Are you living far less of a life than you are capable of because? Perhaps not even being aware that you are?

Saturdays Manifesting Excellence call was about “Authenticity, Self-Esteem & Self Value” as well as answering questions that had been submitted.

We often become conditioned to our mental patterns and how we see ourselves.

For example when we grow up in a family situation where we may consistently be served last or a school situation where we are treated as not intelligent or capable or if we have been in an unhealthy relationship, we can inadvertently take on notions that we are not deserving of being happy or having what we want.

This can become very ingrained within us and we have no awareness of it because we are too busy living from those paradigms to even realise them.

Self-esteem and self-value can impact:
    – Your income
    – Your relationships and friendships
    – Your health
    – Your manifesting abilities and what you allow in your life – ie your quality of living

We also talked about authenticity on the call.  It is about alignment in what you say and what you do, as well as in relation to the energetic aspect of who you are.

When this is NOT in alignment we experience emotional pain and lives where what we want doesn’t happen.

If you’d like to know more about this click here to register for Manifesting Excellence and access the above call.

I often get messages from many of you with questions about joining Manifesting Excellence.  Just to let you know that we had the first call of the year on Saturday and it is available as an audio in the archives by registering at www.hemalradia.com/manifesting.

Below is an overview of some of the content on it:

– “When trying to manifest, which is better: Visualization, writing it down on paper or journal, or meditation?”
– The key thing is the FEELING of what you want to manifest
– Using different processes for different areas of your life at different times
– Identifying more unconscious or subliminal thoughts
– What to do when “feeling good” isn’t easy because you aren’t feeling very good
– Lifing yourself up many energetic levels
– “How is our health being affected by our emotional state?”
– Your body, mind and spirit know what to do for a perfectly healthy body, other than when you block with resistance
– Negative emotions distort the communication within your body
– Your body – like everything else – is constantly regenerating itself
– When you are in your flow you are allowing in the ‘life force’ – just like when you are in love or excited about something
– “How do you control your thoughts?”
– “Manifesting flippantly”
– Being light and loose about what you want to manifest
– Manifesting $10,000 being as easy as manifesting a parking space
– As you go up the energetic scale you get more outrageous, creative and inspirational in your thinking
– What thoughts come up that you don’t want? Release the negative emotional base of them
– Amplify the good thoughts you want with positive emotion
– “I’m in a relationship and afraid of sabotaging it. I fear it not working out or me not being good  enough or pretty enough of keeping him. I really like him and I’m fighting myself with the negative and the fear…what can I do?”
– Filtering present relationships and yourself with habits from past relationships
– Dulling your senses with noise from the past
– Things to say to yourself to feel better about yourself and the relationship you are in
– Setting outcomes and goals for yourself and the relationship into the future
– Abusive relationships and the dynamics in them
– An abuser acts the way they do because they are so disconnected and out of their flow
– “I lost my work and then couldn’t find more work and went through all my money and bottomed out as an alcoholic. I have now been sober for 5 1/2 years and lost a job recently and am filled with fear. I am working on a movie and believe I have many other talents but do not know how to bring the money in. I also believe I may have blocks to money and self-worth and self-esteem are always a work in progress  for me. What can I do?”
– Turning intention to something commercially profitable
– Use the Manifesting Excellence private Facebook group to interact ideas
– When in fear, start making actions to get the momentum going

You can register at www.hemalradia.com/manifesting to access the audio from the call at the weekend as well as the archives with audios on topics such as attracting money, relationships, freeing up energy and emotional attachment, making 2013 a great year, and much much more!

Is this something you were aware of?  Or did you need me reminding you of it?

“Amazing and Divine” not in an arrogant way, but a healthy inner awareness of your magnificence and brilliance as the divine in motion through you.

