions and I know it’s making it happen’
-‘This (goal) and much more is on its way’
-‘If I had this goal it would feel like….’

There is no fixed answer to softening statements as
it depends on your goal, your belief about it and the discord (if any)
you are experiencing, it’s all relative, you’re just using these
statements to sooth the discord and resistance and ‘bridging’ between desire and belief to
focus on the good feelings about it and letting them grow and grow and
grow.

Why hasn’t what I wanted happened?

There is a buffer of time from your thoughts to the manifestation of them.  If it was instantaneous you would be literally attracting everything you thought.

Having said that the universe IS infinite and abundant in its resources (for anything) and in orchestrating the solutions and answers.

Consider:

1 – How strong is your desire about what you want, i.e. your emotions, is it just a passing fancy or is there a real powerful desire?
2 – Are your thoughts ‘pure’ about what you want, are you contradicting the good feeling thoughts with other thoughts?  Pure thoughts, i.e. not contradicted, are powerful in attracting what you want and they quickly build and attract more of the same

CONCLUSION

This is
just a taster for what’s ‘out there’, and the irony is that as you learn the
‘out there’ you discover that it’s always been ‘here’ and you are just letting
it reveal itself (and ‘you’) to you  😉

So
remember, there is no ‘secret’ with the Law of Attraction, the universe is
ready to reveal itself to you, just waiting for you to ask, and to line up with your asking….

Blog Carnivals contain links to various articles on a chosen theme.  The current Law of Attraction Blog Carnival is on Relationships – How to use the Law of Attraction to create, maintain, improve relationships and can be found at http://livingthelawofattraction.com/category/loa-carnival/

I read your blog, by the way congratulations on it; it was very helpful for me.
I’m writing to you because I would like to ask you for some advice on how to apply the secret correctly when I feel like the universe isn’t responding.
My situation is the following, I’m from Colombia but I lived in London for 6 years, last April my visa run out so I had to leave the country. Since I came back from London I haven’t found any job, I’m talking about 10 months by now.
To begin this new year, I decided to focus all my energy on going back to London to work, that’s what I really want in my life. I love London!
In January I heard about The Secret so I got the film and I have watched it few times. I have been applying what the people on the video have advised.
My problem is that sometimes I feel like I’m giving up, I try to keep positive all the time but I get so frustrated because I don’t see any changes in my life. I contacted my old employer in London regarding to a job possibility but I haven’t got any answer from him, that’s what makes me so sad.
My question is what can I do while I feel like the universe isn’t responding?

REPLY:
Normally one feels things aren’t happening or ‘the universe isn’t responding’ when:

1 – The desire (for what the person wants) isn’t so strong and the energy isn’t flowing so much, eg when they only have a passing fancy for what they say they want, that doesn’t seem to be the case in your scenario
2 – The person is feeling ‘not good’ (resistance) and that is resisting what energy they are flowing, they are not ‘allowing’ or ‘letting it in’.  The have done the Asking through their desire, but they’re not in vibrational harmony with what they want to let it enter their life.  It’s like someone can ask for money, but then they’re not lined up to it if their thoughts and feelings are on the lack or absence of money

Usually for most people it’s the latter of the two.

By getting yourself to a good feeling place, flowing desire and good feelings about what you want (number 1 above), that will deal with the second one too, because if you are feeling good you are ‘allowing’ what you want into your life and not resisting it through bad feelings.

Also do bear in mind that sometimes once you have lined up vibrationally it can take a moment for things to manifest on the physical level, there can be a ‘buffer of time’, however I would focus on what you want than on time or anything else, because if someone starts thinking about the time element they are taking their attention off what they want (and onto time, which is not something they need to think about, the timing and orchestration is the universe’s job)!  It’s important to focus on what you want and let the universe orchestrate the rest, remember it is abundant, infinite, and is pure potential waiting to manifest.

There are many ways to work on the feeling good, there are many processes around, many of which you might be familiar with, I’ll go through some in a moment.

Something else to bear in mind, when someone is working on a goal or outcome for a period of time and then it doesn’t happen, they sometimes compound any resistance towards the goal with resistance ABOUT not getting the goal.  So not only thoughts about the goal, but thoughts about not having the goal yet and in the time or way they wanted are added to it, and then time and other factors can add resistance to their original thoughts about the goal. 

It’s like someone not attracting money, on a vibrational level there will be resistance, but after a while not only might they have their original resistance but also resistance about not having the money in the time/way they thought/expected, which adds to whatever was there before.  And then the subject can become more uncomfortable, which is not required at all.

