Tomorrow's (Saturday 30th June 2012 – available as an audio download if you are reading this after then) Manifesting Excellence group call includes the following questions:

– "There are numerous occasions in the past when I've been driving – at least 30-40 times – where I've been momentarily distracted by something and then either gone into another lane, swerved towards something, or something else, and every time I have turned back JUST IN TIME to avoid any major accident or death. I feel it's impossible I lucked out every time, it defies probability…is there something more at work?"
– "How do I know what's ok to manifest? I change my mind at times, whether it be money or a car or anything else, and I contradict myself. How can I have clarity on this and attract what I'm wanting?"
– "It's hard for me at times to be specific  about what I want…how do I get around this to attract what I want?"
– "I seem to have resistance in setting an amount or 'form' of what I want, how can I loosen this up?"
– "What are the best ways for me to feel less nervous and more confident? Affirmations?  Other ways?"
– And many more!

Click here if you'd like to join the call  (You can receive the audio download of the call too)

Just to let you know that the download of the Self-Esteem/Self-Love call is available in the archives of Manifesting Excellence along with other topics such as Money, Relationships, Letting Go, Fear,  Emotions, and many others. 

You can try Manifesting Excellence for 7 days and have access to all the archives, all the calls from every week going back to early last year.

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I've listed the content below from the email that was sent to the group on Saturday.
The content included:
– You are questioning the unquestionable about yourself
– It's really about how you deny your own light and love to yourself
– It is a sense of disconnection, rather than moving to a place of connection
– Learning and modelling someone else's sense of disconnection and disempowerment
– As you shine the light, the shadows disappear
– When you are in your divinity you don't question these things because you are BEING it
– Abusive situations
– It is often a victim that creates another victim. However it is your choice how you see a situation and in going forward
 
– We question whether we are:
    – Lovable
    – Likable
    – Capable
    – Valuable
– What is your language with yourself like, what are the things you say to yourself
– Using physical situations and conditions to define ourselves, and them being transient
– Notice the vibration/energy of when you are unkind to yourself – it implies disempowerment, such as hopelessness, despondency etc
 
– Releasing blockages to self-love/self-esteem
– Unintentionally creating an invisible 'ceiling' in your energy. Flea and elephant analogies
– What this means on a Manifesting level
– Expectation and allowing
– Living each moment with your presence
– Make a list of why you deserve or don't deserve something. Deal with what's on that list, that is what prevents the manifestation of what you want
– Self-forgiveness
– Denying others and the Universe through us not forgiving ourselves
 
Questions included about:
– Is money correlated with self-esteem?  Are they intertwined?
– Is there a way to 'test' how high or low your self-esteem is?
– How do you get around when you procrastinate or make excuses or get too busy to doing the things you adore and love and feel are your 'path'?

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Have a wonderful week ahead!

Hemal

P.S. As mentioned above, just like the content above on Self-Esteem/Self-Love, there is content on other topics such as Money, Relationships, Letting Go, Fear, Emotions, and more as well as over $250 in bonuses!

Would you like to have the answers in resolving any self-esteem/self-love or self-value challenges this weekend?

I will be covering them on this Saturday's Manifesting Excellence call!  Recently we did a survey of the group calls and received unanimous delight – ie from ALL the respondents…including from those who had been on it for over a year as well as those that joined recently. 

One topic request that came up from this survey was about self-esteem and self-love – and so we will be covering it right away!

Below is more information on Saturday's call.  In accessing this, you will also have access to the archives which includes over a year's calls on topics such as Money, Relationships, Fear, Letting Go…and many others!  (There are also over $250 of bonuses!)

This weekend's call will include:
– Self-love/self-esteem (including self-value)
– What this means on a Manifesting level
– Self-forgiveness
– Identifying and releasing blockages
– Indicators of low self-value/undermining yourself
– And much more!

You will also be able to download this call (and others) afterwards!

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I look forward to seeing you on the call!

Remember, you will be able to access the ARCHIVES of over a year of group calls including on topics such as Money, Relationships, Fear, Letting Go, and many others, and you have access to forthcoming courses and my book, totalling over $250 in bonuses.

