Detaching From an Outcome and Following Your Joy

 

> I am not sure that I am understanding something, on one hand we are told to detatch from any outcome and on the other hand am hearing that we should be emotionaly invested in the joy of the outcome so that it will manifest. I feel that I am eather missing or missunderstanding something important. Any light you can shed will be most appreciated. Again, Thank You and Bright Blessings.

It may seem contradictory, but they are actually the same thing.  The way I would suggest to people to 'detach ' from an outcome is to let go of the attachment or need to itHave your perspective such that it feels good.  So the emotions that you 'invest' towards it, if any, are light, and enjoyable.

Let go of the details, let go of any attachment or need to aspects of itTrust that by you focusing on the essences of what is important to you, the details will take care of themselves.  When you do this, what you will be doing is taking away any 'heaviness' and resistance towards it, and what you will be left with is the joy that you are talking about in emotionally investing in it.

 

Making Money Doing What You Love, with Law of Attraction

> I am in a Law of Attraction Master Mind group and we are discussing the money aspect of our chosen path. We have been challenged to contact someone whom we admire that is doing what we wish to do and ask them a question. I have chosen you and the question is: What would you say about creating an income from someone's passion? If you feel that this something you can share with me I will be so grateful.
I thank you for your time and wish you bright blessings, Chessie, creator of "Evolution lf Self; Journey into Body, Mind, Spirit Balance"

If someone follows their true joy, that joy in itself has a very attractive vibration.  It will bring people to it that are a match to it.

What prevents many people from creating an income from what they love are their beliefs about it. 

Consider the following questions:

– Do I believe it is possible to make money from this?
– Do I believe that *I* can make money from this?

– As I think about doing this thing that I love, how do I feel?  Do I feel a conflict in relation to something else in my life, such as with creating money, or with something else?

– What other thoughts come up for me about this thing that I want to do?

It may not necessarily be that you always have to have positive answers to the above questions, it can even be that you just ALLOW the possibility of it (i.e. not block it).

If everything is energy in this Universe, then the possibility exists in everything.  The only thing that stops you is your vibration – which is composed of your beliefs about it.  Oftentimes, many of these beliefs are from past programming, maybe thoughts about 'traditional' ways of making an income etc. 

Regarding this last point about 'traditional' ways of making an income, some people, who are looking to start their own business, have been very used to making an income through a 'regular' job and when it comes to them starting their own business and following something they love, they may have beliefs about it not being right to do something that they love, that work and money are not meant to be enjoyable, etc.  These are all beliefs.  And beliefs can quickly be changed.

On the other hand, you can have beliefs that it is fun to make money, it is fun to do what you love – in fact that it's the best way.  That by you enjoying what you do, you are offering something so much more, and the money naturally comes from that also.  If you were giving someone so much joy and pleasure through the vibration of joy that you share, as you think about it, people would find it impossible not to give you money for it.

Some people believe they are not worthy to do what they love and make money from it.

In the joy of what you feel for what you are doing, the worthiness is inherent in that.  The value and the 'worthiness' is in the joy.  The vibration is the most important aspect that you can transfer on.  If you have that, then you are 'worthy'.  I wrote a blog post a couple of years ago about "It's not about the Actions but about the Energy behind those Actions."

In you questioning your worthiness, you are diluting the value that you offer.  Allow yourself to think of yourself in the grandest of ways and with the greatest contribution possible.  Activate the most powerful vibration within yourself.  Do it in the most loving of ways and in ways you resonate with, relative to your beliefs.  Allow your beliefs to expand and grow and for you to (vibrationally) 'grow' to this possibility for yourself.

In light of the above, as you think about it now, how unnatural would it be to NOT make money following your love… 😉

 

49 Thoughts on Law of Attraction and Money (and Anything else!)

 

From the following, take what you enjoy and what resonates for you at this moment.  At another time, something else may resonate more with you or make more sense to you at that moment ; )

 

1 – You thought this would be about money, didn’t you?  Well, it is, and a whole lot more.  You attracting money, or anything else, isn’t just about what you are intending to attract, but about you and your flow, which is much more than just that ‘thing’.  When you are in that place, you attract money, and all sorts of other things.