The solution is to focus on what you like about the goal, and what
feels good about it, what you want, what you desire, what you
appreciate/love about it, etc.  And then build and build and build on it.  Practice the thought of it happening and via Law of Attraction it will attract more thoughts of the same and the vibration will get stronger.  It will become your dominant thought/vibration on the subject and will draw it’s physical equivalent to you.

So the important thing is not to pressure yourself about it (thus not bringing that into your vibration), but instead focus on how it would be to have what you want.  Remember as a child when you’d play a game and you’d be SO focused on the game that time just flew by?  Yet if you thought about the time and how quickly it was going you perhaps wouldn’t enjoy the game as much?  Play the games of enjoying your Now.  Time is a human concept, not a universe one, the universe (and what you want) will orchestrate itself in the best way regardless of human perceptions, and the fastest way to what you want is through powerful good feelings about what you want, you are then in harmony with the universe and All-That-Is

Do know that your desires are the universe’s desires, the universe is acting THROUGH you, so know that what you want is absolutely fine!  The universe WANTS that for you!  Otherwise it wouldn’t feel good!  It speaks to you through your emotions!  It WANTS you to create what you want.

So you have perhaps built some resistance about the subject as a result of what has or hasn’t happened, so you could say some things to yourself, starting off gently around where you are, and building it –

-Well, I know this maybe hasn’t worked out how I’d have expected or wanted, but I know the universe works in great ways
-I do know that the universe is abundant and infinite, and that it can deliver me what I want
-I’m sure there are so many places in London that would love me to work with them, and places I’d love to work too
-The Universe, or Law of Attraction, is like a Universal Manager, it’s got everyone’s phone numbers and addresses and it can orchestrate everything.  It can match me up with someone who is looking for someone just like me
– There are bound to be people out there looking for someone like me just as much as I’m wanting to be working with them
– I know I bring wonderful qualities, and people would just love to work with me
– I know things can happen magically, I could be led to just the right place or person or website which leads me to what I’m wanting, or they could be led to me, or both (the latter is always the case, it’s always a co-creative vibrational rendezvous)
-I know that it can do all this and more, and the way I do it is by lining up my vibration through my emotions and feelings
-I know that if I get excited about what I want, it’s coming to me, it’s getting closer and closer and it’ll manifest on the physical, and maybe even surprise me as I won’t be thinking about it because I’ll be so busy feeling good and in the present moment

Now ask yourself, when you’re in London….

-Where would you be staying?  What would it be like? 
-What sort of work will you be working?  What would you be doing?
-How would it be to see the friends you have in London?  And the friends you’ll make?  What will it be like?
-What other things might happen that you haven’t even thought about, all those wonderful things you’ll experience which you don’t yet even know you will?
-And how will it be to living the life in London, and with all that visa thing in the past because you know you’ve got it and it’s all secure and safe and you know you’re in London?
-Now imagine that for a while, imagine your life in London, doing the things you do, with the people you’re with, the places, (the weather!), and everything else, allow yourself to daydream about it and allow your thoughts to wander, about your life in London.

Allow yourself to get very very excited, let the wave of that emotion carry you, compel you, inspire you.  Let it compel the actions you take, which will be as a consequence of how you feel, how unstoppable the momentum is.

It can initially start as a trickle and you don’t have to force it, each thought will attract more of the same if you keep your attention on it.  It’s like when you daydream and the thoughts attract more and more thoughts, it’s so easy as it’s a natural process, and it’s easy because it feels so good and you love to think about things that feel so good.

As you think and feel the thoughts more and more, by virtue of Law of Attraction, they will attract more thoughts and feelings of the same, and they build and build and build and build, and they manifest on the physical level.  By Law, you attract the vibrational match of your thoughts, and if they’re dominantly on you having been living your life in London….

And remember not to give yourself a hard time about it, the how will it happen, when will it happen, be so fixated on how good it feels (the thoughts you create and feel), and you loving how good it feels.  The paradox is feeling how good it feels such that what happens on the physical level doesn’t matter because you’re feeling so good, and ironically that is the vibration that will manifest it on the physical level!  Because you won’t have resistance about it not happening, and you’ll be feeling good about it happening  🙂

I’m expecting a postcard from London…  (which is near where I’m at currently  lol)

Attracting Someone Specific using the Law of Attraction

See also: Using the Law of Attraction in Attracting Soulmates

I want to ask about attracting someone specific using the Law of Attraction.  I read your article on how you really wanted the Jaguar and got it!  Amazing.. anyways I really hope you can help me because I think its fate that I have this opportunity to seek advise from you.. I really like this young man and I know he is the one for me but he has not shown much interest back yet.. although I know deep down we are going to be spending the rest of our lives together can you please help me or guide me how to use the Law of Attraction to manifest my dream to be together with him forever.thanks very much.. I would really appreciate it if you could help me….