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I have been asked by The en*theos Academy of Optimal Living to teach Law of Attraction courses on their network.  Starting from early July there will be a 4-part course on the “Fundamentals of the Law of Attraction” (there are also plans in the future for a “Mastering the Law of Attraction” course as a follow-on).

Click here to find out about the “Fundamentals of the Law of Attraction” course
(Those that are on the Manifesting Excellence Group calls will have access to this as a courtesy)

“The en*theos Academy for Optimal Living is excited to be hosting Hemal Radia as he shares his wisdom in The Fundamentals of The Law of Attraction! Hemal’s knowledge and enthusiasm are sure to make this an amazing course!” – Casey Carey, en*theos

Earlier today I appeared on Nancy Brook’s “Love Your Path: Passion, Purpose & Possibilities” radio show and we had a great time.  She asked me various questions about purpose, manifesting successfully, how to live our purpose when we have responsibilities such as earning a living and raising children, do other people’s intentions affect us, as well as questions from my “Find You & You Find Everything: The Secrets to the Law of Attraction” book.

I thought you might like to listen to the audio.  There is no opt-in required, i.e. no email address to give to access it, just click the link below and you can play it in your browser or download the audio.

To listen to the show or download it click here.

“Hemal was an amazing guest on my Love Your Path Radio Show.  He explains the Law of Attraction in a way that makes it easy to understand.  He puts abstract concepts into words that anyone can follow.  Plus, Hemal has a supportive and soothing energy that makes it all feel so easy!  I could listen to him for hours.”

Nancy Brook, Host of “Love Your Path Show”

Are you transitioning from the ending of a relationship?

At the moment I am working with quite a few people in the process of transitioning from a relationship and making the move as seamless as possible, sometimes with children involved too.

If this is something that resonates with you, I thought you might enjoy some thoughts on it:

7 THOUGHTS ON TRANSITIONING FROM A RELATIONSHIP

1 – Just because this ended, does not mean something beautiful isn’t around the corner.  This has created space for something else, at the very least for yourself and who you are…and from there, all possibilities are open

2 – There can often be shame and guilt involved, especially if there are children.  Realise, your children are here because on a deeper level they chose to come into this life.  What you want them to experience in the future and the direction you want their lives to go is a choice that you make.

3 – You may feel sad about it having ended…if it was an unhealthy relationship, consider how much sadder you might have been if it had continued…

4 – With some relationships you feel you can’t live with your partner and you can’t live without them.  Identify the factors that push you apart and deal with them.  Or else, the pattern will go on and either you will resolve it or there will come a point when the inertia is strong enough for you not to want to continue the relationship.

There ARE better times ahead for you…

5 – You may feel that this was your ‘soulmate’ (or words to that effect) and you ask yourself how can you continue without them, even though it was an unhealthy relationship.  Read that last sentence again – particularly the words “unhealthy relationship” – and ask yourself if this really was your ‘soulmate’.  See the previous point also (4)

6 – If you felt that it was a ‘soulmate’ relationship, that it was a healthy relationship, you were rejected or turned down and you are wondering how will you find someone like that again, there are a few things to be said on that.  Firstly, you allowed yourself to love and to immerse deeply in an experience with someone else. Give yourself credit. Next, realise it is an abundant Universe and there is someone else out there who will make you feel that way and more (it’s true), will adore you, AND wants what you want too.

7 – There may be ‘noise’…whether from the partner you are leaving or from others around them or you. Don’t let it distract you.  Make decisions that you are congruent with.  You will have to live with them.  Do not be scared of making the wrong decision; you can only make the best decision you can at that moment in time.  If fear wasn’t a factor, what would you do?  This puts you more in touch with your spirit.

Bonus – Realise, that no matter how bad it may seem and no matter how scary it may seem, it will get better.  This phase will pass and you will enter a new phase.  The choices, including your thoughts and feelings you nurture, will influence the new phase that comes.

Would you like to work on this area of your life or any other with Hemal Radia?  Click here to work one-to-one with him.  There are a few slots currently available on a first-come-first served basis.