We are talking about money, but abundance and your flow are really what it is about.  Money is a part of that.

2 – Money is a by-product of your energy about the subject.  We can very easily focus on the financial condition and not realise the cause – that it is an energetic cause.

3 – There is no limit to what can flow into your life, other than your beliefs.

4 – You can focus on abundance or lack, the Universe will magnify either.

5 – Money (or anything else) is a manifestation of your consciousness.  It is a non-physical Universe, and it is also a physical world that you live in.  What is around you is an energetic match to your thoughts and emotions.

6 – One of the key reasons people do not attract the wealth they would like is their attention to lack or on what they do not have or on what will happen because they do not have enough.  Or they have associations to money which are negative and repell it.

7 – Take your attention away from the lack of it.  Make a list of the thoughts you have on a daily basis which focus on the lack of money and work on letting them go. (More tips on this below)

8 – You may say “Well, the reality is I DON’T have enough, what am I supposed to do?”

Focus on aspects of money that feel good (or better, or less worse – something which is an improvement). Turn your attention away from ‘reality’.  Deal with what you need to in the real and action world, but don’t dwell on the lack of it.  Turn your attention towards what feels good about it. Whether something in the present moment, something you can fantasise in the future, or even a past memory.  They key is the emotion you create in your now about it.  You are attracting more that is a match to it.

9 – It’s not just the thoughts about something, but the emotion/vibration behind it.  That’s KEY.

10 – The feelings you have about something are from the combination of your beliefs about that subject.

Notice how all these thoughts FEEL. Do they uplift you and flow your natural spirit through you?  Or are there implications around fear and lack?

 

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11- All it takes is to find a pure thought – a thought that is of what you want, and build on it.  This is what Law of Attraction is, on a very simple level.

Find a thought that feels good.  Do not doubt it or contradict it.  Focus on the enjoyment of it, and allow it to build and build.  Most people do not get through a sentence without saying why they can’t have it or contradicting what they want.  Keep your focus on positive statements and build those statements.  Add more and more.  Build the vibration of what you want.  The excitement will build and you will see manifestations.

12 – There is no conflict between money, or whatever else, and anything else in this Universe, other than your beliefs about it.

Just like anything and everything else in this Universe, money and abundance is as beautiful as you want to see it.  It’s to do with the eyes you see it from, not what it is.  Allow yourself to be fine about it.  You don’t have to share it with others, especially if they have different views, but allow yourself to be fine about it.

Conflicts are “I can EITHER have this OR that”.  Make it about “As I have this, I have that TOO”, or “In me having this, I get to have so much more of everything else too”.  Money, like anything else, is a tool to your expansion.  You can choose whichever tools you’d like in your life.

13 – Money, like anything else, does not make someone good or bad. It magnifies who they are. It is an enabler, a magnifier.

14 – You may feel that money is not consistent with service or spiritual development.  Remember, despite it being intelligence, the Universe is energy and offers no judgement – you do through your beliefs.  Money, literally, is as ‘spiritual’ as anything else is.  It is all the same.  You carve the Universe into distinctions through your beliefs.

If you believe that service or spiritual development and money are incompatible, then they will be for you.  If you believe that you can thrive with them and money, you will thrive.

15 – There is nothing wrong with money or anything else.  Your associations – your thoughts, especially your instinctive thoughts about it, are what influences how it is for you.

16 – You may be visualising or affirming more money, but how do you FEEL?  It’s not about the thoughts, but more so about the EMOTIONS you experience.

Notice the frequency/vibration you have about money by your emotions about it.  You attract things within that vicinity.  Whether things of a financial nature, or other things.

17 – When many others teach Law of Attraction, they may often hype it with promises of monetary gain and other material delights.  That’s absolutely fine.  I just want you to know it’s about that, and anything else you want it to be.

