Jay Lakhani:  There is an Abraham quote: If there is something that you desire and it is not coming to you, it always means the same thing. You are not a vibrational match to your own desire.”  So how can you easily achieve a vibrational match?

The easiest way is by thinking of it and from it. What happens for most people is they let other thoughts get in the way. It’s about thinking about something and by the attention to it (without resistance), letting it build; and it attracts more thoughts, and more thoughts, and then physical manifestation.

Playing with thoughts is one way, eg “Wouldn’t it be lovely for me to be with the love of my life?  How would it feel to drive the car I’d love to have?  How would it be to live in the house I want?  How will I decorate it?”  And so on.  It’s just many people get stuck on the “how to” and their beliefs about it being/not being possible, rather than being open to the possibilities and focusing on the envisioning and letting the Universe find the answers, commensurate with your vibration.

Every thought has a vibration. To be a vibrational match to something, have thoughts about it.

Hi Hemal > Many thanks for the kind contribution, really appreciate your effort! Very nicely explained. Thanks again.

For those of you who haven’t downloaded the audio of the recent “Making 2010 Great For YOU!” teleseminar, you can do so here!  This event was very popular and HUGELY appreciated, as you will see.  There is content at the start about making this a great year for you, followed by insights to questions submitted.

It was scheduled for an hour and ended up being two hours because there were so many questions and interactions on it!  There is a lot of information here and great answers to some great questions.  And it’s a FREE audio to download. 

To download it:

— Georgina Laros, South Africa

— Judy Green, USA

 

There were countless questions answered, some included:

– How do I manifest loads of money when I have never experienced it before?  How do I stop feeling discouraged when I compare myself to others successes in manifesting?

– As a result of some things that have happened, I doubt I will ever be as successful and get as much money now.  I fear I will become lonely, lose my friends, and that they are judging me. That they have views about me that I won’t like.  Is there something that can be done?

— Olga, Lugansk, Ukraine

— Karla M. Nashar, Indonesia

I had a very pleasant surprise yesterday.  Lisa Ellwood (she will tell you below how she came across me) tagged me on a note on Facebook that she had written.

A year ago I wrote a post on “Going into the New Year with Momentum” where I mentioned about how, through your perspective, you can have a great momentum in going into the New Year.  I didn’t know until I saw Lisa’s note yesterday, that she had applied what was in that note and (in her words) EVERYTHING she had written had come to fruition even down to the time periods specified.  As she will tell you, she is someone who has had some challenges, including “clinical depression”.

I will paste Lisa’s note and do feel free to share your thoughts and write YOUR answers to my exercise in the comments below.

By the way, on Saturday 9th January there will be a free teleseminar about making the most of 2010 for YOU, keep an eye out for more details soon.

>>>>>>>>>>

Lisa’s note:

My latest New Years Tradition: Going Into the New Year With Momentum

This is a great addition to my New Year’s Traditions.

My dear friend Michelle H. turned me onto The Manifesting & Law of Attraction Page founded and run by Hemal Radia here on Facebook last year (http://www.facebook.com/ManifestingLOA). The timing was quite fortuitous as it was nearing Christmas.

Hemal did a post where he talked about *Going into the New Year with momentum*. In essence, you are compelled to do a lot of self-reflection – never a bad thing at all and especially if you are in denial about taking control of your life and your ability to create the future that you want for yourself. I can honestly say that just about everything I wrote for 2009 came to fruition even down to the time periods specified. Quite profound for one who struggles with positive thinking (being clinically depressed doesn’t help), meditation and visualisation.

Below is the exercise Hemal had us follow. I’ve made a couple of slight tweaks but this is the general format.

MANIFESTING & LAW OF ATTRACTION

GOING INTO THE NEW YEAR (2010) WITH MOMENTUM

1 – Write at least 3 to 5 things that you have Appreciated about this year

2 – Write at least 3 to 5 things (or more) that you are Anticipating/Excited about next year

3 – This time next year, what will you be delighted and proud with? What will have happened? (You can do this for the end of Jan too, what will you be proud of by then?)

(Solaris image by Lisa Ellwood)

Henri Coleman, who lives in Las Vegas, asked me a few months ago if I would be interested in having a live event in Las Vegas.  We interacted and are intending on having an event next Spring.  I will let Henri explain….

Henri: In preparation for a Hemal Radia Law of Attraction Seminar/Workshop in Las Vegas, we are targeting a weekend in May 2010 (PS – Since this post was written, the Vegas seminar has been arranged for the last weekend of September 2010, the 25th & 26th.  See Law of Attraction in Las Vegas for more information, HR – 5th April '10).  This will give everyone who would like to attend a chance to come to Las Vegas and participate in this exciting event.  

What you can expect from this event:

• You'll learn Law of Attraction and about YOU and YOUR Life like you've
  not known it before!  Those who are familiar with Hemal's work will
  know that no one covers it like he does!
• You will get a chance to see Hemal in person; and, we will
  get a chance to personally interact with one another also!  How exciting to
  meet, manifest, and share!
• You will not only be able to interact with Hemal but also meet others
  who have very similar interests to you!  One thing I have noticed with
  the people around Hemal is there is a WONDERFUL spirit!
• Ask questions!  This is a live event and Hemal enjoys the interaction and stimulus!  And we get ANSWERS!
• In meeting Hemal we have an opportunity to interact with a true Expert in his field.  As well as the seminar time we are also intending to have some lighter interaction time.

A provisional format for the event would look something like this:
Friday evening:  Cocktail Party to meet and greet. 
Saturday: 
Morning session, Lunch with group or separately, Afternoon session with
Questions and Answers, Dinner with group or separately. 
Sunday:  Coffee, Pastries, 2-3 hour Workshop, and depart by 1pm.