I shared this on the Manifesting Excellence private group and thought you might enjoy this from a friend of mine who was ‘coaching’ her elderly dad to some goals. He attracted three goals, all using a similar way/method, this was one of them, to attract him and his wife taking a trip/vacation. It was quite something for him at this stage in his life to start to use the power of his thoughts to attract something he wanted into his life –

“With regards coaching my Dad …. it really has been quite amazing …. at the time of him thinking about the ‘trip’ goal (he wanted to go away on a trip) … I suggested that he research the location, create a mind map … start a savings jar especially for the holiday where he could put his coins etc …. and basically suggested he should prepare as if they were definitely were going …. and the money would come …. well he did all of this and the money did come … unexpectedly : ) …. “

There may be moments when the journey isn't perfect, but that doesn't mean you are not on the perfect journey for you.

Have you worked with yourself on your own beliefs and energy?  How was it for you?

This has been a bit of a theme recently as I've been sharing information on my group calls about working with your own beliefs and energy.

 We experience what we do in our lives and go through the changes we need to experience.  Whether it be to move towards something or to move away from something, or both.  Change is a constant in life, as is your own growth and evolution. 

 How you handle it and how easily you go through it, is up to you.  Below are some insights that may serve and inspire you in what you experience. 

1 – Change CAN happen quickly?

Some changes can appear to be difficult, and some things can need work.  But…change can also happen quickly.  One of the keys is in identifying the centre of the issue or the key dynamics and patterns in play.

This is where I feel many people miss out…whether they are using spiritual healing, EFT, NLP, therapy, or other tools, they don't get to what the issue or the patterns are.  Once you get good at finding this, it can be easy and intuitive in finding it in yourself and others.

2 – It doesn't always have to take lots of 'work', it can oftentimes be just about shining the light

Oftentimes when you find the real issue and see it, it is so obvious, it disappears (I often get this with clients or those on the group calls). The reason for this is because your present day awareness is greater than when you first took on the 'problem'.  When you clearly identify what the issue is – when you have the centre of the issue – and shine your awareness and wisdom from today upon it (oftentimes just by being consciously aware of it), it can resolve itself.

Where people might have challenges with this and that not happen is if their awareness isn't to a sufficient degree to resolve the issue.  In which case it is then about sharing insights and awareness with the person (as an example, when working with others and if this happened to be the case, I would then work on educating them, sharing perspectives, sharing resources such as my book, content, etc with them in increasing their awareness to shine their light) such that they DO create a separation and movement from the issue and it disappears.

3 – Can change be permanent?

This comes down to various factors, particularly to how well integrated the change is.  If the new 'you' has conflicts of self sabotage, then it's not so easy. Identify how the new 'you' feels, play it through in your mind, make it feel good.  In fact, if you can see the new 'you' as more 'you' than you have ever been, you are on your way.

I believe if change is healthy, progressive, organic, amongst other things, then it will stay.   All that I teach (or when I work with others) is geared towards that, towards progression, evolution, growth, learning, self-sufficiency, self-empowerment, self-awareness, and so on.

 Realise…life will happen…and there will be changes…there may be ups and downs…how you navigate this journey and your course will determine how you feel and the degree of happiness and satisfaction you experience… 

There may be moments when the journey isn't perfect, but that doesn't mean you are not on the perfect journey for you…

Earlier I had a question about whether the Universe 'substitutes' your desires, such as Love, which I shared with the coaching group (which had its one year anniversary this week!) on the private Facebook group. I thought you might enjoy the answer so I have posted it below:
 

Just because you haven't gotten what you want yet, doesn't mean it's not on its way.

I had a question asking that if you are looking for a love relationship and the Universe gives the qualities of that to you through friends, a parent, a child etc, does that mean it doesn't want to give you a love relationship?

The answer is no, it doesn't decide or 'judge' what you can have, that is down to your own allowing and your own energy/vibration (after all, you and the Universe are one anyway). Yes, the Universe can give you aspects of something through other avenues, but that does not mean that you cannot have it in a relationship as well. In fact, the fact that you are getting it through the other avenues may be an indication that you are getting closer to what you 'really want'.

This Saturday's group coaching call will be about "Attracting Money and Material Possessions".

This is a popular subject which many of the members would like to get content, processes and answers on.   Another topic that is being asked about which we will most likely cover soon is about "Losing Weight".

If you'd like to be on the call or receive the download of it then you can register via the webpage at Manifesting Excellence Law of Attraction Group Calls

As members and those joining submit questions, these will form the processes, techniques and content that will be covered as a result.