Law of Attraction is a universal law, it applies to EVERYTHING, and everywhere.  You can attract whatever you want. 

18 – It is not necessarily about believing you can attract money, it is about not resisting your flow of money.  Energy, like a stream of water, flows, other than when it is blocked or misdirected.

If you can enjoy money (thus offering the vibration of it), and not doubt or fear it or anything else, you are on your way.  Allow yourself to attract more thoughts that match that.

It is actually easier to focus on abundance because the Universe is pure positive energy, that is your natural birthright, and that is where your natural flow is.  It’s just that along the way you learned habits, behaviours and attitudes that prevented you from knowing who you are (the infinite vibrational pure positive being that you are that knows no limits, is connected to everything, and is full of and knows their possibilities).

19 – You have a relationship with everything in this Universe, that includes money, and everything else.

What happens in your relationship with that ‘thing’ is down to how YOU relate to it.  It is a process you are doing in every moment.

When you are out of your flow in a relationship with a lover, they will sense it and it will feel uncomfortable for them.  When you are not feeling very good, it will be picked up by your presence, not necessarily on a seen level, but an unseen level more-so.  When you are joyous and feeling good, this will be attractive and will be felt on an unseen level.  People and situations will be drawn to you.

Now, notice the relationship you have with money and how it feels.  If you were money, would you want to deepen the relationship with you?  Everything in the Universe is vibrating and has an intelligence.  Would money want to seek you?

20 – Play games and imagine having more and more.  You are an expansive, vibrational being.  Allow yourself to daydream, imagine, visualise, and whatever other ways you have of seeing yourself with more.  Pretend that you have greater and greater means if that enables you to imagine more.

Expand the vibrational range you allow yourself to experience.  If you are used to focusing on ‘paying your bills’ and ‘getting by’, allow yourself, if it feels fun, to imagine what it would be like with immeasurable wealth.  How would it be?  What would you do?  Where would you go?  What would you do for the ones you love?

Expand your consciousness around money.  Imagine more flowing in.  Where your attention and energy goes, the Universe goes.  Open up your ‘pores’ and allow it.

 

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21-If time and money weren’t a factor, how would your life be?

Create the thought space for what is to come into your life.

22 – Consider the thoughts and emotions you have (such as about money, or anything else) in your day.

Many people visualise or do other processes but their money situation doesn’t change.  Oftentimes, they are building a vibration when they do their processes, but they then contradict it with worries and fears during the day with their daily observations.  Hence, not a lot changes.  And in some cases they then doubt that Law of Attraction works.  It’s not the Universe that’s at fault, it’s the signal you’re giving it : )

23 – How do you feel when you feel you do not have enough money?

– Lower self-esteem?
– Feeling down
– Feeling restricted?
– Disappointment?

Notice the emotional habits you are having on a daily basis, whether about money or anything else.  Work on raising your ‘set-point’, so to speak.  As you raise your vibration, what you experience in your life also changes.

24 – When you think about money, how does it feel?  Is there a natural upliftment?  or does it feel like something which is hard work or not possible?  Allow yourself to feel good about the subject of money.  Allow yourself to feel good in general.

If you can’t at the moment feel good about money, feel good about something else and don’t think about money, whilst it doesn’t feel good. In feeling good about something else, you are allowing yourself to build that vibration.  Money and abundance can come to you via another avenue, another path of least resistance, if money directly is something you are not lined up with.

(Focus on what feels good and find your flow.  That is better than working on something that is very difficult.)

25 – Initially, because of what they are going through, people may not find it easy to feel good about themselves and money.  So, find pictures in brochures, online etc,and feel good about money as a subject, period.  Then, once that feels good, you can start to imagine it and feel good about it in your life.

Let go of the ‘how’ and other details.  Focus on the enjoyment.  The Universe hears your vibration, it doesn’t need to know from your tiny finite conscious mind how you think it should do, it has unlimited, infinite resources that create worlds, and that synchronise nature and planets.  It doesn’t need to know the ‘how’ from you.

