Many people go through life fearing what happens, whether it be by the ending of a relationship or job, being in debt or financial challenges, health situations, and the problems encountered in day to day life.

All of these situations require change and transformation within ourselves to transcend them.

On this Saturday’s Manifesting Excellence call we will be sharing some techniques that you can use to quickly do this.

In addition to the techniques on the call, how can you embrace change more easily?

3 Tips to Embracing Change

1 – Realise that change is natural… in fact NOT changing is against your flow and is painful – it leads to discord within yourself and dis-ease.

2 – Have the awareness that every situation that you experience has the seed of a greater transformation for you.

Much like in the past, you will deal with this. And you will have grown in the process. HOW you deal with it and grow is your journey.

On Manifesting Excellence we aim to provide tools to help with this and make it easier.

3 – Not only will you change and grow, but have the intention that you will THRIVE AND PROSPER.

Life is not about fearing change at every turning corner. It is embracing it, transforming yourself and looking forward to every breath of life you get to experience.

Wishing you a beautiful day with smooth & enjoyable transformations…

Are you living far less of a life than you are capable of because? Perhaps not even being aware that you are?

Saturdays Manifesting Excellence call was about “Authenticity, Self-Esteem & Self Value” as well as answering questions that had been submitted.

We often become conditioned to our mental patterns and how we see ourselves.

For example when we grow up in a family situation where we may consistently be served last or a school situation where we are treated as not intelligent or capable or if we have been in an unhealthy relationship, we can inadvertently take on notions that we are not deserving of being happy or having what we want.

This can become very ingrained within us and we have no awareness of it because we are too busy living from those paradigms to even realise them.

Self-esteem and self-value can impact:
    – Your income
    – Your relationships and friendships
    – Your health
    – Your manifesting abilities and what you allow in your life – ie your quality of living

We also talked about authenticity on the call.  It is about alignment in what you say and what you do, as well as in relation to the energetic aspect of who you are.

When this is NOT in alignment we experience emotional pain and lives where what we want doesn’t happen.

If you’d like to know more about this click here to register for Manifesting Excellence and access the above call.

I was on Estra Roell and Kathleen Martin’s Coach Cafe radio show yesterday where we talked about a variety of topics including how we often manifest ‘incorrectly’ in trying to attract the things we are wanting, living from our purpose, how to follow our ‘essence’, whether to take physical actions or follow our inspiration or both – and how to do this, relationships, money, and a lot more.

Click here to Access/Download the Radio Interview

On last weekend’s Manifesting Excellence call there were questions submitted by someone looking to attract a job which included dealing with fears and challenges she was working through.  One of the dilemmas she was having was an internal conflict in believing that if she had a job with job satisfaction, she wouldn’t have money, and vice versa.

How would you deal with this conflict?

Can you think of others?
How about:
– Can I have a successful career AND a successful marriage/relationship?
– Can I have independence AND a fantastic and amazing relationship?
– Can I have someone that I am deeply attracted to AND who is good for me?

And so on…

This was towards the end of the call and if you’d like to access it via Manifesting Excellence you can do so by clicking here.

When you have an internal conflict between two (or more) things, you are creating a dichotomy – a split – in how you see things about what is possible and what isn’t.  That split creates boundaries between the two things that you want.

This could be obvious such as some of the statements above or quite subtle such as “Shall I do x or y today?”

When you decide to do something, do it.  Don’t split your energy over it.  


When you split your energy over something you are diluting your resources in the manifestation and the inspiration to it.

The skill is to bring those two outcomes/goals/realities together and integrate them into one, i.e. –

– A life with a successful career AND a successful marriage/relationship
– The feeling of self (within which is ‘independence’) AND a fantastic and amazing relationship
– Someone that you are deeply attracted to AND someone who is good for you

When you start to SEE something, you start to make it happen.

When you see a split in what is possible, or see it as impossible, it’s harder to create it, unless you happen to take your attention off the conflict (/resistance) and allow in what you want.

If you’d like to get access to the Manifesting Excellence call that covered this and much more click here.

As you may know from my post last week, I was at the Professional Beauty Show in London yesterday (Sunday) where I was meeting many of you and signing copies of my book.