When having a scenario of attracting someone specific, you focus on what it would feel like to be with this person. How does it feel? What are the qualities? And you think, you visualise and FEEL from that place. You FEEL excitement.

I know you feel this is ‘The One’. There are many ‘Ones’. The Universe (God, or whatever you want to call it) is abundant – including this one that you have found.

Let go that it has to be this one in that you are allowing this one – or any other – that feels and has qualities at least as good to be in your life.  By you ‘forcing’ this particular person, it could push against it. The way you know is how you feel.

The Universe is not scarce or limited. It will provide you everything you want. But it will find the best ‘form’ of the essence that you are offering – it can be this person or another but it will reflect back how you feel. If you feel wonderful, in love, looking ahead to a wonderful future, having all the things that you think about and more, it will reflect that back.

Just focus on what feels good. If things appear not to be ‘going to plan’, let go of thinking of this particular person and let it come to you in the best way. If you believe in God, the Universe or anything else, it’s all the same thing – have faith in the bigger picture, and stay feeling from a wonderful place so what you want can find its way to you.

I m so happy that you replied to me.. you are absolutely right.. i will focus on the qualities and not the one person…. the right personcould be him but its the qualities that i m so drawn to and i know, i know like I know he is coming soon into my life…may god bless u always.

You could be fixated on this guy, and not know how he is about marriage, but there might have been another guy standing right next to you who is at least as ‘perfect’ for you and is ready and willing and wanting to be with you but you never saw him because you were looking at this other guy.

So focus on what you want to feel and experience and let the form take care of itself – it can happen in the most wonderful and magical of ways.

And also take it as a sign that the fact that you’ve experienced something tells you that you are thinking/feeling in a good way and are on your way.

Want to attract amazing things in your life? Check out:

“Attracting Someone Specific using the Law of Attraction” Hemal Radia copyright 2008

I’ve had this eating disorder for like a year or a little bit more and I’ve always been a very negative person.
I’m taking antidepressives and all that stuff.
I’m
always thinking things like: if I eat this I’ll get fat, or if I
already ate something that I wasn’t supposed to eat, then I’ll get
very depressed and mad and I’m only thinking: Oh my god why did I eat
that? Now I’m going to be fat forever, I’ll never be thin, I’m a
complete failure.. etc.
I’m so tired of thinking this way and I really want to recover and end this suffering forever.

– Michelle

REPLY:
Ok, ask yourself what it means to you if you were fat? You’d be ‘ugly’?
‘unattractive’? ‘unlovable’? Ask yourself what it would mean. Do you
think some people wouldn’t like you in the same way?
The eating (the behaviour) is a symptom about how you feel about something.

Ask yourself, how do you feel about yourself? 
Realise,
that if you don’t totally love yourself (and many people don’t lol) you
will always be doing things to make up for that through your actions
and to have other’s affections, and people may still not like you. You
could be the most beautiful woman in the world but if you don’t love
yourself, people will feel that on a deeper level.
If you love
yourself, you will attract people into your life that match that. And
even if there are people that don’t like you, it won’t matter to you
because you will have the most important connection in the world, with
yourself. And from that connection you will inspire others and they
will love being around you, because you love yourself, and they love
learning to love themselves too

Your outward beauty is an
expression of who you are on the inside. If you don’t love what’s
inside you’ll be working very hard on the outside to ‘make up for it’ 🙂

You
know when someone has a baby or a pet? You know what it’s like and the
love there? They love the baby and the pet pretty much unconditionally.
Don’t beat yourself up, get used to liking things about yourself, start
gently, and you’ll find there is more to appreciate. That’s how love
works, sometimes it happens all at once, or sometimes you find
something you like about someone, and as you think about it you find
more and more things you love, and so on

Ok, something to think about  🙂

Hemal

Hey thank you so much…
you are totally right… I’m so glad I messaged u
thanks … I’ll work on it…