26 – When you value yourself enough to be in your flow, allow the Universe to value you and do the same…

27 – The Universe is totally abundant.  It is pure potential waiting for you to impress upon it with your intention and alignment.  It WANTS you to do that, for in the process, it, and you, both expand and grow…

If there ever was a case there wasn’t ‘enough’ (which would never be the case, there is always more than enough), the Universe would expand and create more.  You have no worry of any shortage.  The Universe is an infinite, abundant, unlimited intelligent being.

28 – Usually, people focus on money because they do not have enough of it – the lack of it, usually, but not always.  The ones who have it, will tend to focus on other things such as their joy, passion, love, and money comes as a natural consequence.  The ones who do not have it feel often feel they cannot afford to do that.

29 – How to identify the beliefs you have around money?  I will cover other techniques at the Law of Attraction in Las Vegas event, but one way is take a page and write “Money is…”  and write and write.  Don’t think, just write.

See what you have written on the page.  Notice how it feels.  Now, if you were money, would you be attracted to you?

30 – No matter how bad things are (if they are), they can turn around. All the possibilities available to you aren’t visible.  They become visible by your attention to them.  You have to see them as possible before they appear.

 

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31 – It’s actually not just about money, it’s about you being in your flow.  Money is just a consequence or symptom of you being in tune with your flow.  The quickest, easiest way to your flow is finding things that you enjoy.  As you focus on those, and you feel better and better, you are more in harmony with the Universe and what you want.

32 – To be abundant, offer an abundant vibration.

There are various differences and consequences of you living from an abundant vibration versus a scarcity vibration.  This will be covered in detail at the Law of Attraction in Las Vegas event, but they affect the way you look at your world, the choices you make, how they affect you when they make decisions, and so on.

At the Vegas event I will cover these differences, how to be aware of them within yourself, and how to soften things so you live from a place of choice, than ‘need’ or ‘necessity’.  You will also be aware of the linguistic ‘markers’ – in the words or phrases – that you or others use to notice them.

33 – Abundance and scarcity are frequencies.  It is your choice which you want to tune into.  You can focus on shortage and on what there isn’t and on what is so terrible in the world, or you can focus on possibilities, use your imagination, and what is plentiful. Neither is right or wrong, they are both choices.  You have total freewill what you focus upon.  The Universe will deliver to you more of what you are vibrating.

34 – It doesn’t matter what background, education or qualifications or geographically where you are.  This whole Universe is a vibrational Universe.  You change your vibration and either your environment changes to reflect that, or you are naturally drawn to an environment that resonates with you, depending on your path of least resistance.

35 – You may feel that there are situations and conditions in your life that prevent you from having money.  Let go of your beliefs about how money can come to you.

The Universe can only bring you money based on how you believe it can come to you.  Put your vibration on you having the money and let the Universe figure out the ‘how’.  Let go of your beliefs about it.

Money can come to you in as many ways as you allow it to come to you.  If you believe it must be a certain way, it can then only come to you that certain way.

36 – Remember, the Universe is energy and everything is vibration.  The form is malleable based on your thoughts and beliefs.  You are moulding and shaping the Universe, and your experiences within it, by your thoughts, emotions and beliefs.

37 – If you believe you have a genetic disease called ‘poverty’, it is time to get that belief out of your system.  It is time to inject prosperity into your system by your attention to it.
It is not a genetic disease, it is an attention disease.

38 – You may be born in a certain place, amongst certain people, be living amongst certain people or have certain conditions that you believe are not conducive to you having abundance.  Realise your story has a happy ending, and that was all part of the journey. 

It’s not the conditions or the environment that will determine what happens, it’s what you focus upon.  Start to play the story in your mind of the happy ending, despite the conditions you came from. 