Below is a video of someone who didn’t know me a week ago, yet within 5 days of her coming across some material of mine, she is having all sorts of manifestations and synchronicities in her life, including in terms of attracting clients, sales and revenue.  I thought you would enjoy her inspiration, as well as what is possible for YOU.

(If you are reading this anywhere other than on the blog,

click here to go to the blog post with the video)

I have always said that things can happen very quickly in your life.  It is about changing the energy.  It takes a simple step, and then another and you build a momentum.  What happens for many people is they are not always aware of how to make those steps.

There is an infinite and abundant energetic momentum that is ready to be on your side in you lining up to it.  The Universe has already created your manifestations, it’s just waiting for you on a physical level to line up so you can experience them on a physical level.

Click here to to Download a Free Sample of “Find You, And You Find Everything: The Secrets to the Law of Attraction”

Firstly, Happy Valentine’s Day!

At the weekend I received an email from a former client of mine, Tiffany Kay.  Last year, we worked on various areas of her life, including relationships.  I knew the dynamics that were in play and offered specific advice and processes (as well as those that she would create for herself too) that she could use which we would interact about in our sessions. 

You see, I know what happened…Tiffany is getting married this year!  So I thought you might like to know about her story.  And so I asked Tiffany to write it in her words and I would tweak it and share it with you here…

Tiffany:

RELATIONSHIPS HAD ALWAYS BEEN A CHALLENGE FOR ME
 

“Relationships had always been a challenging area for me. I know that I always had high expectations that the “right” relationship could be deeply inspiring, fulfilling and supportive, I just wasn’t able to manifest the quality of experience I was looking for. 

I discovered the Law of Attraction through the work of Gill Edwards, which led me to study the teachings of Abraham. Although this was enlightening and changed my whole perspective on life, I couldn’t seem to apply it in practice.  There still seemed to be something missing, I just didn’t know what “it” was until I connected with Hemal Radia via Facebook. I was regularly inspired by Hemal’s posts and particularly how he helped to clarify the Law of Attraction principles an in easy (and often effortless) way.

CONNECTING WITH HEMAL

This led me to contact Hemal about his one-to-one service and we worked together for a number of months to help me to apply the principles of creation and manifestation to my life. I found Hemal’s insights to be incredibly beneficial. I could take a particular experience and work through it with Hemal’s guidance to really understand how the mechanics of the Law of Attraction meant that I was not lining myself up with what I wanted.

One of the most significant revelations for me was the realisation that what was missing from my relationships was me. I came to understand that I was not creating the relationship I wanted, I was creating the version of me that would be living the inspired relationship. That’s why Hemal’s book “Find You, And You Find Everything” is so aptly titled.

For the next few months, I focused all of my energy on developing the type of inner relationship that would allow the external partnership to manifest. I treated myself with the love, kindness and respect that I would want with a partner. My Saturday nights became my own “date night”.  I would stay in and treat myself to a DVD or a hot candlelit bath or something else that felt indulgent. After years of dreading Saturday nights, they became the most special time of the week for me.

WANTING TO MEET MY SOULMATE

On my birthday in June last year, after another near miss relationship had painfully and abruptly ended, I made a decision that I would no longer settle for anything but my soulmate and I set an intention that I was going to meet him over the next twelve months, before my 40th birthday.

I enlisted the support of my best friends as external monitors and gave them permission to challenge me if they felt that I was doing anything to distract myself or that wasn’t in my highest and best interests and aligned with meeting “The One”. 

I wrote out a “spec” describing in detail what my future husband would be like. I have a beautiful box that my friend gave me called “My magical creation box” and I put my wish list in there.

Pretty soon, I started to notice changes in my life. I would see couples out for a walk and holding hands and kissing and my heart would leap with joy.  I went to bed at night and would dream of my future husband. I reached the point when the anticipation of my lover-to-be felt as real and exciting as if he had actually shown up!

MEETING SOMEONE

As part of my intention-setting and following a suggestion from my best friend, I signed up to an online dating service.  For me at that time, it was purely part of putting the intention out there. I wasn’t “expecting” an instant result, but I was to get to be pleasantly surprised.

On the first day of my membership, I got an ice-breaker email from a guy on the site.  We exchanged emails and he seemed great.

Due to logistics and childcare, it took us about 6 weeks to get together and meet up. I liked him immediately but I found myself holding back and not wanting to “rush into things”.