We are and always have been this, no matter how much we may have tried to mask it with our doubts, fears and self-limitations.  The limitations and fears are temporary and are illusions, despite how real they may appear.  What is ‘real’ and eternal is your divinity and natural beauty.  It is constant and always has been here, ready to flow through you to your manifestations… 

How about living your life with the presumption that you ARE amazing and divine…with no justifications or explanations needed?

We often seem to feel the need to justify our grandeur but find it so easy to belittle and undermine ourselves.  Turn the tables.  Why?  Because it’s the natural flow.  How do you know?  By how you feel.  Your emotions (and intuition) are telling you what is correct and what isn’t.

There’s a reason why one feels good (your grandeur) and the other feels bad (belittling yourself).  The one that feels good is closing the gap between you and your divinity, the other is increasing the gap.  What occurs when you close the gap?  All that you have been asking for and waiting for… 

The “Fundamentals of the Law of Attraction” 4-week teleclass hosted by en*theos starts next Thursday 5th July 2012.  Click here if you’d like to know more about it.

Just to let you know that the download of the Self-Esteem/Self-Love call is available in the archives of Manifesting Excellence along with other topics such as Money, Relationships, Letting Go, Fear,  Emotions, and many others. 

You can try Manifesting Excellence for 7 days and have access to all the archives, all the calls from every week going back to early last year.

Click here to Access Manifesting Excellence

I've listed the content below from the email that was sent to the group on Saturday.
The content included:
– You are questioning the unquestionable about yourself
– It's really about how you deny your own light and love to yourself
– It is a sense of disconnection, rather than moving to a place of connection
– Learning and modelling someone else's sense of disconnection and disempowerment
– As you shine the light, the shadows disappear
– When you are in your divinity you don't question these things because you are BEING it
– Abusive situations
– It is often a victim that creates another victim. However it is your choice how you see a situation and in going forward
 
– We question whether we are:
    – Lovable
    – Likable
    – Capable
    – Valuable
– What is your language with yourself like, what are the things you say to yourself
– Using physical situations and conditions to define ourselves, and them being transient
– Notice the vibration/energy of when you are unkind to yourself – it implies disempowerment, such as hopelessness, despondency etc
 
– Releasing blockages to self-love/self-esteem
– Unintentionally creating an invisible 'ceiling' in your energy. Flea and elephant analogies
– What this means on a Manifesting level
– Expectation and allowing
– Living each moment with your presence
– Make a list of why you deserve or don't deserve something. Deal with what's on that list, that is what prevents the manifestation of what you want
– Self-forgiveness
– Denying others and the Universe through us not forgiving ourselves
 
Questions included about:
– Is money correlated with self-esteem?  Are they intertwined?
– Is there a way to 'test' how high or low your self-esteem is?
– How do you get around when you procrastinate or make excuses or get too busy to doing the things you adore and love and feel are your 'path'?

Click here to Access Manifesting Excellence

Have a wonderful week ahead!

Hemal

P.S. As mentioned above, just like the content above on Self-Esteem/Self-Love, there is content on other topics such as Money, Relationships, Letting Go, Fear, Emotions, and more as well as over $250 in bonuses!

Would you like to have the answers in resolving any self-esteem/self-love or self-value challenges this weekend?

I will be covering them on this Saturday's Manifesting Excellence call!  Recently we did a survey of the group calls and received unanimous delight – ie from ALL the respondents…including from those who had been on it for over a year as well as those that joined recently. 

One topic request that came up from this survey was about self-esteem and self-love – and so we will be covering it right away!

Below is more information on Saturday's call.  In accessing this, you will also have access to the archives which includes over a year's calls on topics such as Money, Relationships, Fear, Letting Go…and many others!  (There are also over $250 of bonuses!)

This weekend's call will include:
– Self-love/self-esteem (including self-value)
– What this means on a Manifesting level
– Self-forgiveness
– Identifying and releasing blockages
– Indicators of low self-value/undermining yourself
– And much more!

You will also be able to download this call (and others) afterwards!