Withdraw your focus, internally, than to the conditions and environment on the external.  Soon enough, you will get confirmation from your environment and the manifestations will start.  First as a trickle, but as you allow, they will get quicker and bigger.  They will then tell the story about you and how you ‘made it’, DESPITE the conditions.

39 – It doesn’t matter what anyone says about you and money,  you have your own connection to everything in the Universe.  You can allow yourself to be influenced and affected by others, but no one controls your flow other than you.

40 – When you assume that something outside of you needs to change for you to attract what you want, you tend not to look within as much and to your own powers of divinity.

 

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41- When you feel scared and out of your flow, realise the signals are strongest and ‘loudest’ as to what to do. If everything is darkness, the light is even easier to see.

42 – When you have the abundance and money that you would like, what would it be like?  Are you practising this more than your fears and attention on what you do not have?

How do you see yourself in your mind’s eye?

43 – When you think of you and prosperity, what’s the first thought that comes to your mind?  That can be a clue as to how you see yourself (in relation to prosperity), too.

44 – You will attract whatever your dominant attention is on something. If it on the side of prosperity and abundance, that will build and grow.  If it’s on the side of lack, that’s what you will experience.  The way you know is how you feel.  Is it feeling worse?  Or better?

45 – What is the worst that can happen?  What are your greatest fears?  Make peace with this.

By pushing against it and fearing/not wanting it, it has a ‘charge’.  Make peace with it, whether in terms of things you can do, or how you feel about it, so you let go of the emotions and the ‘charge’ around it.

If you are bullet proof emotionally, if you do not fear (And that is down to your perspective.  We will be going into it in detail at the Law of Attraction in Las Vegas event) something, or have let go of the negative emotions around it, you are creating space around you, vibrationally and physically, for it to come into your life.  At the least you are not keeping your attention on what you don’t want.  That energy you release, creates space for new things.  It also feels better and is kinder on you and your body.

46 – Don’t worry about the past or look back with regret.  Remember you have a fresh platform in your now and the Universe is listening to your vibration right now.

47 – Did we say it’s not just about the money.  In fact, these thoughts apply anywhere and everywhere in your life : )

48 – Allow time and space for you and move towards enjoying your life.  As you raise your vibration, all areas of your life can prosper.

49 – Join Manifesting Excellence!

 

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Remember, Vegas Hotel room rate is at HALF price until end of August

REMEMBER, THE DISCOUNTED VEGAS HOTEL ROOM RATE, WHICH IS AT ALMOST HALF PRICE, IS UNTIL THE END OF AUGUST

I just wanted to remind you that if you are wanting to attend the Law of Attraction in Las Vegas event next month (September 25th & 26th) that the discounted $99 rate (excl tax) that we have negotiated with the hotel for a studio suite at the Trump International is until August 31st.  This is almost HALF their regular rate of $179 (excl tax).

It would be great to meet you there if you can make it!  My intention is it will be a VERY special event with a lot of life changing, transformational, exhilirating, and fun, content.

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Bring Your Intentions, Expect them to Progress


You may come with goals and outcomes that you would like to be working on in your life
.  As well as me covering content, there will be interaction also. 

No Coincidence in You Being There

There will be no coincidence of the people attending and the questions asked, the answers and content you receive, and the connections you make.  It will be beautifully orchestrated for you to receive the answers you are looking for to take you towards where you want to be heading.

 

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Answers for You on Many Levels

This Law of Attraction in Las Vegas event will give you many answers, on many levels, for themes in your life, and where you want to be heading.  The answers and content will be ‘multi-layered’ in that they will speak to you on many levels, and you will take information and ideas in the best ways that fit for you.

Finding ‘You’

You will also find a better connection with yourself on many levels.  When I work with clients, this happens right away and their perspectives change on everything, which in turn leads to them being more aligned to the scenarios that they want.  This harmony is always there, I enable you to more easily find ‘You’.

Connecting with Others before and during the Event

Whilst people have been booking onto the event, my intention is to create a way where attendees can connect before the event if they would like to.  Most likely, this will be a private Facebook Group for attendees.  We are also working on arranging optional buffet dinners on the evenings of the event so attendees can spend more time with each other and with me.

