Many have been through some form of major experience, whether it be in having to move home, losing a job or a business not working out, a divorce or relationship change, a bereavement, or some other personal matter, and then found that it is not easy to ‘find themselves’.
What can also happen after a major incident, besides the life change, is the carrying of emotions and any beliefs and perceptions as a result of this experience.
So someone comes out of an experience where they might feel lesser for it, perhaps having lost something on a physical level – whether it be possessions, finances, or a part of themselves. As well as any potential ‘scarring’ they may have experienced, and being worse for wear. Does this seem familiar?
Not to worry if it does. The rest of this article will focus on the remedy of it.
YOU ARE MUCH MORE THAN YOU SEE, AND MUCH MORE THAN WHAT HAS HAPPENED
My book talks about us being much more than the physical body that we are. You are divinity in physical form. You are energy. And so much more.
All your desires and wants are already in form energetically, just not in physical form, yet. Just because you have been through something traumatic, it does not mean anything has changed. What has changed is your relationship to those things as a result of your beliefs and perceptions because of what you have been through. Those thoughts of doubt that you have, they create a discord between where you are and where you want to be. The more you doubt yourself, or have fear, or other thoughts incongruent with your desires, the stronger the emotional pain that you feel and the stronger the indication that you are off-course. Move towards what feels less worse, and then towards what feels better.
Painful emotions are an indicator that you are off-track. They are not here to punish you. They are an indication, a guide, as to the direction to your light.
When you berate yourself and beat yourself up, notice how it feels? And at other times when you are kinder to yourself and forgiving and allowing, notice how that feels? The better it feels, the more you are facing (and heading in) the direction you want to be.
It is not what happens but your perception of it that affects you and your life. And thus then also creating the possibilities in your next moment.
No matter what has happened, no matter what may appear to be ‘damaged’ in physical (or emotional) form, it does not need to affect you or your life. This is an abundant Universe with all possibilities. Everything is fluctuating as energy and all possibilities exist. You literally mould the reality around you with your thoughts. When you have doubts and fears, they are projected into your reality. When you have an assuredness, that no matter how, things will be fine, and you genuinely feel this, the way is more likely to be easier.
The best vibration to have is not one where you are imposing on the Universe to do something for you, but one where you have a knowingness of your own divinity and wellbeing. The Universe corresponds to the vibration that you offer – whether it be in reflecting you being of ‘need’, or in reflecting the knowingness of your power. Two different vibrations with different reflections from the Universe.
It may seem that you have lost things dear to you – whether it be a home, a business, work, loved ones, children, or others. Realise that nothing is ever lost and the connection is eternal. You may not be together in physical at this moment, and there’s nothing to say you won’t be again, but put your focus on your forward path.
WHAT YOU WANT DOES NOT REQUIRE PHYSICAL RESOURCES TO START
The vibration of looking at the past and perceiving ‘loss’ is not as conducive to you attracting what you want as looking to the future and knowing fresh possibilities are ahead (including with the same people, if you so choose). The possibilities are there, and they enter your life as quickly as you create the space for them. They do not necessarily require physical resources, they start with you creating the energetic space and your alignment for them. Then they happen. And in your building awareness and confidence, more come.
But when you look back and focus, whether consciously or unconsciously, on what is lost, you are offering the vibration of loss, and this creates an energetic barrier between you and what you want. The barrier is as strong as your emotion is about it.
Realise what happened has actually served you in that you have responded by growing on an energetic level. You now just need the alignment on the physical level in your realisation of your divinity and that all is (and will be) well.
TAP INTO THE PLAYFUL, CREATIVE WONDER WITHIN YOU
So realise, no matter what, all possibilities exist. Remember that playful wonder when you were a child of getting to create and build again. We often forget this, and often don’t allow ourselves this because we think we are too old or that it’s not possible to create again or that we do not have the resources. These are ALL beliefs. The Universe is a malleable energy that responds to your thoughts.
Play with the creative wonder that all possibilities are (and they always are) open to you. What would you do, be and create? What do you get to do? How? With whom? Do this just for the sake of raising your energy. Do this consistently and long enough – without doubting or fearing, as much as possible, and notice the physical manifestations that occur in your experience as the shoots of recovery.
The Universe never forgot you and has never not loved you. You only created the separation through your feelings of unworthiness, hopelessness, destitution, and anything else which is far, far, far away from the joyful, loving creator that you are. Life can be difficult sometimes. But within you is an inner spirit and glow, and a love, which when you radiate from within, lights up the life you experience. The intention of this article is to remind you of it.
Remind yourself of what is worthy about you. Of what is valuable about you. Of what is lovable about you. Of what is priceless about you. When you start seeing it, the Universe can start reflecting it back. See yourself as a unique aspect of divinity. There will never be another like you, ever. Bask in that place and live from that place. From that perspective, all that seemed painful will change.
Life is like a river. Where you put your attention and energy now will influence what flows to you next. Old waters will pass. New, fresh waters will enter your experience. You have choice in what you experience. You choose by what you feel and expect.
There are free resources and links at http://www.hemalradia.com, as well as Hemal’s Manifesting Excellence Group Coaching programme and Working One-to-One with him. Free Chapters to his book “Find You & You Find Everything: The Secrets to the Law of Attraction” are also available.
The Universe never forgot you and has never not loved you. You only created the separation through your feelings of unworthiness, hopelessness, destitution, and anything else which is far, far, far away from the joyful, loving creator that you are.
Hemal, thanks for the wonderful post. Your words are as usual full of wisdom and beyond desires and manifestations. I dig deeper into your words to find the true essence of life.
Focus on loss, create loss. Focus on gain, create gain. If we are all connected to and through Source, how could we ever lose? Trust less in appearances and more in your divine nature.
We are God germs, or children of an infinite Universe. We can never lose, we can never get cut off from the infinite love pouring through the Universe, unless we think it so with the thoughts we choose.
Thanks for sharing your insight Hemal!
Thank you Vandana 🙂
I totally agree, thanks Ryan!
What about if your in incredible levels of physical and emotionalw pain and suffering flashbacks so what do you focus on then? How great things are i dont believe it works unless everything in your life is good trauma is different and i don’t see how the law of attraction works in this kind of situation you try being in incredible pain and distress and thinking about rainbows and bubbles lifes not as easy as you write it
I agree, Anna. Energetically that is too far away and I do not suggest ‘trying to feel good’. In those cases I advise people working on ‘what feels less worse’. It is about shifting perspectives to lessen the emotional pain to get them to equilibrium/balance point and then to work on the ‘feel good’ type of stuff.
I definitely agree, energetically it is too far to try to feel good from that place. So it is about making incremental movements from the not so good place. It can be done, the starting point needs to be respected by where you start. And then the better feeling things will come after that.