Oftentimes many believe that changing their “everyday” lives can be difficult.  Also, at the moment there is a lot of attention being placed in the world on scarcity and limited resources.  This post shows that it can start with spirit, and the physical changes.

Here I share a story about a nurse, who looks after babies born up to 16 weeks early, who has not only transformed her own life, but of those around her, including those at the hospital where she works.  Other nurses, patients, supervisors, and more, have all “felt the energy”.  She has very much applied inspiration, Law of Attraction, and “Manifesting”.

In her words she says:

I am a qualified Neonatal nurse and I look after babies born up to 16 weeks early, or any baby who is considered to be unable to be cared for by its mother.  So babies who have cardiac anomolies, hypothermia, hypoglycemia, birth abnormalities, babies requiring respiratory support, nutritional support, fractures due to delivery, babies having seizures, babies that dont feed, babies that have social problems, babies needing surgical interventions etc… the list is endless : )
(The pictures on this post are courtesy of Pamela)

Her name is Pamela Marsh and those of you on the group coaching calls will know her.  She is also a one-to-one client.

We have been working together for a few months and she has also been on the group coaching program.  We were interacting yesterday about some of the results she has been getting, including at her hospital, and thought it might be fun to share with others.

Some of the “Manifestations”

Some of what has been happening for her:

– Early on when we were interacting, within a couple of weeks, she attracted the car of her dreams (In her words: “I manifested an awesome car : ) “).  Originally she wasn’t sure how it would happen.  I gave her processes to focus on the car itself and let the details be taken care of.  They were, the “how” took care of itself.
– Parking spaces appearing when she goes out
– The other day she parked somewhere and someone came over and gave her a ticket for parking that they had already paid for
– Traffic lights that are green
– People making her cups of tea when she thinks about it
– This week she has been manifesting boxes of chocolates too

And, in her words:

Oh but you missed the best one of all.. In the beginning I had a desire to leave behind the life/relationship that was dragging me down, and that led me firstly to manifesting a super coach (Hemal!) that started guiding me in the right direction, and now i’m finding myself again.  The real happy, excited, unstoppable me and life just keeps getting better and better. ~ Thank you Hemal, you are fabulous : )

What Has Been Happening At Work

At her place of work what has been happening is:

– Other nurses feel inspired
– ‘Politics’ happen less, as everyone is more focused and busy on ‘feeling good’!
– There is a “great spirit”, and laughter can be heard!
– A consultant commenting: “I always know when you are here because I always hear laughing, laughter everywhere!  It’s so good.”
– Because people are too busy playing the games and the momentum builds, there is no time for comments such as “What are you so happy about?”

How Has She Done This?

In addition to the work we have done together, she created some ‘games’ to play with the other nurses in the ward.  The other nurses would find themselves being asked questions by her (Questions which they would find would change their focus!).  These questions would powerfully change the atmosphere of the ward.  They included:

– If you were going on a Hot Date this weekend, where would you be going and who with?
– If you were getting a cheque for £50,000, what would you do with it?
– If you were going on a Dream Holiday, what would it be like?
– If you were going away on a wild weekend for two, who would you take and where would you go?
– If you were going to the Oscars, what would you be wearing, how would you be going, what preparations would you make?
– Describe your Dream Man (or Woman)

As mentioned above, there would be a great spirit and a great energy.  Despite a situation or the resources you believe you have (or that you believe you don’t have!), when you change ‘you’, you draw all sorts of resources to you for things to happen.

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I hope you are having a wonderful week!

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Letting Your Body/Mind/Spirit Talk To You

As some of you may know (especially those of you who were there!), I was speaking last week in London and opening Perenna Fleming and Anne Walsh’s “You’ve Got Spiritual Voicemail” seminar on the Friday evening.  They also invited me to attend their one-day event on the Saturday, which was great fun.

One of the methods used during the day was “muscle testing”.  At times what they would do is ask themselves a question and based on the congruence of a physiological test, they would determine the answer.  For example they may have a participant put their arm out, ask a question, and gently press down on the participant’s arm.  If the answer was “Yes” the arm wouldn’t be able to be lowered by pushing down on it.  If the answer was a “No” then the arm would easily drop.

What is happening is the body/mind/spirit knows the answer and when the arm stays up or drops, it is based on the CONGRUENCE (or incongruence) within the system.  Similarly, they will also create a circle with their thumb and forefinger and insert the forefinger of the other hand inside the circle and ask a question and try to break outside of the circle.  If the answer was a “Yes” then because of the congruence of the energy, the circle couldn’t be broken.  If it was a “No” then it would be broken.