I know many of you that have booked, and know that there will be wonderful connections amongst you, as well as what you get from the event itself.  There are ‘light workers’, intuits, practitioners, coaches, and more, amongst those attending.

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Do remember, the $99 deal from the Trump International hotel is until the end of August

For more information and to book, go to Law of Attraction in Las Vegas

Dealing with the End of a Marriage or Relationship (or Anything!)

 

When we have decided we will spend the rest of our lives with someone (or it feels that way), and it doesn’t quite work out that way, we have to deal with the emotions about that, the dynamics of the relationship, as well as all the other emotions in play. It can be a time of upheaval.  Remember what it was always about: you went into a marriage/relationship for happiness, love and joy.  Let that be the light for you to head towards – these emotions, even if at the time they might appear in the distance.  Remember also that perspectives and circumstances change very quickly in your changing attention – ‘things’ and solutions appear where they weren’t appearing previously.

 

The marriage or relationship was meant to be a reflection of these emotions for you, not a replacement.

Avoid getting pulled into the dramas. They take you away from your true self and your true authenticity. You went into a relationship for two wholes to create something special together. It is still about something special (it always is) – You. And despite there being another, you could only have something special together, from your own specialness individually; that has not changed anyway.

 

When a relationship (or anything) ends it seems like the end of something. Consider that the ending of the relationship (or anything) was actually part of the process of something new beginning.

The relationship served it’s purpose and all possibilities are open to you in your now, as they always have been. They are open to you from your true self and your true authenticity.  Not from games, smoke and mirrors, and distortions.  All those things hide the real you. And if you feel the need to be scared and not yourself, what is it that you are (vibrationally) communicating to the rest of the Universe?

 

Realise your power is within you, not on what happens outside of you (which is a reflection), and in your now.  And despite what has happened with this other person, you are no less adored and loved.

 

The Universe totally adores you unconditionally, it always has, other than the doubts and conditions you filter that love and ‘energy’ through. 

 

Remember to look for the indicators in your experience of how you are blessed and what you DO have, than what you don’t.  Sometimes we can look at something that has ended or is ending and feel regret and sadness, especially if we are not wanting it to end.  It may seem like a loss of your whole world.

 

Realise that this relationship was something that you made your world, it was something that you expanded to make your world, by your attention to it.  When something then turns not so pretty, it can be uncomfortable.  Withdraw your attention from it, and balance it with the rest of your world that has always existed, that you had selectively filtered out whilst you focused on the relationship.  You are just shifting your perspective from this person or situation to be in balance with everything else.  Previously, when things were good, because they were good, you chose to shift the balance and make it your predominant focus.  Now, as you move on for now, you are shifting the balance, and creating space for other things in your life.  And of course, the Universe responds in kind with new energy.

 

There is an abundant and infinite stream of what can come into our lives.  When we hold onto things due to our emotional attachments, we are not allowing the space and freedom and possibilities of what else may come into our lives.  We can use fear to hold onto things, or trust and faith to allow this energetic stream.  It’s not really about the relationship with the other person, but the relationship with ourselves and our own divinity.

 

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Reminder that Early Booking Discount for Vegas event is until this Friday

Some of you have booked and I know some of you are yet to book onto the Law of Attraction in Las Vegas event.  I just wanted to remind you that the early bird booking discount ends this coming Friday, 21st May.

For more information and to book go to http://www.LOAinVegas.com.

Yesterday, we received some photos of the event room from the hotel where the seminar will be held, the Trump International, and I thought I’d share them with you.  We have also been going over the courtesy meals for attendees of the event.

Also do remember that we have negotiated a deal with the hotel for attendees of this seminar to have studio suites at $99 (excl taxes) and have a view of the Vegas Strip.  These are subject to availability and on a first come first served basis.