On our third date something really bizarre happened. I was sitting opposite him having a drink and this voice behind me, clear as day, said “You really like him, more than you think”. I turned round to see who had said it and as you can probably guess, there was no one there! It was my inner guidance speaking to me.

When I reflected on what was holding me back, I realised I didn’t want to give up my special Saturday nights. I found that hilarious. Now I had actually “man-ifested” what I wanted, I hadn’t updated my model of how much fun shared Saturday nights could be.

MARRIAGE…

Things progressed really quickly after that and within a couple of weeks we were discussing moving in together. When you find someone who is completely easy to be with and totally compatible, you just know that it is right and it just seems like the inevitable next step. Our conversation moved quickly onto marriage, we got engaged just a few weeks later. Tim and I are now planning our wedding for 26 August.

As I reflect on the path to my inspired relationship, I really do understand that the real journey was developing my strong inner relationship that allowed me to create what I wanted on the outside.”

Do let us know your thoughts in the comments below!

In her new book, Tiffany shares the secrets that she learnt along the way, not just from her own experiences but with her clients too.  She has recently entered this book into the International Next Top Self-Help Author competition. You can find out more about the book and vote for her in the competition at “Love to the Max ~ Creating Inspired Relationships That Last”.  Every voter will receive relationship resource goodies worth nearly £100, as well as every vote counting and helping her progress to the next round.
 

Hemal specialises in bringing out the best in his clients and getting them to the results they are wanting. To find out more about working with him and to book, go to Work One-to-One with Hemal.  

For those of you who haven’t downloaded the audio of the recent “Making 2010 Great For YOU!” teleseminar, you can do so here!  This event was very popular and HUGELY appreciated, as you will see.  There is content at the start about making this a great year for you, followed by insights to questions submitted.

It was scheduled for an hour and ended up being two hours because there were so many questions and interactions on it!  There is a lot of information here and great answers to some great questions.  And it’s a FREE audio to download. 

To download it:

— Georgina Laros, South Africa

— Judy Green, USA

 

There were countless questions answered, some included:

– How do I manifest loads of money when I have never experienced it before?  How do I stop feeling discouraged when I compare myself to others successes in manifesting?

– As a result of some things that have happened, I doubt I will ever be as successful and get as much money now.  I fear I will become lonely, lose my friends, and that they are judging me. That they have views about me that I won’t like.  Is there something that can be done?

— Olga, Lugansk, Ukraine

— Karla M. Nashar, Indonesia

Related posts:
September 2009 “No limits to the Universe” wallpaper
October 2009 “Abundance” wallpaper

For November 2009 we have a “Love: Soul to Soul” inspirational wallpaper calendar with my quote:

This wallpaper was created in collaboration with good friends; Jessie Smith from Storykraft Kreative and I worked on the design and the original photo was from Fawny Frost.

To download it, right click on the appropriate link below and “Save Target/Link As” and save it to your computer.

You can download this image in various sizes depending on the resolution of your computer:

You are very welcome to share this post with your friends.

And do feel free to leave us a comment below and let us know what you think 🙂

Here is a video which Emma Turner of 7thSpace surprised me with earlier.  It has scenic pictures with beautiful music and gives suggestions on questions for tomorrow’s teleseminar.

If you are reading this in an email then CLICK HERE to go to this post on the blog and view the video.

If you would like to view it on YouTube you can do so by CLICKING HERE

I got inspired to write this from an interaction I had with a client this morning.  This is what I wrote in a status message on Facebook about it earlier:

“About a month ago a client said that she wanted to lose weight but it felt like a bit of a chore and ‘hard work’. She was also looking to be in a relationship. In the last couple of weeks she has found a partner she is *very* attracted to (at the time she couldn’t believe it happened)…who is a gym instructor and she is spending more time at the gym (EVERY DAY last week lol) than ever. Interesting how things happen isn’t it 🙂

Let go of the how, focus on the essences of what you want, let the Universe orchestrate the details, which will be a match to your overall vibration.”

(Relationships is one of the areas we had worked on in helping her get alignment)

ALLOW YOURSELF TO THINK OF THE POSSIBILITIES

When we think of something not happening or not being possible, what do we do?  We tend not to think of it happening or it not turning out how we want to because of our beliefs about it (our beliefs act like switches as to whether we consider the notion of something happening or not), or we have a fear about the situation. 