Over the years when interacting with people about food and diet, I have always said your body knows what is best for you.  Your body will tell you its congruence or incongruence to certain foods.

This also applies with anything and everything else.  Your body, mind and spirit are communicating to you in every moment.  They know what you need to do to have what you want.  The way you know is by your congruence and incongruence – i.e. your “alignment” – within yourself.

Getting in Tune with your Intuition

What this reminded me of was our internal congruence and alignment.  You have often heard me use the word “alignment” in aligning to what you want, the muscle testing is a physiological demonstration of it.  It happens on an internal level with your feelings also.

Your body, spirit, and mind KNOW THE ANSWERS.  And you can FEEL them.  It is in your skill in getting aware and familiar with the exact feeling/kinesthetic sensation.

As some of you may know, especially those on the group coaching calls where I have been mentioning this more regularly, I tend to incorporate my intuition with my other know-how and skills in working with others, whether in working one-to-one with others or on the group coaching calls.  When you are “right” with your intuition, you tend to have a congruent feeling attached to it.  If you yourself are working on your intution, you may want to have an awareness of a feeling when you are “right”.

Similarly, when manifesting, you will know the times that when you have gotten what you wanted, it has “felt” differently than when you didn’t (haven’t I been saying for years that it’s about the feeling?).  In likelihood, when you weren’t about to get something, it probably felt “weaker” energetically (sometimes this can still work out, though the “weak” feeling is an indication that the probabilities aren’t high).

When someone is wanting to attract a goal and I tell them to start making a list of thoughts that are resonant to that, the indication of whether you are heading closer to that is by how these thoughts that you are writing FEEL.  Do they feel better?  Do you feel more congruent about your goal?  Or does it feel like wishful thinking?  “Wishful thinking” is usually when you are finding thoughts around your goal but you do not quite yet believe it.  It will tend to feel “weaker” and there is more work to be done on it.  Identify why you do not believe it, what beliefs you have that do not enable it and address them (or feel free to work with me either one-to-one or on the group coaching to help you!).

Some people maythink that “thought-work” is pie in the sky.  As you can tell from what we have shared here, there is a physical consequence to every thought you have.  Whether it be within your body, or the manifestations you experience in your life.  That’s right, your thoughts matter.  And they are creating in your life.  Also, you know this, you know this from the experiences you have had in your life.

Ride the Wave!

As you start to build a congruence (“Alignment!”), and add more thoughts to it, you will start to find things happening.  You will feel clarity within yourself and within your actions and thinking.  You will see things easily and clearly.  You will be decisive.  This is what I would say is an indicator of when you are getting more and more into “alignment”, “into your flow”, etc.  And if you haven’t already, you will start to see synchronicities and manifestations.

Your job then is to ride the wave and keep building it.  It will transcend into other areas of your life and more will be happening.

The stream of wellbeing, the stream of possibilities, your ‘flow’, they are all waiting.  It’s just about you gently stepping on, relative to where you are at, and letting your flow carry you.  It will TAKE you, if you allow it.

Just to let you know that if you are on the Manifesting Excellence, you can download a “Money, You & the Law of Attraction” PDF from a teleseminar I did a couple of years ago.

It includes a selection of processes, techniques and questions to identify your underlying vibration around money or anything else. On the call this Saturday I will be going over it (the call is downloadable if you cannot attend it live).

To find out more, go to http://www.hemalradia.com/manifesting

Just a reminder that in a couple of weeks I’ll be speaking and answering questions at an event in London.

There is also a seminar the next day that friends of mine are running. For more information go to http://www.hemalradia.com/askhemal

I have to emphasise that there is limited availability on seating and it would be recommended to book early.

Many have been through some form of major experience, whether it be in having to move home, losing a job or a business not working out, a divorce or relationship change, a bereavement, or some other personal matter, and then found that it is not easy to ‘find themselves’. 

What can also happen after a major incident, besides the life change, is the carrying of emotions and any beliefs and perceptions as a result of this experience.

So someone comes out of an experience where they might feel lesser for it, perhaps having lost something on a physical level – whether it be possessions, finances, or a part of themselves.  As well as any potential ‘scarring’ they may have experienced, and being worse for wear.  Does this seem familiar?

Not to worry if it does.  The rest of this article will focus on the remedy of it. 