If you have any questions about the event, feel free to contact Stephanie Swann-Stringham at Steph@LOAinVegas.com or myself at Hemal@LOAinVegas.com.

If you’d like to know more about the content of the event, more information about it, or to book onto it, you can do so at http://www.LOAinVegas.com.

Enjoy the pics!

View from the hotel room

The view from the seminar room

Entrance pic 

The entrance to the seminar room

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A studio suite with a view of the Vegas Strip

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Skyline at night

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Honoured to be Amongst “The Masters”

Recently I was honoured to be asked by Quantum Attraction website if they could include me on their page of “The Masters”.  Also on the page are Esther Hicks/Abraham, Deepak Chopra, Wayne Dyer amongst various others.

 

(You can access the page by clicking the pic below, or by clicking here)

 

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“How to Make Affirmations, Goals, Mantras, and much more, work for you”

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I received a question about how to make affirmations, goals and mantras work “better”, which stimulated me to write a bit on this subject.  The answer goes beyond the scope of what was asked in the question.

From my other articles or teleseminars, you’ll know my emphasis of focusing on the feeling of what you are doing (and wanting); that is the indicator of your vibration about it – and being a vibrational match to what you want is how you let it into your life.  If you are not connecting with your feelings, you’re not evoking your spirit, which is what we’re here to do after all, aren’t we? 🙂

What many people are not aware of when they use goals, affirmations, mantras, visualisation, or anything else, is that it is not about what you use, but it is ALWAYS about your vibration.  When you are looking to make Law of Attraction work for you, it is about you and your vibration.  What will work for you best will be that which raises your vibration the best, in that moment.  There are times you use a fork, there are times you use a spoon; similarly, you can use different techniques for different things.


“It is about the vibrational relationship between where you are and your desires.  Your emotions are the indicator of that relationship, and what you need to be doing to be closing the gap.”


This is something that I tell my clients and guide them with.  When you are looking to use a technique, it is just a tool for you to work with your vibration, as is everything else – actually, as is everything else in life.  In your experiences in life, you make choices and preferences and decisions – you are always moulding and adapting your vibration in all of these instances.  There is no moment in your existence when you are not influencing your vibration (for one reason, that is what you are: a physical extension of who you are on a deeper level).  Every thought that you are thinking, even the ones not in your conscious awareness, are shaping your vibration and what is coming into your life.

There is so much I can say about techniques, and oftentimes I do, especially in the teleseminars.  On the question of goals, affirmations and mantras, here are a few quick tips about them:

1 – Does it feel good when you think about the goal etc?  If not, why do you have it as a goal?  Because others want you to have it?  Ensure it is because you feel good about it.

2 – If it feels good, how can you tweak the goal (or affirmation or mantra or whatever you are using) so that it feels better?  Can you think of something more to this goal that you can add?  Something else?  More specificity?  A different colour?  More belief in what you can have?  What ways can it feel even better?

3 – If it’s an affirmation or mantra (i.e. “words”), there are certain words we have which are emotionally loaded.  How about “money”, or “soulmate” or “sex” for example.  Find the words that you have that feel the best for you, relative to what you are wanting, and put them in your affirmation or mantra.  Use modifiers to make it feel even better – words that make it feel even better, eg “my palatial mansion”, “my beautiful car”, “the woman/man of my dreams“, “deep peace” etc.

4 – Mantras can be different things to different people.  For some, they may be something they repeat to “get” something (such as a goal).  For others, they may use mantras to create a peaceful mind and be in the moment – it is more ‘state’ oriented than ‘goal’ oriented.  For example, they may repeat something whilst doing breathing exercises to orient themselves in their now.  If this is the case, then be aware of this and choose the words that best orient you in your now and your attention in the direction that you would like to be going.

5 – The goal which you visualise or affirm is relative to where you are at, vibrationally.  As you grow vibrationally and get closer to it, it can mean and feel differently.  Pay attention to your feelings.  You are an expanding being, and as you grow and expand, focus and include the things that feel best to you – similar to as mentioned above about making it feel better and better.