If you would like to be kept up to date about this event then please enter your details below.  This does not commit you to attend the event, but will enable you to receive updates about it.  (If you are reading this via email notification then click here to go to the blog post and the form)

Also, we have created a short survey in order to know YOUR preferences.  We would appreciate it if you could have a look at this and let us know your thoughts:

Click here to have a look at the survey

Please fill in the form above with your details and we will keep you updated! 

And do feel free to let us know what YOU would like!

From my post last month on “Top 10 List for Staying in Alignment“, Ellen Slyngstadli has created a beautiful video.

The photos that you see in the video have been taken by Ellen on hiking trips that she has taken in Norway.

If you are on Facebook, Ellen is happy to make friends!  Click here to go to her profile!  She is also an Officer on the “Hemal Radia Appreciation Group” on Facebook.

If you are reading this in an email, CLICK HERE to go to this post on the blog and view the video.

If you would like to view this on YouTube then CLICK HERE.  (You are welcome to rate it and put a comment if you would like to!)

You may remember a few months ago that Fawny Frost created an inspiring video with my quotes called “Hemal Radia’s Quotes“.  She has taken more quotes of mine and created another one!

Fawny is an Officer on the “Hemal Radia Appreciation Group!” on Facebook where they send out my quotes during the week.  She has taken some of my quotes, along with photos that she has taken (including at a butterfly farm), and created this beautiful video.

If you are reading this in an email, CLICK HERE to go to this post on the blog and view the video.

Enjoy!

If you would like to view this on YouTube then CLICK HERE.  (You are welcome to rate it and put a comment if you would like to!)

Related posts:
September 2009 “No limits to the Universe” wallpaper
October 2009 “Abundance” wallpaper

For November 2009 we have a “Love: Soul to Soul” inspirational wallpaper calendar with my quote:

This wallpaper was created in collaboration with good friends; Jessie Smith from Storykraft Kreative and I worked on the design and the original photo was from Fawny Frost.

To download it, right click on the appropriate link below and “Save Target/Link As” and save it to your computer.

You can download this image in various sizes depending on the resolution of your computer:

You are very welcome to share this post with your friends.

And do feel free to leave us a comment below and let us know what you think 🙂

Want to have some tips to staying in Alignment?

FROM BEING DOWN TO BEING IN YOUR FLOW

A few days ago, a friend wrote to me feeling saying that she had been in a wonderful flow and had felt that day that she had – in her words – “crashed”.  She had been feeling great, doing all sorts of things to look after herself, and then all of a sudden she felt things “fall down” all around her and she felt very, very down – down to a degree that she had hardly ever felt. 

She had been intending to become a client before this happened and is about to become one anyway.  I wrote her a message at the time which enabled her to realise how she could get herself back into her flow. 

Within days, she is buzzing and is back in her flow despite how down she was at the time.  She wrote to me this morning with a list of around 10 things that I had mentioned in my message to her which she had organised into a list.  

Enjoy…. 🙂

(To give you the context of some of the points below, I’ve annotated some of them and put the annotations in brackets)

TOP 10 LIST FOR STAYING IN ALIGNMENT

Hi Hemal,

I am going to re-read your note every day for the rest of my life! ha ha  Seriously, there are so many good points that you make there.

1. I love the idea of being “light and easy” with myself. You are right, the easier I allow myself to be, the better I feel! Do not disrupt flow…ok, got it!

(Do not beat yourself up and create resistance from your flow.  Be light and easy and gentle with yourself.  Let the energy flow, and let it build and grow.)

2. No beating self up…stay away from quicksand…excellent point!  Btw, I thought about quicksand a lot as a child…just remembered that…haha

(The languaging she was using was of “crashing” in having come out of her flow.  Understandably, due to the state that she was in at the time, she used the languaging a few times in her original message to me so I asked to her to focus instead on what she wanted (than on what was wrong, i.e. “crashing”).  It’s like quicksand – that’s the analogy I used.  The more we struggle, the more we get pulled in.  The more attention to what we don’t want, the more we ‘fight’, the more we can feel getting sucked in. 

So relax, get your attention away from that.  Don’t put your energy towards it.  Instead, be light and easy because your flow is ALWAYS there, it’s about you letting it in (and not fighting or resisting it).  You are always connected to your flow.  So relax, let it in.  Think thoughts that feel good, they are you letting in your flow.)

3. Relax and know it is ok to concentrate on “me”. I just want you to know that I never knew until a few years back that it is ok to love myself…unfortunately I think a lot of people are unaware of that. (Might make an excellent post for you in the future)

4. Get rid of unwanted thoughts by thinking of being in the “now”. Will try and just revert to breathing technique or mantra…I call on my higher self.

5. Begin thinking of one wonderful thing to appreciate and then add more to the list.

6. Good thoughts = positive flow!

7. Do things that feel genuinely good to you.

8. Do things that energetically have value for you.

(I said to her to consider the things she does, thinks and feels for their ‘energetic value’.  How do they feel?  My sense was she was getting drained because she was focusing on things which energetically didn’t feel great for her and she was ‘getting things done’ and ‘working away’ rather than being in her flow.  She focused on this, as I get my clients to do, and she felt herself driven to do things which were more compelling and had a higher ‘energetic value’ and very easily and naturally her flow came.  I got her to focus on how things felt to herself. 

I have even worked with Law of Attraction coaches in guiding them to making this a way in their lives and their businesses, love lives and many other things have skyrocketed.)

9. Allow yourself to create personal well being doing the things you love.

10. Find your own personal ‘Super’ Coach, like Hemal Radia…:)

By the way, you are absolutely wonderful!

Thanks, things are getting better already…woo hoo!
xox

PS. Maybe you could post this as Hemal’s Top Ten List for Staying in Alignment…