Despite What Happened, Your Life Will Be Even Better

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Many have been through some form of major experience, whether it be in having to move home, losing a job or a business not working out, a divorce or relationship change, a bereavement, or some other personal matter, and then found that it is not easy to ‘find themselves’. 

What can also happen after a major incident, besides the life change, is the carrying of emotions and any beliefs and perceptions as a result of this experience.

So someone comes out of an experience where they might feel lesser for it, perhaps having lost something on a physical level – whether it be possessions, finances, or a part of themselves.  As well as any potential ‘scarring’ they may have experienced, and being worse for wear.  Does this seem familiar?

Not to worry if it does.  The rest of this article will focus on the remedy of it. 

YOU ARE MUCH MORE THAN YOU SEE, AND MUCH MORE THAN WHAT HAS HAPPENED

My book talks about us being much more than the physical body that we are.  You are divinity in physical form.  You are energy.  And so much more.

All your desires and wants are already in form energetically, just not in physical form, yet.  Just because you have been through something traumatic, it does not mean anything has changed.  What has changed is your relationship to those things as a result of your beliefs and perceptions because of what you have been through.  Those thoughts of doubt that you have, they create a discord between where you are and where you want to be.  The more you doubt yourself, or have fear, or other thoughts incongruent with your desires, the stronger the emotional pain that you feel and the stronger the indication that you are off-course.  Move towards what feels less worse, and then towards what feels better.

Painful emotions are an indicator that you are off-track.  They are not here to punish you.  They are an indication, a guide, as to the direction to your light.

When you berate yourself and beat yourself up, notice how it feels?  And at other times when you are kinder to yourself and forgiving and allowing, notice how that feels?  The better it feels, the more you are facing (and heading in) the direction you want to be.

It is not what happens but your perception of it that affects you and your life.  And thus then also creating the possibilities in your next moment.

 

No matter what has happened, no matter what may appear to be ‘damaged’ in physical (or emotional) form, it does not need to affect you or your life.  This is an abundant Universe with all possibilities.  Everything is fluctuating as energy and all possibilities exist.  You literally mould the reality around you with your thoughts.  When you have doubts and fears, they are projected into your reality.  When you have an assuredness, that no matter how, things will be fine, and you genuinely feel this, the way is more likely to be easier. 

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The best vibration to have is not one where you are imposing on the Universe to do something for you, but one where you have a knowingness of your own divinity and wellbeing.  The Universe corresponds to the vibration that you offer – whether it be in reflecting you being of ‘need’, or in reflecting the knowingness of your power.  Two different vibrations with different reflections from the Universe.

 

It may seem that you have lost things dear to you – whether it be a home, a business, work, loved ones, children, or others.  Realise that nothing is ever lost and the connection is eternal.  You may not be together in physical at this moment, and there’s nothing to say you won’t be again, but put your focus on your forward path. 

WHAT YOU WANT DOES NOT REQUIRE PHYSICAL RESOURCES TO START

The vibration of looking at the past and perceiving ‘loss’ is not as conducive to you attracting what you want as looking to the future and knowing fresh possibilities are ahead (including with the same people, if you so choose).  The possibilities are there, and they enter your life as quickly as you create the space for them.  They do not necessarily require physical resources, they start with you creating the energetic space and your alignment for them.  Then they happen.  And in your building awareness and confidence, more come.

But when you look back and focus, whether consciously or unconsciously, on what is lost, you are offering the vibration of loss, and this creates an energetic barrier between you and what you want.  The barrier is as strong as your emotion is about it.

Realise what happened has actually served you in that you have responded by growing on an energetic level.  You now just need the alignment on the physical level in your realisation of your divinity and that all is (and will be) well. 

TAP INTO THE PLAYFUL, CREATIVE WONDER WITHIN YOU

So realise, no matter what, all possibilities exist.  Remember that playful wonder when you were a child of getting to create and build again.  We often forget this, and often don’t allow ourselves this because we think we are too old or that it’s not possible to create again or that we do not have the resources.  These are ALL beliefs.  The Universe is a malleable energy that responds to your thoughts.

Play with the creative wonder that all possibilities are (and they always are) open to you.  What would you do, be and create?  What do you get to do?  How?  With whom?  Do this just for the sake of raising your energy.  Do this consistently and long enough – without doubting or fearing, as much as possible, and notice the physical manifestations that occur in your experience as the shoots of recovery.

The Universe never forgot you and has never not loved you.  You only created the separation through your feelings of unworthiness, hopelessness, destitution, and anything else which is far, far, far away from the joyful, loving creator that you are.  Life can be difficult sometimes.  But within you is an inner spirit and glow, and a love, which when you radiate from within, lights up the life you experience.  The intention of this article is to remind you of it.

Remind yourself of what is worthy about you.  Of what is valuable about you.  Of what is lovable about you.  Of what is priceless about you.  When you start seeing it, the Universe can start reflecting it back.  See yourself as a unique aspect of divinity.  There will never be another like you, ever.  Bask in that place and live from that place.  From that perspective, all that seemed painful will change.

Life is like a river.  Where you put your attention and energy now will influence what flows to you next.  Old waters will pass.  New, fresh waters will enter your experience.  You have choice in what you experience.  You choose by what you feel and expect.

 

There are free resources and links at http://www.hemalradia.com, as well as Hemal’s Manifesting Excellence Group Coaching programme and Working One-to-One with him.  Free Chapters to his book “Find You & You Find Everything: The Secrets to the Law of Attraction” are also available.

Attracting Money using Appreciation: A Real-Life Example

 

Attracting Money using Appreciation: A Real-Life Example

 

Want to hear an example of how someone used appreciation and gratitude in attracting money to the sum of $350 within a few days?

I was approached by someone wanting to be a new client a week ago, whom I have been working with since then.  She doesn’t speak English very well, and so she preferred our interactions to be via email and audio replies which I sometimes send out to clients.  She is also on Manifesting Excellence and has been listening to the audios there.

She is in a job where she is not happy, in a relationship and living at a place where she would like to be able to have some contemplation away from.

The financial means to do so would be very helpful to her.  Hence, when she got in touch she wanted to get into her flow and attract work opportunities, financial resources, and more.

 

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Getting a Sense of What’s Valuable to Work on Now

When I start working with someone I get a sense right away on where they are energetically and the steps for them to take at that moment.  In her case, I got her to start making lists of what she appreciated in her life.  I felt at the time that this would be the most useful thing for her.

I get a sense of what is most valuable for the client at the time, and also what they would enjoy the most as I want people to enjoy themselves, have fun, and be in their flow.

She was feeling the benefits of my suggestions in how she felt about herself right away and would tell me so.

I amped it up further and suggested she did the appreciation more frequently in the day, such as every few hours when she could, or even more frequently than that.  I also shared this approach in more detail on the Manifesting Excellence private group.

 

Shift the Energy, and Things Around You Shift Too

Things started happening in her life.  She felt more energy, she felt more of a purpose in her life.  And no longer did she allow the work that she hadn’t been enjoying to get her down, because she had something much bigger and better to focus on.

Within days, at the start of this week, she attracted a situation where she won $350 as well as various other happenings.

I wanted to share this example in how making subtle shifts in your energy can change things around you, including in attracting money.

Noticing the things that you DO have in your life is a great place to start in focusing on what is PRESENT in your life.

One, it magnifies your attention to what you DO have, and secondly, if you are focusing on what is present, that is time and attention that you WON’T be spending on lack – a two-fold effect on the energy that you are putting out.

 

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