“It’s about raising your vibration, not about the ‘things’.  If you raise your vibration, the ‘things’ will come.

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Reconnecting on Facebook

In case you’re not aware, about a week ago, for some reason which I did not receive a clear answer on, my profile and the “Hemal Radia” page were deleted on Facebook.

I have a new “Hemal Radia” profile and page and you are welcome to connect at both, although I will look to have more interactions on the page.  They are at:

Hemal Radia Profile

Hemal Radia Page

Hemal Radia Page on Facebook

Manifesting & Law of Attraction Page

Although this was unaffected, if you are not on it, then feel free to check out the Manifesting & Law of Attraction Page

I look forward to connecting with you! 🙂

Other useful links include:

Hemal Radia Appreciation Group on Facebook, where they send out my quotes three times a week

Universal Law of Attraction Group on Facebook

Hemal Radia Twitter profile, where I ‘tweet’ many quotes and content

Download the FREE “Making 2010 Great For YOU!” audio

You are very, very good at what you do. Great insight, great wisdom & delivery that creates ah-ha moments. I really appreciate the gift of it Hemal. So much appreciation coming to you right now from me.

— Lena Mitchell Jasiak

For those of you who haven’t downloaded the audio of the recent “Making 2010 Great For YOU!” teleseminar, you can do so here!  This event was very popular and HUGELY appreciated, as you will see.  There is content at the start about making this a great year for you, followed by insights to questions submitted.

It was scheduled for an hour and ended up being two hours because there were so many questions and interactions on it!  There is a lot of information here and great answers to some great questions.  And it’s a FREE audio to download. 

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I love the way you are so effortless when you talk about the Law of Attraction, unlike so many other speakers who almost make it sound like something incomprehensible … You are doing much good Hemal! … and I feel really blessed to have connected with you here.  The content, which I always find really valuable because even though it is stuff that I mostly know (on a deeper level) … again, you simplify it and make it so easy to apply.

— Georgina Laros, South Africa


This is fabulous… so much good
information and you’re hitting on so many areas that resonate here.
Your presentation was great last time and it’s even better this time.
Thank you!

— Krystal, Southern California

Thank you so much, Hemal! You answered all of my
questions, and in doing so gave me guidance to move ahead. As a side
benefit I found peace within myself for the ways you have offered
guidance to deal with my quandries! I look forward to your continuing
guidance!

— Judy Green, USA

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There were countless questions answered, some included:

– How do I manifest loads of money when I have never experienced it before?  How do I stop feeling discouraged when I compare myself to others successes in manifesting?

– What do I do when I feel my soulmate and twin flame is with another?

– I have used goal setting in the past and at times it has worked and at other times not.  Can you please guide me on this and on staying positive?

– I know it’s best to think only of the present moment -“the Now” – but how do I focus and be positive as I continue to endure several simultaneous and overwhelming life-changing situations this year?

– What if we attract something which is contrary to the lessons we may have chosen to learn. eg, what if our path is to learn to be poor to serve the poor, but we want to be comfortable financially?

– What do you do about negative people bombarding your life?  They seem to be all around and pulling you down.

– What if what you would like to manifest is possible but it seems “mountains will have to move out of the way” or a miracle occur for it to happen?  Still keep believing?

– I am looking to meet a partner that I can share my world with as well as start a family. I have been dating and continue to meet men that show interest and similar goals but when I express my interest in a relationship things take a different direction.  What can I do?

– As a result of some things that have happened, I doubt I will ever be as successful and get as much money now.  I fear I will become lonely, lose my friends, and that they are judging me. That they have views about me that I won’t like.  Is there something that can be done?

Thank you Hemal for valuable conversation!
You are extraordinary person! Please, keep walking your special way!
Have fantastic 2010 year! !

— Olga, Lugansk, Ukraine

It was very insightful and inspiring. Thank you for sharing your wisdom to the world 🙂

— Karla M. Nashar, Indonesia