– Michelle

1. The Universe is TOTALLY abundant, it is a willing and waiting canvas for your desires.  It is so abundant and so unconditional and there is such freedom that it will even allow you to have an abundance of scarcity if that’s what you choose to resonate with.  The Universe is abundant, scarcity and ‘limit’ are man-made concepts
2. Realise that abundance is much more than money.  If you think of it only as money you are only thinking of some of the possibilities.  Abundance finds itself to you via the path of least resistance.  Be open in your expectations and let the universe deal with the ‘how’ and how it gets to you.
3. Abundance is attained by tuning in to what you have (than what you don’t), no matter how big or small, and more of the same is attracted, and it grows and grows.  You’re letting the universe reveal the abundance to you that’s here, you start by knowing that it’s here (practicing the thoughts and vibration that you know it)
4. It’s not about quantity, you focus on the quality of your essence, your thoughts and feelings, and the Universe matches it in terms of the quantity, the numbers and ‘the how’.  It will pay more attention to your vibration rather than the number you keep visualising.  It will be about your vibration ABOUT the numbers than the numbers themselves
5. The Universe can provide you with limitless abundance in all areas, it IS abundant, how much of that are you bringing in through your beliefs and what are you willing to see?  What are you ‘allowing’, what are you letting in via your expectations?
6. Remember that what you want is always here.  All you’re doing is turning the unseen into the seen.  Everything you want is around you.  When you think it’s not and you are trying to attract something that’s ‘not here’ you can be creating a separation in your mind between you and what you want, there is no separation, there is only connectedness in this universe.

   Know that you are as magical as the universe is as you are a part of it, you are like the drop that is in the larger ocean that is the ‘universe’.  And the universe isn’t bringing something that isn’t ‘here’, it's only 'not here' in your conscious physical perspective, everything and all possibilities exist here and now and you are connected through your thought and vibration.  From the universe's perspective time and space do not exist the way that you perceive them from your conscious physical perspective, in its perspective there is the here and now and all possibilities exist there.  You are connected to everything you want, and even all the things you will want that you don’t yet know you will want

7. Do you worry about breathing quickly so you don’t run
   out of air?  That’s sometimes the case with people and money or other items.
   They hoard and store it ‘just in case’.  What does ‘just in case’
   imply?  It implies a vibration of something that might happen that you
   don’t want; this might not help your energy  flow.  What happens when
   you don’t let blood flow?  It clots.  What happens when you don’t let
   things flow in life?  Resistance can build (depending on your vibration
   about it – you will know by how you feel, if you feel good then that’s
   fine).  Do what feels good, let your feelings be your guide to what to ‘do’.
   Just like when you have a piece of fruit compared to something else
   which is not supposed to be good for you, you can ‘feel’ which is
   better for you, oftentimes we don’t trust or pay attention to it due to
   other noise we have going on.  The answers are and always have been here

8. The Universe is constantly expanding, that’s what you are here to do, to expand, grow, and the universe expands THROUGH you. The universe WANTS you to expand, to go for more things, so it can expand too.  It's a win-win, that's a concept the universe works on.  Scarcity leads to win-lose relationships, abundance leads to win-win relationships.  Scarcity is 'How big a piece of the pie can I get'.  Abundance is 'In our coming together how big do we want to make the pie so we all get big pieces'

   There is never-ending expansion and growth, NEVER-ENDING.  That’s why no matter what you have there will always be more, and it’s about the process and the joy of the journey, it’s the joy and energy you flow through your journey, what challenges you experience and what goals and desires you determine as a result.  The ‘challenges’ are what help you define what you want and be clear, and then your focus must be on what you want than on what you don’t

9. You don’t have to look at what’s (or what’s not) in your bank account to have beliefs about abundance in your life.  Use your imagination.  Realise the things you DO have in your life, whether it be the smile you got from a stranger today or the fact there was a beautiful sunrise.  It’s really about what choices you make about how you feel about things, rather than the things themselves.  The universe hears your vibration and matches that signal
10. Remember it’s not just about money and wealth.  The Universe can provide you limitless answers to questions.  The planet currently is asking quite a few questions, whether it be about the environment or otherwise.  The planet (i.e. the people on it in this example) is getting clarity about what it wants and what it doesn’t, and the desire and motivation is building for it.  Every time someone does something ‘not-green’, that adds to the clarity and desire.  But it is not lined up to the solution.  There are an abundance of answers and solutions that reveal themselves in lining up to them by ‘being’ and focusing on what you want (the solution), rather than the problem.  The ‘problem’ helps define and get clarity and desire, lining up with and 'being' from the solution allows it to come into the physical whether as an idea or inspiration or as an actual physical manifestation