Click Here to Access the Call

I look forward to seeing you on the call!

Remember, you will be able to access the ARCHIVES of over a year of group calls including on topics such as Money, Relationships, Fear, Letting Go, and many others, and you have access to forthcoming courses and my book, totalling over $250 in bonuses.

Click Here to Access the Call

Want to have some tips to staying in Alignment?

FROM BEING DOWN TO BEING IN YOUR FLOW

A few days ago, a friend wrote to me feeling saying that she had been in a wonderful flow and had felt that day that she had – in her words – “crashed”.  She had been feeling great, doing all sorts of things to look after herself, and then all of a sudden she felt things “fall down” all around her and she felt very, very down – down to a degree that she had hardly ever felt. 

She had been intending to become a client before this happened and is about to become one anyway.  I wrote her a message at the time which enabled her to realise how she could get herself back into her flow. 

Within days, she is buzzing and is back in her flow despite how down she was at the time.  She wrote to me this morning with a list of around 10 things that I had mentioned in my message to her which she had organised into a list.  

Enjoy…. 🙂

(To give you the context of some of the points below, I’ve annotated some of them and put the annotations in brackets)

TOP 10 LIST FOR STAYING IN ALIGNMENT

Hi Hemal,

I am going to re-read your note every day for the rest of my life! ha ha  Seriously, there are so many good points that you make there.

1. I love the idea of being “light and easy” with myself. You are right, the easier I allow myself to be, the better I feel! Do not disrupt flow…ok, got it!

(Do not beat yourself up and create resistance from your flow.  Be light and easy and gentle with yourself.  Let the energy flow, and let it build and grow.)

2. No beating self up…stay away from quicksand…excellent point!  Btw, I thought about quicksand a lot as a child…just remembered that…haha

(The languaging she was using was of “crashing” in having come out of her flow.  Understandably, due to the state that she was in at the time, she used the languaging a few times in her original message to me so I asked to her to focus instead on what she wanted (than on what was wrong, i.e. “crashing”).  It’s like quicksand – that’s the analogy I used.  The more we struggle, the more we get pulled in.  The more attention to what we don’t want, the more we ‘fight’, the more we can feel getting sucked in. 

So relax, get your attention away from that.  Don’t put your energy towards it.  Instead, be light and easy because your flow is ALWAYS there, it’s about you letting it in (and not fighting or resisting it).  You are always connected to your flow.  So relax, let it in.  Think thoughts that feel good, they are you letting in your flow.)

3. Relax and know it is ok to concentrate on “me”. I just want you to know that I never knew until a few years back that it is ok to love myself…unfortunately I think a lot of people are unaware of that. (Might make an excellent post for you in the future)

4. Get rid of unwanted thoughts by thinking of being in the “now”. Will try and just revert to breathing technique or mantra…I call on my higher self.

5. Begin thinking of one wonderful thing to appreciate and then add more to the list.

6. Good thoughts = positive flow!

7. Do things that feel genuinely good to you.

8. Do things that energetically have value for you.

(I said to her to consider the things she does, thinks and feels for their ‘energetic value’.  How do they feel?  My sense was she was getting drained because she was focusing on things which energetically didn’t feel great for her and she was ‘getting things done’ and ‘working away’ rather than being in her flow.  She focused on this, as I get my clients to do, and she felt herself driven to do things which were more compelling and had a higher ‘energetic value’ and very easily and naturally her flow came.  I got her to focus on how things felt to herself. 

I have even worked with Law of Attraction coaches in guiding them to making this a way in their lives and their businesses, love lives and many other things have skyrocketed.)

9. Allow yourself to create personal well being doing the things you love.

10. Find your own personal ‘Super’ Coach, like Hemal Radia…:)

By the way, you are absolutely wonderful!

Thanks, things are getting better already…woo hoo!
xox

PS. Maybe you could post this as Hemal’s Top Ten List for Staying in Alignment…