How about allowing yourself to daydream about how nice it would be if it was to happen instead?  You don’t have to say it ‘will‘ happen (because that can be uncomfortable for some people because they do not fully believe it at the time), but ALLOW YOURSELF TO CONSIDER THE POSSIBILITY.  Just allow yourself to think of it and feel from it and daydream, just CONSIDER THE POSSIBILITY.  As you do that, it will get stronger and stronger.

Allow yourself to feel the sensations of how it would be, without putting pressure on yourself for it to ‘have to’ happen.  By you experiencing these sensations without doubting or ‘thinking’ – i.e. without contradicting, these feelings will grow and build and you will start to see clues of it happening.

What happens for most people is because they do not believe that what they want can happen they disregard the possibility right away and short circuit their flow so to speak, so they don’t even give themselves a chance.   It’s about being gentle and kind with yourself.  Allow yourself to entertain the possibility of what you would like just for the thought of it, just for the fun of it.  That takes away the pressure of it ‘having to’ happen, and you are doing this for fun.

And as you do that your thoughts about it will build and grow and get stronger.  As this happens you will start to get ideas and physical manifestations.  These will act as a reflection of your building consciousness about this and you will also feel more and more certain about it – which means your expectation and belief will grow and your pull for what you want will be even greater and greater.

“When you tune into the possibilites this
Universe can provide you, you will think of yourself as crazy for all that
you were holding back from yourself.”

The thing most people do is they let their doubts and fears come in and short circuit their natural and infinite and abundant universal flow.  There is no limit to the universal energy the Universe is sending you in every moment – and it is all around you – it’s about you letting it in and allowing it. 

Some thoughts you can consider:
– If my life could turn out wonderfully, how would it be?
– If things went right, what would it be like?
– What if things DO work out for me, how would it be?

Let
go of the ‘how’ and the ‘thinking it’ too much.  What we are talking about
is you FEELING from what you want.  We are talking about vibration and
manifestation, not actions or plans or linear and logical
possibilities (there is a place in life for them too, but here we are talking about lining up your energy).

“You
cannot fathom the possibilities for you from what you have been used
to.  Can
you imagine what it would be like if every resource in this Universe –
because you and it are not separate – was responding to
your aligned vibration to bring you what you wanted?”

IT’S ABOUT LINING UP YOUR ENERGY

What many do is they expect themselves to rationally and logically know HOW they will get what they want.  That is what we have been taught as we have grown up.  We’ve been taught to have a plan and a structure and have actions listed out.  Many people even teach the Law of Attraction with this.  That is all very well, I would encourage people to use a vibrational aspect with this.

We are in a Universe that is not just physically full of logic and actions, but also non-physical and spiritual and there is far more that is unseen and we feel from the heart than what we can physically see.  There are dormant capabilities within you and around you.

Do you remember a time when things just ‘clicked’?  When they just fell into place and you weren’t ‘thinking’ too much and just ‘being’?  And you weren’t evaluating, you were experiencing, and things were just taking care of themselves.  THAT’S an example of when you had your energy aligned.  You may not have been aware of how you did it consciously, but you were in a place where you were in the moment and things were happening.

I work with clients with different aspects and often it is about identifying what feels best to them and taking
their attention off the things that do not matter.  Understandably
people have habits of thought they have built up over years and it
is just about practicing a new way.  Just like the client mentioned
above, people can start to see things around themselves in their lives
change.  But you do it for how you feel, the manifestations are natural
consequences.

I hear pretty much everyday from people who have read something I have written or a teleseminar they have heard or in working with me and it has inspired them to think of something differently (and it is a pleasure and an honour to be on the receiving end of it!) and that has brought into their life all sorts of things.  I am hearing these stories everyday and throughout the day and this is happening around you and you will see more and more of it.  There’s only expansion and growth, you – nor anyone else – do not grow smaller.  You will experience more and more of these things.

Regarding the above interaction, it was with a Law of Attraction coach who is very successful at what she does.  From my perspective I just happened to suggest some tweaks and it has changed how she sees things and what has come into her life.

If you’d like to know more about working one-to-one with me you can do so here: Working One-to-One with Hemal.