A few thoughts for stimulation,

• Everything that you have Asked for is ready and waiting for you and ‘all’ you have to do is let it in.  Through your decisions and preferences you have already (vibrationally) stated what you want, the universe has heard you, just need to let it in by getting yourself to a feeling place in line with what you want so that you are a vibrational match and it can enter your life.  ‘I don’t want to be broke’ stimulates desire and preferences, you need to line up with ‘I have money, lots of it, it flows easily to me, the universe is abundant’ etc to resonate with that reality

• The universe is a vibrational one, it does not make exceptions for you, it doesn’t not give you what you want just because it’s you  lol, you can manifest what you want as much as anyone else can.  But what if others want ‘the same thing’?  You have to remember it is an abundant universe and has the resources to give you what you want and everyone else what they want and more.  It can bake more than enough pies for all.

For everyone that wants to be a singer, an audience is waiting.  For
everyone that wants to write a book, readers are waiting.  For everyone
that wants to fall in love, there is someone waiting to fall in love
with them.  For everyone that has a desire for a business, there are
customers waiting.  It’s the moulding of the thought and intention that
gets you to that place where you have manifested it on a physical level.

The way to get from the initial intention to being in front of the
audience or the lover or customers is through moulding and working with
the energy and expecting and seeing yourself with it, it’s lining up
your thoughts and feelings with it

• Know that when you are Asking, and have a desire, what you want is already out there, all possible realities exist

• The universe does not take part in contests for first, second etc – that’s a scarcity model where only so many can have what they want, the universe deals in abundance where everyone can have what they want, for they are all part of the universe and it lives through everyone

Contests and ‘competitions’ are human concepts and often based on external recognition (i.e. recognition from others), they can stimulate contrast, preferences and desire in the individual – everything serves a useful purpose.  But your most important connection is with yourself and your emotional guidance, not with others, who also have their own guidance.  You following your guidance is more powerful than working with the rest of the world, as your actions and intentions will be from a higher guidance and will consequently inspire the rest of the world through your own connection anyway

The universe does not deal in external recognition (other than your requests and preferences as a result of it), it deals with you being self referential, you being lined up, you being in connection with your Spirit (or God or Universe or You, etc).  It will give you whatever you want, based on your vibration and essences and emotions, but not in your need of recognition from others, in that case it will give you more of the same, more to need (law of attraction)

• Focussing on your vibration will inspire you to the actions and the orchestration of the universe

The action level works your body consciousness and allows you to hone and get a precise vibration.  It’s not the action that gets you what you want but the alignment in your vibration, the action element gets you to sharpen your vibration.

When you work on your vibration you cannot not attract what you want, it is Law, and it’s quantum physics, the universe won’t make an exception for you  lol, if you’re a match for it, you’ll receive it, always

• It’s not the goal or the picture you are visualising, that’s just
  acting as a metaphor, a tool for you to flow the energy and raise your vibration and ‘line up’, there are an
  infinite number of ways the universe can get you what you want, it’s
  up to you to let go of the ‘what’ and ‘how’ and allow the universe to work with its intelligence and not yours, no matter how divine you think it is   😉

Its intelligence works on many dimensions and you work WITH IT by lining yourself up vibrationally, the universe loves working through you and with you, it loves expanding and it loves you having goals and desires.  When you feel good your connection with the universe is stronger and stronger, that’s why you may notice more synchronicities around that time.  Feeling good is something you can do within, regardless of what is happening in the world, remember – self referential, not external recognition/referential, you get more of whatever you focus on

Law of Attraction: Oprah interviews Esther Hicks/Abraham

If you’d like to download the interviews of Oprah interviewing Esther (of Abraham Hicks) about the Law of Attraction on her Oprah XM Radio show you can access them below.

For those of you that are new to Law of Attraction or Abraham Hicks. this is especially worth looking into. For those of you with a bit more ‘experience’ there’s enjoyment in listening to Esther and Abraham I’m sure.

If I remember correctly, in the first audio Oprah interviews Esther and in the subsequent ones she speaks to Abraham and asks them various questions, including about what or who is Abraham,  Law of Attraction, 9/11, their involvement with The Secret, and other questions.

You can click on them to listen to them online or, depending on your browser, right click on them and Save Target/Link As

Oprah & Esther/Abraham Hicks about the Law of Attraction 1

Oprah & Esther/Abraham Hicks about the Law of Attraction 2

Oprah & Esther/Abraham Hicks about the Law of Attraction 3