YOU ARE MUCH MORE THAN YOU SEE, AND MUCH MORE THAN WHAT HAS HAPPENED

My book talks about us being much more than the physical body that we are.  You are divinity in physical form.  You are energy.  And so much more.

All your desires and wants are already in form energetically, just not in physical form, yet.  Just because you have been through something traumatic, it does not mean anything has changed.  What has changed is your relationship to those things as a result of your beliefs and perceptions because of what you have been through.  Those thoughts of doubt that you have, they create a discord between where you are and where you want to be.  The more you doubt yourself, or have fear, or other thoughts incongruent with your desires, the stronger the emotional pain that you feel and the stronger the indication that you are off-course.  Move towards what feels less worse, and then towards what feels better.

Painful emotions are an indicator that you are off-track.  They are not here to punish you.  They are an indication, a guide, as to the direction to your light.

When you berate yourself and beat yourself up, notice how it feels?  And at other times when you are kinder to yourself and forgiving and allowing, notice how that feels?  The better it feels, the more you are facing (and heading in) the direction you want to be.

It is not what happens but your perception of it that affects you and your life.  And thus then also creating the possibilities in your next moment.

No matter what has happened, no matter what may appear to be ‘damaged’ in physical (or emotional) form, it does not need to affect you or your life.  This is an abundant Universe with all possibilities.  Everything is fluctuating as energy and all possibilities exist.  You literally mould the reality around you with your thoughts.  When you have doubts and fears, they are projected into your reality.  When you have an assuredness, that no matter how, things will be fine, and you genuinely feel this, the way is more likely to be easier. 

The best vibration to have is not one where you are imposing on the Universe to do something for you, but one where you have a knowingness of your own divinity and wellbeing.  The Universe corresponds to the vibration that you offer – whether it be in reflecting you being of ‘need’, or in reflecting the knowingness of your power.  Two different vibrations with different reflections from the Universe.

It may seem that you have lost things dear to you – whether it be a home, a business, work, loved ones, children, or others.  Realise that nothing is ever lost and the connection is eternal.  You may not be together in physical at this moment, and there’s nothing to say you won’t be again, but put your focus on your forward path. 

WHAT YOU WANT DOES NOT REQUIRE PHYSICAL RESOURCES TO START

The vibration of looking at the past and perceiving ‘loss’ is not as conducive to you attracting what you want as looking to the future and knowing fresh possibilities are ahead (including with the same people, if you so choose).  The possibilities are there, and they enter your life as quickly as you create the space for them.  They do not necessarily require physical resources, they start with you creating the energetic space and your alignment for them.  Then they happen.  And in your building awareness and confidence, more come.

But when you look back and focus, whether consciously or unconsciously, on what is lost, you are offering the vibration of loss, and this creates an energetic barrier between you and what you want.  The barrier is as strong as your emotion is about it.

Realise what happened has actually served you in that you have responded by growing on an energetic level.  You now just need the alignment on the physical level in your realisation of your divinity and that all is (and will be) well. 

TAP INTO THE PLAYFUL, CREATIVE WONDER WITHIN YOU

So realise, no matter what, all possibilities exist.  Remember that playful wonder when you were a child of getting to create and build again.  We often forget this, and often don’t allow ourselves this because we think we are too old or that it’s not possible to create again or that we do not have the resources.  These are ALL beliefs.  The Universe is a malleable energy that responds to your thoughts.

Play with the creative wonder that all possibilities are (and they always are) open to you.  What would you do, be and create?  What do you get to do?  How?  With whom?  Do this just for the sake of raising your energy.  Do this consistently and long enough – without doubting or fearing, as much as possible, and notice the physical manifestations that occur in your experience as the shoots of recovery.

The Universe never forgot you and has never not loved you.  You only created the separation through your feelings of unworthiness, hopelessness, destitution, and anything else which is far, far, far away from the joyful, loving creator that you are.  Life can be difficult sometimes.  But within you is an inner spirit and glow, and a love, which when you radiate from within, lights up the life you experience.  The intention of this article is to remind you of it.

Remind yourself of what is worthy about you.  Of what is valuable about you.  Of what is lovable about you.  Of what is priceless about you.  When you start seeing it, the Universe can start reflecting it back.  See yourself as a unique aspect of divinity.  There will never be another like you, ever.  Bask in that place and live from that place.  From that perspective, all that seemed painful will change.

Life is like a river.  Where you put your attention and energy now will influence what flows to you next.  Old waters will pass.  New, fresh waters will enter your experience.  You have choice in what you experience.  You choose by what you feel and expect.

There are free resources and links at http://www.hemalradia.com, as well as Hemal’s Manifesting Excellence Group Coaching programme and Working One-to-One with him.  Free Chapters to his book “Find You & You Find Everything: The Secrets to the Law of Attraction” are also available.

Attracting Money using Appreciation: A Real-Life Example

Want to hear an example of how someone used appreciation and gratitude in attracting money to the sum of $350 within a few days?

I was approached by someone wanting to be a new client a week ago, whom I have been working with since then.  She doesn’t speak English very well, and so she preferred our interactions to be via email and audio replies which I sometimes send out to clients.  She is also on Manifesting Excellence and has been listening to the audios there.

She is in a job where she is not happy, in a relationship and living at a place where she would like to be able to have some contemplation away from.

The financial means to do so would be very helpful to her.  Hence, when she got in touch she wanted to get into her flow and attract work opportunities, financial resources, and more.

Getting a Sense of What’s Valuable to Work on Now

When I start working with someone I get a sense right away on where they are energetically and the steps for them to take at that moment.  In her case, I got her to start making lists of what she appreciated in her life.  I felt at the time that this would be the most useful thing for her.

I get a sense of what is most valuable for the client at the time, and also what they would enjoy the most as I want people to enjoy themselves, have fun, and be in their flow.

She was feeling the benefits of my suggestions in how she felt about herself right away and would tell me so.

I amped it up further and suggested she did the appreciation more frequently in the day, such as every few hours when she could, or even more frequently than that.  I also shared this approach in more detail on the Manifesting Excellence private group.

Shift the Energy, and Things Around You Shift Too

Things started happening in her life.  She felt more energy, she felt more of a purpose in her life.  And no longer did she allow the work that she hadn’t been enjoying to get her down, because she had something much bigger and better to focus on.

Within days, at the start of this week, she attracted a situation where she won $350 as well as various other happenings.

I wanted to share this example in how making subtle shifts in your energy can change things around you, including in attracting money.

Noticing the things that you DO have in your life is a great place to start in focusing on what is PRESENT in your life.

One, it magnifies your attention to what you DO have, and secondly, if you are focusing on what is present, that is time and attention that you WON’T be spending on lack – a two-fold effect on the energy that you are putting out.

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When many go through challenges and strife, it may be very easy to believe that they are alone and that there is nothing and no one on their side. This can very much be an easy view to have from our ‘physical’ perspective. Especially when we have always been taught to only believe what we can see.

There is more in this Universe that is unseen than is seen. For everything you see, there is an energetic and unseen component. Nothing happens by chance. Everything is ‘energy’ and has a vibration.

There is more in this Universe that is unseen than is seen. You get to have revealed to you what you are ready to see by what you believe.

For everything you do not see in your life, such as the people you would like to have around you or the prosperity you would like, there is an unseen component that already exists. But, when you focus on the absence of it, that component does not manifest into a tangible physical experience. In fact, you manifest the opposite because that is where your attention is.

This Universe loves you, adores you, you are its child and expression and it lives through you. It wants you to succeed. And when you do, it does too.

This Universe is your friend. It cannot be any other way because you are an expression and an aspect of it. There is no separation between you and it. It is like your kidney disowning the rest of you. You are all and one, and interconnected. There are no hardships, boundaries or separations, other than those created.

The Universe is full of diversity and choice and you get to experience the reality you choose, and you choose it by what you focus upon. Along the way, there may be stumbles and happenings which may surprise you; they will be indicators of tweaks you can make to improve your alignment and flow. When something surprises you, it is an opportunity to adjust your attention to what is important to you and BE from it. The Universe soon corresponds to your beingness by way of physical manifestations.

In a world where it can appear to feel easy to be isolated and alone, remember that inherent in everything within you and around you is an interconnection and an energy. An energy which could also be metaphysically labelled as ‘love’. Put your attention on this. Feel it within. Live from that place. Then notice the situations that come your way from these subtle shifts you make.  

The Universe IS listening to you. It never hasn’t. But as with any friend you speak with, make sure your message is clear. The Universe hears you through your emotions. Be clear what you feel about what you want, and keep out of your vibration what you do not want by keeping your attention on what you DO want. Your friend, the Universe, loves you and is on your side and will correspond, without fail, every time. Your friend is always listening. Just be mindful of what you are communicating through your thoughts.